My theme in 2020 is: value, which means that I don't have a clear basic value disk at present, which is what I expect to achieve this year.
I used to be a teacher of Chinese as a foreign language, and my orientation was very vertical. After I resigned from the university and went it alone, my goal became more clear. I became the most famous and expensive independent teacher in Suzhou, and things really developed in that direction. But for very practical reasons, it stopped halfway. In the fourth year of my long-distance relationship with my husband, we decided to settle in Macao and get married, so I began to live in Macao as a relative.
I can't work because of policy reasons. Compared with before, both the workload and income of private contact classes are Mao Mao rain. In my husband's words, the greater significance is to maintain my mental health.
So I started a free life and had a great choice: I didn't expect to earn money from my family. My family has just established a new housewife, and she has a lot of actions. I have a lot of time without children. My husband's famous saying is that marrying a wife is not to let her work at home, but to let her do whatever she wants.
In the two years before I gave birth to my baby, I devoted all my time to various "projects" that I loved:
Transform our small rental house: throw furniture, buy furniture, pick up second-hand furniture, modify furniture, organize and store it, learn color matching, practice sewing …
When I have almost finished packing at home, I can enjoy myself. I want to study my own recipes to make what I want to eat. It is too expensive to buy food in Macao and too troublesome to buy food in Zhuhai, so I want to grow my own vegetables, and then I started to grow vegetables on the rooftop …
With a lot of time, I will continue to write the feelings before the official account of WeChat, and then enter the headline number, ask and answer …
Collect the experience of chatting with young people when I was a bosom sister, and make a website to help confused young people …
Continue to help my husband's Portuguese farm sell hundreds of liters of olive oil every year, and the family business is slowly starting …
In the long run, it's impossible for me not to learn Portuguese, and the online and offline classes will be uninterrupted …
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Looking back now, perhaps it is this freedom that makes me lose my bondage. I am a person who likes to try new things and set new goals to challenge. I have a strong motivation for self-achievement. When I have reached the point where I can easily do well in my original teaching field, this matter is no longer a huge challenge, so other possibilities are more attractive to me. The two years of living freely in Macao, seemingly without the pressure of supporting my family and letting myself go, have become two years when I gradually lost my focus.
After having children, I began to rethink how to concentrate. My new mother had the most stressful year. With a little spare time, I began to do some things that are the easiest for me, and share the related contents of Chinese teaching on Zhihu. At the same time, I finally finished writing a popular science book for teaching majors and published an e-book.
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I also bought many courses, including various marketing, small programs, copywriting, Tik Tok courses and Chaos University. . .
But it is still vague. I began to realize that I needed to re-analyze and position myself.
So, in the first week when I sent my baby to a full-time nursery class, I signed up for Uncle Akiba's personal brand private education class, and then I found the treasure girl Zeng Yuyue among my classmates. When I saw the target class in Yu Yue's article, I immediately felt that this thing was too useful for me. My brain is like wool. I want to achieve too many things, but there is no specific path. The annual target class is just right for me.
The goal for the whole year is to complete eight tasks. The first task is to list your expectations, which is easy because I know exactly what I want. The biggest expectation this year is to find your own core values, position yourself, find the label, and concentrate on your efforts. On the contrary, it was the value auction that started shortly after the camp that touched me even more.
As soon as the auction rules came out, I felt that this was a virtual reappearance of my chaos in recent years, and I could not repeat the same mistakes in the game. I want this and that, and I may get nothing in the end. So I chose three winners, and the others didn't participate, saving bullets. Say to yourself, before the three standards appear, other standards are smoke bombs, don't shoot, save bullets; Once three items appear, 5000 yuan will be spent on the auction, because I don't have any other goals to spend this 5000 yuan. Finally, I really got one, and I don't regret arguing too little after the end. It's good that I spent all my money and got what I wanted. I am determined in this competition, as if I want to live the past few years all over again and concentrate on one goal. It's a pity that time can't go back, but the game made me feel a sense of concentration, locked in the goal and determined to win. After the game, I am very much looking forward to continuing this feeling into real life, and I will set a good goal for this year.
It is very useful to clarify the importance of each core expectation in the next tasks 2 and 3. In the second round of thinking, my core expectation of developing a training course was shaken, just because I investigated the importance of this article and found that I was not sure how much value this course could bring to users, so I needed to investigate first and then set up a project. It's also yongcheng's comments that have saved me at least half a year's detours, so I don't have to wait for bad feedback from users. Now that this expectation has been reconsidered, how to modify it, my annual goal has entered the 2.0 era.
Task four, list your thoughts. I think this step is to treat your restless friends. Because many people will think about the expectations of the whole year in their minds, some will write them down, and most of them will not form specific steps, so there is no way to implement them step by step. At the end of the year, the national flag is still there and will continue to be the national flag of next year. I used to have many such flags, because I didn't know there was such an operation as drawing a map and hitting monsters. Now I have listed my thoughts and made clear what I can't do, what work I have to do and what help I need. I have acted in the second round of thinking, found an industry coffee to help me as a searchlight, and combed things that were not clear before, and I feel more confident. I wonder if you can have a clearer understanding by consulting the big coffee in the industry? I know, but because I didn't write this step down, I wasn't on the execution list, not even on the execution list, and I didn't take any action. I was so stupid before!
Clear thinking, the task of 567 is relatively easy. For me, the most important thing is to guard against risks and build an arsenal, because I am the kind of person who stops and sits on the side of the road to think about whether this road is right or not when encountering problems. This kind of risk has hit me countless times. At present, the level of arsenal is low and needs to be continuously improved.
Looking back after the seven tasks, what moved me most was the live talk for more than three hours, because I got shot the most:
For example, I want to face the future, not the past, but I can face the future, but I have been in the rookie mode, and I will not go if I get stuck, so I basically don't go to specific goals.
For example, in recent years, I have spent a lot of time on investments that are difficult to take refuge in, investments that are afraid of difficulties, and investments that develop in disorder. It really hurts to see this clearly! Procrastination is serious. I delay and attack myself at the same time. Failing to reach the set goal leads to a super bad mood. Sometimes even a bad mood is my life. I can't enjoy life and enjoy the time with my family. It seems that a lot of things have been tossed around, but there is no efficient output. In fact, it is a low level of effort and ineffectiveness. Without considering what kind of person you become under the goal thinking, without systematic efforts and purposeful investment, you can't even insist on exercising, the most basic thing of keeping healthy, because you waste a lot of time, then attack yourself, and then feel that exercise can't take up the rest of the time, and then a vicious circle. . .
For example, there are basically no strategies on the path of life value development. When people reach middle age, they haven't realized that this is the key stage of forming the basic value disk, and they are still squandering their freedom, let alone looking for a bigger system.
After listening to the whole series of lectures, I finally know the root cause of my present situation, and then I will change little by little. The annual target class not only makes you see the problem clearly, but also gives you the tools to solve it. It's amazing. Therefore, completing the task and ending the camp is not the end, but just the beginning. Take these tools, continue to reflect, repeatedly scrutinize, and change while walking. On the way to the goal, the energy that the goal class gives you every year will always support you to run to yourself.
Follow the course to do tasks, hand in homework, ask for comments, and think about what tasks have not been done and what problems have not been thought about every day. Looking at the two-week process in this way is a small goal in itself: to gain the energy and methods to move forward in full accordance with the target class for next year. In the end, I did it. I won the initiative award when I closed the camp, just as I said in a small group: on the surface, because the course is not cheap, I can't waste money; Essentially, it is the key point when you are poor, and you should do it with your heart anyway. Therefore, the completion of the course task itself is reflected in a concrete and subtle way: what you really want will be realized.