Dinner in China is different from that in the west. The uniqueness is that although the dishes need to be rich, the "board" seems to be more important. In a word, the beauty of the 3354 New Year's Eve dinner is not the "rice" but the "board". Dinner can be the best way to communicate with friends and relatives, or it can be a suitable stage for business rivals to meet and negotiate. We usually talk about so-called contacts, so-called social relations, so-called business and transactions, and finally we can't get around the dinner. In a Chinese-style dinner, we can see the political interests and social relations behind it through the characters in the dinner. Because in interpersonal communication, eating is never a simple meal, but a complex network of relationships and interest chains.

The most famous dinner in the history of China was the "Hongmen Banquet" that Xiang Yu invited Liu Bang to eat. In The Legend of the Hongmen Banquet, which was released at the end of 20 1 1, Hong Kong film director Li Rengang recreated a thrilling fighting scene. It's a pity that he didn't fully appreciate China's food culture and turned a dinner into a chess game. It is also a hidden murder, but it is a little less human. Therefore, the Hongmen banquet must be a dinner, but it is not a simple dinner, but a cover set by Xiang Yu, just to test whether Liu Bang wants to be king. In the dinner, it is not a cheerful atmosphere that permeates the guests and friends, but a treacherous and ferocious infighting. This meal, the whole process is ups and downs, thrilling and legendary. However, in the end, the game setters failed to achieve the goal of setting up the game, which made the entrants get away with it, and finally made the dinner rewrite history, which led to the strong Xiang Yu "taking over the Wujiang River from the black widow of Youbu" and Liu Bang taking over the end of the world. All the variables come from the hongmen banquet, which has been deeply touched for many years.

It can be seen that eating is a small matter, and going out is a big thing. The control of this situation is far beyond the control of ordinary people, because there are often mysteries behind complex situations. If you want to be a real dinner master, wisdom and strategy are the basic skills you must practice. You should seize the right moment in the office, otherwise, you will be ruthlessly eliminated. In addition to the typical "Hongmen Banquet", there are countless other examples in history. For example, the king of Qin hosted a banquet for Lin Xiangru in Mianchi, but Lin Xiangru jumped in, totally embarassed. In contrast, Song Taizu Zhao Kuangyin's "relieving the military after drinking a glass of wine" can be said to be a chess game. For thousands of years, it has become a classic textbook of dinner politics. Let's put aside the negative influence of Song Taizu on the Northern Song Dynasty, but it is often praised by later generations and widely circulated.

Although the current rice is not full of traps, it is also indispensable to fight with wits. For China people, the way to eat and drink is also the way to communicate with others. At this point, China people and westerners have cultural differences in their diets. As Yi Zhongtian said, China people like to eat, not because China people are delicious, but because of the group consciousness at the core of China's cultural thought. Many times, we have to admit that people who get along well at dinner are usually people who get along well in officialdom or business. In short, the Chinese-style dinner is full of university questions, seemingly full of laughter, a cordial dinner, but the sound of war is faintly audible. People who don't know knowledge will only lick the bitterness of failure in the dinner.