The first sentence describes the scene of bright red blood scattered on the ground, and the second sentence means that the body is dead and the ground is over. You Sanjie has a dusty world. In just over ten years, the lush glory has come to an abrupt end, like a meteor flying alone from nowhere and flashing into the heavy night. At that moment, the bright light seemed to penetrate the sky.
I do feel a little respectable about her ending, but it's more pity and pity, and a little unpleasant blame. There may be a tragic and sudden trip to a great extent, but suicide is somewhat inappropriate!
Two yamen in Jia Jia, Guo Rongfu in Xifu and Ningguo House in Dongfu, now the owner of Ningguo House is also the head of the clan, Jia Zhen, his daughter-in-law, You's mother died, and her father continued a string. You's stepmother is also married for the second time, dragging two little girls, one is You Erjie and the other is You Sanjie. The second and third sisters are not related to you by blood.
Especially the second sister and the third sister, the node in the book is Jia Jing, Jia Zhen's father who died and devoted himself to monasticism. As luck would have it, serious gentlemen were also in the palace to send the spirits to the old lady, so You Shi temporarily took in her stepmother to help manage the family affairs. "The stepmother (You Shi) had to take two unmarried little girls and live together to rest assured." A girl said, "Although she is young, it is actually my aunt's house ..." In the last article, I also mentioned the woman's fifteenth birthday, indicating that she can get married, and Jia Baoyu also called her big sister. It is speculated that the two sisters are not very old, maybe 14 or 15 years old.
You Sanjie is a first-class amorous feelings, according to Jia Lian's page Xing 'er's words, "... What's Dai Yu's nickname? Her face and figure are the same as those of her third aunt ..." Dai Yu is a beautiful woman with flowers and trees, similar to You Sanjie in Foreign Affairs, so she is also an extraordinary generation. Even if there is flattery in Xinger's language, it is at least 78 percent true. Besides, if you can be two sluts, Jia Zhen Jia Lian Jia Rong Jia Baoyu, how bad can you be? However, from the point of view of personality, Third Sister's behavior definitely gives people a more coquettish and elegant appearance, but also more sunny, gentler, and somewhat frivolous and provocative.
At a young age, she has become a familiar veteran of the romantic field!
Every time I see a teenager deviate from the right track or even run counter to it in important aspects of life, I feel a little sad and helpless. In addition to one's own endowment, one's cognition is largely shaped by the growth environment, and all people will be branded by the "obvious" surrounding environment. "Obvious" means that it is easy to find the corresponding relationship between external performance and internal performance from the inside.
It's like a tree. The same tree species, regardless of other factors, grows in the wilderness and grows in the corner, which is very different. When the terrain space is enough, its growth tends to be umbrella-shaped, or plump or sharp and thin. When the space is "squeezed", its body will adjust according to the terrain, revealing a sense of forced disharmony, and even severely wither and wither.
In order to survive, it must rely on external conditions, the land under its feet, the sunshine, air and rain and dew above its head. For these sunny flowers and trees, the external shape can be seen at a glance, and the inner yearning for sunshine lies in auxin, which will determine the shape of branches. There is no gap inside and outside.
Young people don't have much autonomy in choosing, and when they have the ability to choose spontaneously, they often become "established endings". After a long period of infiltration, water drops can also grind away stones, and rope saws can also cut wood, not to mention people's hearts. But it's a foregone conclusion. In fact, nothing can't be changed. Just want to change and reverse their inner form, need to pay more and more efforts.
You Sanjie "lost his foot". If he can set things right, even if there is a stain, it will be a flaw, which will make people feel more serious than a hypocritical hypocrite. Unfortunately, he failed to cross this threshold and eventually became an eternal hate.
Who is Jia Zhen? Is the second sister You Sanjie's brother-in-law, two people "fight side by side" on the private wine table. Besides, what is this place? Jia Lian, one of Wang Xifeng's people, bought the house outside the house. This is specially used to hide in the golden house. Second Sister You was married in a sedan chair at night, so she was put down first. Jia Zhen is at his brother Jia Lian's house, hanging out with Jia Lian's sister-in-law You Sanjie and his sister-in-law, and I don't know what to do. Can you imagine? There are more explicit ones below.
It's just this paragraph, it seems that this person is wild and uninhibited, but it is a flower of demon charm that grows outside the rules and etiquette. It is quite surprising that he is somewhat brave and heroic in his words and deeds, and is by no means the kind of ignorant child. Unexpectedly, because of her romantic nature, she knows all about men's hypocritical and frivolous sweet words and has some relatively objective understanding of the external environment. She is by no means the kind of person who loses herself permanently in the ocean of desire, but it is wrong to say that she is not trapped by lust. The so-called desire to make you dizzy and swoon is still somewhat sober and rare.
To tell the truth, even today, this is beyond the control of ordinary people. She is half-hidden, half-hidden, half-serious, half-coquettish, half-exposed, and wants to refuse and welcome. Even for colorful old ghosts, it is really fascinating and attractive. Needless to say, Jia Zhen, take Jia Lian for example. At that time, he was going to fast for his daughter's acne. That description is unbearable.
Jia Lian's desire came from the bottom of his heart, and he hooked up with a girl, who was affectionate and amorous, and didn't want these foreplay, so he took off his clothes and entered the door directly. In the long night, I can't sleep alone, and I'm so lonely that I even "find a handsome servant to vent my fire". I'm a real hungry ghost for men and women! But with the romantic experiences of his two brothers, he is not even an enemy of You Sanjie!
There is a poem by Lv Dongbin: A 28-year-old girl looks fragile, and her waist is covered with swords, which can kill a stupid person. Although I didn't bow my head, I secretly dried your bone marrow. Putting all men's faults on women, even Wei Xiaobao, who knows nothing about watermelons, knows that this nonsense is wrong. Scholars should be clear that there is nothing wrong with women! But touching my conscience, desire is really difficult for both men and women to control. Sexual desire is just one of them, such as fame and fortune, appetite, greed, laziness and so on. If there is no desire, I can only say that it is by no means a person.
The significance of Lu Chunyang's sentence is more to warn the world that the more things that make you happy and addicted, the more dangerous it is. Therefore, the more you have to restrain yourself. The meaning of restraint is by no means to crush them completely, but to control them within a reasonable range. We can neither let the inner desire run rampant nor give it a little sweetness. There is no such thing as a horse running without eating grass.
Her temperament, regardless of ancient and modern times, was despised and abandoned by ordinary decent people. Walking on the road that deviates from the normal state is doomed to bear the pain that people hate, unless you are willing to degenerate, or find an unbearable man like Bao Er and Duo Soul, or let go completely. From the modern point of view, the description here has not completely slipped, but from the ancient point of view, this kind of woman is basically doomed, and she will be despised and spurned by the world. Of course, she has not been completely wronged, and it is really wrong to seduce and provoke her actively.
And Jia Zhen, we should draw a clear line very strictly and never be coquettish like her. You know, just being close to Jia Zhen and others has already ruined our honor. There are really some shady things.
The footnote in the book means that the father and son share a woman's animal behavior in You Sanjie, and it seems that it is not entirely groundless to get together.
1 .63: Jia Rong got off the horse at this time, and when he heard that his second aunt was coming, he smiled at Jia Zhen.
2. Sixty-three times: Jia Rong smiled at his second aunt and said, "Second aunt, there you go again. Our father just misses you. " Second sister, you said that she picked up an iron bar and hit her on the head. Jia Rong was so scared that he rolled his head into his arms and begged for mercy ... Jia Rong left menstruation and hugged the girls and kissed them: "Dear, you said we were greedy for them."
3. Sixty-four times: I didn't know Jia Rong had ulterior motives (referring to Jia Rong's persuasion of Jia Lian and You Na as concubines). I fell in love with his aunt because of Jia Zhen. Now that Jia Lian is married, she lives outside. When Jia Lian is away, she can fool around.
4. Sixty-five times: The story of Jia Zhen and Third Sister drinking wine above.
The above four points are generally described, but between the lines, there is really no injustice. There is another important basis for her unbearable behavior:
5. Sixty-six times: His little sister is a resolute person. After serving her mother and sister every day, she only keeps her place and lives with her own points. Although it was lonely at night and he was not used to loneliness, Nai lost all her heart, thinking that she had come back early and completed the great event of her life.
Third Sister is determined to repent and wake up from her past self. However, the following words reveal obvious information. This "crowd" never refers to her sister and mother, which means that You Sanjie may have developed into a dissolute situation of sharing a night with others. This stain is basically solid and obscene, and it can't be washed away anyway.
As the saying goes: all virtues and filial piety come first, and all evils come first. In ancient times, this obscene word can be said that it can't be washed away even if you jump into the Yellow River, and it will be criticized by the world and even accused by thousands of people. Destroying honor, family and even life, even in today's society, can happen. Of course, the ancients were more harsh and hated women who "slipped".
I guess there is a reason. As mentioned in the previous "Sister Ming" article, children are a very important event in a patriarchal society and the particularity of male sex chromosomes. The child born to a woman can be guaranteed to be absolutely her own, but it is not her husband's, and only she knows it. Therefore, connecting several factors together produces the conjecture of honor, which puts an invisible yoke on all women in the world for a long time. I didn't mean to insult or belittle women in my words. I am also a mother, so I just calmly describe the objective facts.
Things in life are interlocking, one step is wrong, and the next step is likely to be wrong. Even if you don't expose it for a while, the bastard you committed will erode yourself a little bit and do harm to people. As for the mysterious things in fate, it may be even more creepy, but it is not in the discussion.
You Sanjie has a penitent heart, and he really means what he says. In this regard, it is commendable. At least, I think it's really valuable to make up for it. As the saying goes, the prodigal son will never change his money, and the Buddhist says that he will come through thick and thin. Although You Sanjie has turned over a new leaf because of the right man in his heart, it is really hard to get.
It's hard to judge why their two little sisters are like this, but there is a little information in the book for reference:
The fathers of the two sisters are anonymous and have never seen a word. Only their mother can find some information. According to people's views now, is it a little unpleasant? I don't like it because she remarried with her daughter. Remarriage is no problem at all. It is never too late to find happiness in life, and there is no problem at all. But when the other family is in full swing, you want to marry someone else, and then ignore them or even kick them away when the other family is in decline. This is a bit unreasonable.
At first glance, this seems to be no problem. Do you pursue happiness? If they can't give happiness, why should they marry into their home? Actually, that's not the case at all. The family is rich and prominent, and you are bent on marrying your daughter, otherwise you won't get married. When people don't have these things, you turn your back on them. It is not so much the pursuit of happiness as the pursuit of wealth, which is the happiness brought by wealth, which is by no means the same as happiness itself.
And at that time, parents' orders and matchmakers' words were equivalent to being engaged, so later Zhang Hua, a descendant of the Zhang family, was forced to break off an engagement by You Laoniang for 220 taels of silver. "(Zhang Hua) is helpless, afraid of Jia Zhen and other potential flames, dare not disobey, and have to write down the engagement and break off the marriage." This shows that the finger-belly marriage of that year was legally effective, which led to the subsequent lawsuit.
Judging from this information, their family style is somewhat incorrect, but this is only a little profile, and it is impossible to judge why You Sanjie became like that at that time. As for the influence of Jia Zhen and Jia Rong, it seems reasonable, but without specific information, it is difficult to draw a conclusion.
She has really made up her mind to correct it, so resolutely!
Liu Xianglian, a good man who had been waiting in his heart for five years, came to the fate. After the engagement, he just had to wait to get married, but it backfired. After learning that she came from Jiafu, where cats and dogs were dirty, she decided to regret her previous employment and asked for gold and silk as a gift. Liu Xianglian, whose eyes are cold and firm, is as muddy as an ice cone that has been frozen for nine days, making the family's blood cold.
This is a great insult to the woman in feudal times, which is equivalent to Liu Xianglian's divorce from his wife who has never gone through the door, and at the same time makes her bear the stigma of being abandoned.
A woman's honor is a big deal. Under the engagement, it is equivalent to this woman is already a daughter-in-law, waiting for the door. According to the general norms at that time, although her parents divorced her ex-husband, they were not, which was equivalent to being retired by the man. Anyway, she has another layer of disloyalty in the future. The tragedy of the times did not hurt all women. This shows that the ending of the girl's suicide is recognized as "knowing righteousness and affection". In fact, the two of them have never met at all, and there is nothing in common. A piece of media employment has become an "ex-husband", and in the end, it is inevitable.
You Sanjie's dream woven in her heart was completely torn to pieces in an instant, and she was even more intense:
Sadness is greater than death, and it's over.
Her last glory in the world is not a resistance to the fate of heaven and earth, but a complete destruction and extinction.
I don't know whether it is because destruction is a common feature of human beings, or because people have embarked on the road of extreme destruction in order to alleviate their inner pain. However, after experiencing the pain of qi, people often show a destructive feature, from swearing to hurting themselves and destroying objects, and then hurting others or themselves. The greater the power they bear, the more amazing the power of destruction.
Of course, her death deserves pity because she knows how to change, but because of her suicide, it doesn't deserve pity. I know it's cruel to say such a thing. Although her ending is definitely related to Liu Xianglian, the reason is her own making after all. Look at the result, she ruined it herself in the end. In that extreme situation, is there any good way to solve it? In addition to physical death, my heart will be extinguished forever. How to judge? I'm confused, too
Reluctant to say goodbye, I came for a while and couldn't see you again.
Now I feel ashamed and didn't interfere with you.
There is no interference with you.
It seems that "it's really clean to fall on a white ground", where will you go.
It's just that I think such people should be given a chance to turn over a new leaf. Is it fate that lures her into despair? Maybe not. Today is a lucky day and indispensable, but she doesn't give herself a chance. In a trance, I thought of those two sentences: "There are 80,000 words in the world, and only love words kill people the most." A love story seems to contain great power. If you can't control it, you will kill people!
"After having a deep dream, you must wake up, and all your mistakes will be repaid." Jade Mountain falls and the ground is covered with powder. The romance here is over. It's over.
("Although there are no hosts or guests, have I finished my reasoning visit?"? . That's enough. I've already gone down the mountain. Why should I wait for you? . ")