It's time to go to bed at night, but Tong Tong didn't mean to brush his teeth. So my mother suggested, "Let's play a game to see whether I take a shower or you brush your teeth first." Tong Tong is not interested: "I don't want to compete!" "I know why you stopped playing." Mother stopped and heard the volume of the TV set turned down outside. Knowing that Tong Tong was paying attention to what he said in bed, she continued the topic slowly. "You must be afraid of losing, but I am also afraid of losing. As long as you don't come, I will win ... "Tong Tong's footsteps in slippers immediately sounded outside bathroom door. "To be honest, I'm really afraid that you will come to compete with me. I'm still thinking, you mustn't come. After a while, my son brushed his teeth and went out singing.
But so far, the play is not over. Mom said in the bathroom, "You move so fast, how can I compete with you?" ! Remember, don't turn off the light to sleep first, otherwise, I will lose everything. "Evil! The light went out.
It is children's nature to be competitive, so it is very important for children to get the experience of winning in the competition. At this time, if adults can give in modestly, it is easy for children to get a successful experience after paying a little. While children are willing to accept it, adults have also achieved their goals.
Although Xiao Xin knows the importance of getting enough sleep, when it's time to go to bed, he habitually puts it off for a while. Unfortunately, Xiao Xin's happiness at noon didn't last forever. Because I didn't sleep at school, my eyes were exhausted after school in the afternoon, and my delicate and clear double eyelids became overlapping and in a daze. Despite this, Xiao Xin, who is playful, stubbornly insisted: "The teacher said that primary school students will go to bed at 9 pm!" Mom didn't face him head-on. She only used Xiao Xin's CD to adjust the volume, secretly set the alarm clock behind him for half an hour, and then accurately reminded the children to work and rest according to the "new" time: "It's half past eight! Take a bath! " "It's 9 o'clock, turn off the lights and go to bed. Good night ... "Because of this tampered alarm clock, Xiao Xin successfully went to bed early for half an hour.
For a child who has the habit of punctuality, observing the time agreement is indeed a loophole that parents can take advantage of. As long as we make a little use of this characteristic of children and hint at the existence of time at an appropriate time, children can obey the opinions of adults without resistance.