"Cabbage" refers to some people who are rolling inside, but they like rolling inside very much and compete with others. Because they love rolling, they are called "cabbage" by everyone, which means a little ridicule.
But in fact, most people don't want to get involved in the industry, but they still get involved and can only be forced to compete with others, but their own strength is not very good. These people can also call them "cabbage".
When cabbage is used to describe others, it usually means that others are very poor, but when someone laughs at himself as cabbage, it is likely to be the "king of rolls", which is an alternative expression of Versailles. Such people are in the industry of rolls, but they are actually very strong and can be regarded as being in the "center" position, so they use "cabbage" to describe themselves.
Everyone may have a different understanding of the meaning of cabbage stalks. Anyway, people who are called "cabbages" are involutors, either enjoying involution by themselves or resenting involution, but they can't help themselves.
What is involution?
Involution originally refers to the phenomenon that a kind of cultural model has reached a certain final form, not only can it not be stabilized, but also can't be transformed into a new form, but can only become more complicated internally. Now involution means that because the development of an industry is stagnant and a group of people compete for the same resource, they are basically dissatisfied, either paying too much or having less resources, which is a phenomenon of "income-effort ratio" declining.
How to face the pressure of involution
1 Look at competition dialectically and flexibly.
Find a balance between trying to change yourself and accepting your limitations. First of all, we should correctly understand the relationship between stress and achievement. Research shows that there is an "inverted U" curve between stress and grades. It is not that the greater the pressure, the better the grades; But the right pressure and the best grades. Even if you don't achieve anything without pressure, you may achieve nothing while suffering from excessive pressure. Negative emotional experiences such as anxiety, depression and insomnia can be recognized as signals that need to be "changed". You can actively participate in the competition, but don't set winning as the only goal; Pay active attention to your status and adjust at any time.
2. Explore inward and be aware of yourself.
In this era, material wealth and spiritual food are very rich, and no one can take them all for himself, so we must know how to choose. The basis of choice is to know what you want. So you can always ask yourself, "Who are you?" See what advantages you have and what disadvantages you have; Ask yourself, "What exactly do you want?" Know what is important to yourself and what can be abandoned.
3. Self-care
Care for your body and your mind. According to Jiang Sisi, studies show that taking good care of your health can reduce your susceptibility to negative emotions. Caring for the soul, the focus is on the attitude towards yourself. Don't criticize and criticize yourself too much, but treat yourself like a good friend. Applaud yourself in prosperity and allow yourself to be happy; Comfort and encourage yourself in adversity.
4. Classic reading
There is a safe haven in the book. The psychological consistency model holds that when a person thinks that the world is understandable, controllable and meaningful, he will have a better level of mental health. Reading, especially classic reading, is a good way to gain a deeper understanding of the world, enhance the sense of meaning and increase the sense of control. In the process of reading classics, you will feel that you are communicating with the author. You will feel that someone understands your predicament, accompanies your pain, is encouraged by the brave, and is guided by the wise.