We're Su Beiren, and we'd like to invite the man and the woman to have a wedding reception together. What's the point? At present, it is a very tangled problem!
If the home is close, we can do it together, a hotel, with seats for the bride's family and seats for the husband's family. Holding a ceremony can reduce the cost of your ceremony a lot, but if you two don't live very close, you can only do it by yourself. The ceremony is usually held in the man's house, but it is ok if the woman's house wants to hold a ceremony.