Text/Uchiha Itachi Kawaii
As time goes by and the years change, everyone will grow up and get old. When you are old, what do you rely on to support the elderly?
0 1 Aunt Ling: Hold your hand and grow old with your son. My love is my support.
Aunt Ling and she are a young couple and a golden couple. They went to the countryside together, suffered and tired, and raised two children. They stumbled all the way and hugged each other for half their lives.
Aunt Ling is not young now, and sometimes she has backache, but Li Shu is still hale and hearty. Two people rented a field, planted some vegetables and fruits, made them at sunrise and rested at sunset, and they lived a good life.
Both daughters are married outside the province, so they are usually busy at work and don't often come back to visit.
It rained a while ago, and Aunt Ling accidentally slipped. After all, I am old and broke after a fall.
Li Shu quickly called an ambulance and took good care of it inside and out. Stick a plaster, fix it, and help each other go home.
Aunt ling said, how about it? I won't tell the children. They are busy. It's no use worrying and they can't come back. ?
When children grow up and have their own families, the burden on their shoulders is very heavy. Fortunately, I still have a wife. They have been together all their lives, and they can talk to each other when they are old.
However, after all, I am getting older and older, and sometimes I can't take care of weeding in the garden.
We'll talk about it then. If not, why don't we hire a nanny? Aunt and uncle are over. They are not worried about the future, but they will miss their daughters and grandchildren. ? It's far away, and it's not convenient to come and go, so I can only watch more videos. ?
Aunt Yue: My husband died young, and my son and daughter-in-law are my family.
Shortly after Aunt Yue was in her thirties, her husband died in a car accident. With her son and a sum of compensation, she simply gave up the idea of getting married and trained her son to grow up wholeheartedly.
More than 20 years have passed, and my son is married. Daughter-in-law Xiaojing is gentle and generous, and is very kind to Aunt Yue. After having a granddaughter, Aunt Yue will take care of her little granddaughter.
Granddaughter also clings to her, bite by bite? Grandma? It's crisp and sweet, and it makes Aunt Yue's face blossom.
Although she lives with her son and daughter-in-law, Aunt Yue does not interfere with their freedom. When she gets up early on weekends, she goes for a walk in the vegetable market or community.
Children have children's lives, and she has her own.
The daughter-in-law advised her to learn to dance square dance. At first, she felt sick. After watching more slowly, she began to join. Sometimes she goes out to dance at night and moves her arms and legs. It seems that the whole person is young.
Daughter-in-law also taught her to pay by mobile phone, bound with a bank card, and there was not much money. Aunt Yue thinks it is very convenient to learn. Now, young people know much more than then.
Today, I really didn't even think about it before. ? Aunt Yue said,? Once my husband died, I felt that this was my life, and my son and daughter-in-law gave me new hope. Now I just feel that this kind of life is really happy. ?
I'm Dink. I have money, I'm not worried.
Aunt Min is Dink, definitely.
Aunt Min is afraid to step into marriage. Her parents have been quarreling, blaming each other and sometimes fighting.
Such a family makes Aunt Min dare not believe in beautiful love. She watched her mother work hard for herself and watch her mother compromise. I couldn't bear my mother's anger. My mother yelled at her. If it weren't for you, I would have divorced. ?
Aunt Min is afraid of getting married and becoming like a mother after having children.
But under the pressure of parents, Aunt Min got married once.
That uncle began to say he didn't want children, Dink. He never thought about getting married, but he changed his mind a year later.
Aunt Min got a clean divorce.
Aunt Min, who got rid of the shackles of marriage, began to practice yoga and raised a cat.
On weekends, she will invite friends to have afternoon tea together, and also practice yoga quietly at home and slap the cat.
Without a family, Aunt Min worked harder, saved all the money she earned and arranged insurance for herself and her parents.
I can't trust others. I have myself, that's enough. ?
Actually, my life is quite good. Although others are happy to have children and daughters, I choose the one that suits me best. ?
For the future, Min Yi also looks very pale. She said that if she is old, she will live with some friends and take care of each other, so she won't feel lonely.
People will always get old, depending on their partners, children and themselves. Everyone's choices are different.
No matter what choice you make, you must understand and grasp the appropriate sense of limits and boundaries. Live your own life and make your own decisions, you can live more comfortably and live a better life.
When you are old, which way of providing for the aged will you choose? Welcome to leave your comments.
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