I happen to be from Meizhou No.5 Middle School. First of all, welcome beautiful women to marry in Meizhou, and wish you a long and happy life. There's really no engagement here. When I got married, I didn't know how much gift money to say. Generally speaking, you will get a good sign of a number like 9 or 8. The poor have a life, the rich have a life, and the rich enjoy life, no matter how much money they have. Son preference is hard to say now. Hakkas pay more attention to thrift, respect the old and love the young. Talking and laughing with the old man will make the old man happy. Houses generally depend on young people, and old people don't have much money. After all, this is not a very rich area. In addition, there is no special custom, everything is simple, and extravagance is not supported.