At present, there are more than 70 pieces of pork ribs and more than 40 pieces of beef brisket, and only a few pieces can be bought, more than 30 pieces of seasonal strawberries and green peppers and green onions 10. ...

For a family of three, lunch and dinner are calculated according to the minimum configuration of one meat and one vegetable. Three meals a day, 200 yuan is only enough for two or three days at most.

What's more, children need to supplement various nutrients when they grow up, such as chicken, fish, meat, eggs, vegetables and fruits.

So 200 yuan is only enough for a day or two. When you go to the supermarket, there will be dozens of dollars left.

But a stay-at-home mother spent nearly half a month with 200 yuan!

In order to supplement the children's nutrition, she used the money saved between her teeth to give them eggs+vegetables+minced meat.

While facing the pickles that have gone down more than half of the jar, I held the baby in my left hand, freeing my right hand to pick a few pickles for a bite of rice and a few pickles for a bite of rice. ...

In a few minutes, I ate a precious meal in her busy life with her baby all day.

On such a day, she didn't do it occasionally to lose weight, but she insisted on it for 12 days!

Even more shocking, click on the comments and you will find:

She is not the only one who lives such a sad life. There are many such stay-at-home mothers.

It took 200 yuan for half a month to be scolded for losing my family.

They live worse than nannies.

Below that video, a mother's reply was particularly eye-catching:

Who would have thought? Netizens thought she was exaggerating at first, until she gave such an explanation:

The child eats alone, and she buys rotten tomatoes herself, 50 cents a catty and 2 yuan a pile of rotten vegetables.

When you come back, cut off the bad parts and fry a pot of food for one day, and the cost is only 3 yuan.

Rice 1 12 yuan buys 50 kg, and A Jin only needs more than 2 yuan.

How hard is it to swallow a kilo of rice?

It's not that she can't eat such unimaginable food for half a month or a month, but for three and a half years, in order to help her family pay off debts.

Sadly, in the face of everyone's concerns about her health, she also optimistically comforted everyone:

These amazing things may be individual cases, but what makes me even more distressed is that the overall situation is not much better.

In the mother's reply, although the cost is different from one week in 200 yuan to three or four days in 200 yuan to a supermarket in 200 yuan, the same thing is:

Without looking carefully, you will find two words written in the cracks: "child."

For the sake of the children, I eat so sparingly, especially in other aspects.

I haven't bought new clothes for a long time, and I'm willing to throw away my cosmetics because I can't dig them out at all. The bag is still the same, and the edges are worn out when you look closely.

Children's clothes should use the latest materials and fabrics, and toiletries should use big brands no matter how expensive. Safety is the most important. As long as it is good and expensive, you should also buy it.

Before giving birth to a child, which mother is not a fairy.

The latest clothes, shoes and bags need a manicure every once in a while.

After spending 200 yuan, I have to go to the online celebrity store to punch in after eating a big meal.

After giving birth to a child, consumption plummeted.

Life is just the present, and the nearest place is the distant place you can't go.

Can you imagine?

A stay-at-home mother, traveling for the first time in her life, suffered from depression because of long-term hard work and taking care of her baby. Her family felt sorry for her.

It is not the worst thing for a stay-at-home mother to save herself to the extreme and downgrade her consumption.

Let them go through the heart, there is no economic source:

Every time I ask my husband for living expenses, my self-esteem is trampled underfoot.

Palm up

Humble and humble

Liu Mintao, an actress who is famous for her plays such as Pretender and Nirvana in Fire, said such a little thing in her speech "Middle-aged Rebellion":

During my seven years as a stay-at-home mother, I once traveled to Japan with my ex-husband and saw an ice cream shop in front of Kiyomizu Temple.

At that time, she longed for a matcha ice cream and was penniless, but she never asked her husband for it.

Matcha ice cream is a small dessert that my husband can get at his fingertips. In her eyes, even looking at people's faces and breathing is hard to say.

With such a star, it is even more difficult to be a full-time mother of ordinary people.

Every time I ask my husband for living expenses, I keep doing psychological construction and asking for help online.

See if there are any so-called high emotional intelligence and humorous ways to get the living expenses without embarrassing yourself.

Obviously, it is to get the advance payment of normal family expenses, but it seems to be reaching out for her husband's charity, and the gesture is even more humble than that of a paid worker.

Source: @ I was shocked.

This humbleness further encouraged her husband's arrogance. One man even angered his wife: "Wipe your mouth with a paper towel, never use a rag, extravagance and waste!" "

Counting a tissue, there is not even a few cents. The mutual affection between husband and wife and the hard work of children and mothers are not even worth a few cents in his eyes!

There is also a man who pays the living expenses one by one, and the money is not enough, even letting his wife post it herself!

Aunt Su, a housewife who ran away from home all over the Internet last year, said in an interview that her husband would be accurate to every dollar.

If she can't remember the whereabouts of any money, her husband will sharply ask, "Are you spending it for your mother and your brother?"

Before marriage, they all vowed, "I will support you."

As a result, I stared at you after marriage: "I paid for you!" "

You regard him as the child's father and comrade-in-arms, but he regards you as the object of poverty alleviation.

What's even more chilling is that after a busy day, he comes back with all kinds of complaints:

"Why isn't the meal ready yet? Why is the house so messy? What did you do at home all day? "

You can't help but retort, "What about you? Come back for dinner every day, play with your mobile phone, sleep, and make your home a hotel? "

As a result, people said, "I make money, and my name is written on the property certificate." Don't you know who is staying in the hotel? "

Even if you keep your housework in order, people still don't like you.

In a Korean program, a husband disliked his wife for taking care of the baby at home for many years, neglected body management and became fat and ugly, which made him lose face.

Compared with her husband's complaints and disgust, what is even more terrible is:

Living with such a humble attitude for a long time, many mothers not only lose the courage to refute, but also constantly reflect on whether they are not doing well enough.

Bao Wenjing was humble to the dust in her marriage.

Because of Bao Beier's jokes, he lost weight crazily; Cleanliness is almost morbid, just because I am afraid of being told that I can't do housework full time.

So that when I received the invitation of the program "My Wife's Romantic Travel 2", my first reaction turned out to be: "I finally don't have to clean up."

If for some stay-at-home mothers, self-reflection makes them physically and mentally exhausted, but it is still tolerable:

Influenced by her husband, the child's disgust and contempt for them is the deepest knife in his heart.

On the variety show, Rebecca's son not only said to his mother, "I only know how to spend money indiscriminately and waste my father's money all day";

And called her a "pig head" and hit her.

Every word and tone of the child reveals disgust and even disdain for her mother's "incompetence".

All grievances are endured for the children, but the children are ungrateful.

Now this home, which everyone dislikes and thankless, is no longer the beautiful home I imagined when I gave up my job and ruined my career.

The cheapest labor force

Most willing to pay

Is a stay-at-home mother really a worthless person in the eyes of her family who only knows how to spend money and do some housework?

In the movie "Half the Sky", all stay-at-home mothers hear all day is "What you do is no big deal" and "We can do without you" ...

One day, she finally got up the courage and chose to run away from home. As a result, the whole family found that life was completely out of order.

No one cooks breakfast, no one does homework with the children, no one brings tea and water to the father-in-law, no one presses the feet of the mother-in-law, no one washes clothes, irons clothes and buys food. ...

After marriage, men go to work, and women are nutritionists, children's aunts, live-in nannies, etc. And one person does several jobs.

The working hours of working mothers are nine to six, which is hard work.

The working hours of stay-at-home mothers are 007, and they are always on standby.

Life has no end, everything is important and urgent.

Their contribution can't be measured by money and value at all.

I sincerely hope that every man can see, understand and cherish the efforts of stay-at-home mothers.

I hope that the example of "200 yuan lasted for half a month" will never appear on any full-time mother again.