This should not be a question of how to choose a girlfriend, but a question of how to adjust one's mentality. Because a girl always has to work, no matter how restrained and unassuming she is. Well, if you have money to support her, she is willing to stay at home and not work. Then she always has to go shopping. Well, if you buy her 10,000 yuan from Taobao every month, she will always go shopping. Well, you use the shopping app to deliver food to your home. The question is, what about the courier and the delivery person? Where is the meter reader? What about real estate? He can't be missing one person.

But if you think she feels insecure when she meets a man, then you must not toss yourself to death. Generally, insecure people will have some bad behaviors, such as turning over their mobile phones and chat records, or watermarking countless phone messages, videos and photos every day to prove when and who they are doing. Either you die or she dies.

Therefore, the first question is not how to choose a girlfriend, but how to adjust your mentality. The sense of security comes not from others, but from yourself. Self-distrust should be the biggest problem. Since a girl is willing to associate with you, it must be that you are smart, such as handsome, capable, talented or rich. Since you are attractive, you don't need to think about whether she will leave me to go with someone else every day.

To say the least, if you are an excellent person, even if your current girlfriend leaves you, I believe you can still find someone who can find your strengths. You just found the wrong person and spent some time together. After all, you are still young and can afford it, so you don't have to care so much. Only by relaxing can we love ourselves and be happy with others.