I, a college classmate, usually play together at school and occasionally have dinner and go shopping together, but almost every time she asks me out, I would rather stay at home than go shopping. We go out shopping, drink water and eat, and I basically pay the bill. For example, if we were tired of shopping and wanted a drink, I asked her if you wanted a drink, and she said yes. Then she sat down in the tea shop and asked me to order her a cup casually, okay? I ordered a drink for everyone and paid for it. Then I went up to her and told her how much it was, and she said,' All right, I'll pay you back'. And then there was nothing. Then, I didn't see her give it to me when I went back. I'm too thin-skinned to ask for it. There are many times to eat, buy water and buy fruit. Every time I asked her to pay first, she gave it to me later, and then I stopped going to ............. I remember very clearly that I went to the supermarket to buy things and bought a lot of things. I bought more than 30 things, and she bought a lot of things around 200 yuan. When she paid, she said she had no money and asked me to lend her 200 yuan first. She borrowed it against her will. I haven't returned it yet. Maybe we had dinner together for a week or two, and the school cafeteria paid for it with the campus card. She asked me to pay for it, and I did. Then at dinner, I told her that you didn't pay back the money you lent me last time, plus how much it cost this time. She agreed and returned the money to me the next day.
Later, I gradually alienated her, so I found an excuse to refuse to ask me out, because I was also a poor student in college, and my monthly living expenses were earned by my part-time job and work-study program, because I thought I would spend money on myself every time I went out with her, so I forgot once or twice, and I would be very unhappy three or four times. I have never seen her invite me to dinner, even though I am stingy.