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Looking back a little, last week's plan, I successfully adhered to three things every day: reading books, code words and reading English. Reading is a personal hobby. In order to grow up quickly, I quantified myself. Codewords also want to record life. Many things will be forgotten with the passage of time, and only records can leave a mark on the years. English is partly because I like it, and partly because I hope my vocabulary can keep up with my children.

In the process of implementation, I found that I couldn't make too many plans. Fortunately, I only have three things to do every day. Everything else is a plan. Do it when you have time, and don't do it when you don't have time. Nevertheless, I still feel that time is too hasty, and I chase after the task every day to complete it. I don't feel at ease. I don't want to live a part of my study, part of my housework and part of my blank life. I have no time to pay attention to the people and things around me, let alone talk about clouds and clouds.

What's the problem? It seems that electronic products take up more of my time. Get up in the morning, habitually turn on the phone to surf the Internet and watch the news. Before you know it, you should make breakfast. Order food by mobile phone in the morning. I have been online for a long time and often read online recipes. It takes time and energy to buy food and cook. A smiling face and a good meal are what I try to provide to my children every day. At noon, sometimes it will affect the lunch break because of brushing the mobile phone. In the afternoon and evening, I will also brush my mobile phone from time to time. Sometimes when I am reading a book, I send messages on WeChat, and when I come back, it also affects the efficiency of time use.

In this case, I need to strengthen the management of mobile phones. The method is as follows: don't brush your mobile phone when you wake up, just look at what to do that day. Watch your mobile phone after breakfast, lunch and dinner. I think others will call if they have something urgent. Besides, it's no big deal to come to me.

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I didn't interfere with my child's online class at home during the holiday, but I found that he used his mobile phone for a long time and had some habits, so I didn't remind him much. He doesn't read much and doesn't exercise much, which worries me more. There is no big change at present, and I am a little discouraged. I don't want to say anything more. I will ban myself more this week.

I want my children to exercise more. First of all, do you exercise much? Obviously not. This week, when there are few people in the morning, I'm going to exercise outside. Just stagger the child's wake-up time after seven o'clock and let him master the time of going to bed late and getting up early.

A few days ago, I heard two mothers talking about their adolescent sons, saying that children want their parents not to interfere with their children's study and life. One of the children secretly read a novel in the middle of the night one month before the college entrance examination. After being discovered by my mother, I didn't criticize too much, but pointed out the problems and reminded my children that the college entrance examination needs to be fully prepared at present. The other child is a girl, and the mother is also very calm, letting the child grow up, and the child is also very satisfied with it. Although the grades are average, the children are full of happiness. From this, I think the freer the life of children, the better.

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See a paragraph of Lin Zexu, the general idea is not to leave too much property for children. If children and grandchildren, like me, have money to do, be virtuous and have more money, they will lose their ambition; My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. What do you do with money? Stupid people get more money and their interests increase. I quite agree with this sentence.

In the usual communication with children, I also expressed my personal views. I will spare no effort, work hard and train my children persistently, but I will love myself more after my children become adults or learn.

Children have to fight for their own lives, and I won't give too much assistance, especially financially. At present, the child still understands my thoughts, and he has seen my efforts in his growth. I am willing to give up a lot and put up with a lot for him. May the children be self-reliant in the future.