Engagement: It is to let the old people of both sides meet, which requires those gifts to go to the woman's house and have dinner together. In the meantime, we can discuss the wedding date and how to get married. One month before your wedding, you should bring four dishes: celery with heels, lotus roots with more than four knots, green onions with heels and half a pig. Six cases of wine, six cigarettes and six pieces of instant noodles. (Han people) On the third day before marriage, these four kinds of dishes, cigarettes, wine and other things are indispensable. Then there will be 1000 1 yuan gifts and jewelry for the woman. Generally speaking, we buy about 20000 pieces of jewelry here. By the way, the gift money is 1000 1. Give it to the woman 10000, and take the money quickly. Remember to let women see you take the dollars! This is the so-called "one in a million", but it's not as troublesome as your girlfriend said!