? We're halfway through the holiday. Children should be allowed to relax during the holidays. In the first few days after the exam, it is necessary to know about children. They have been busy for a semester and have just gone through a tense review exam. These days are not official holidays, so let the children play freely for a few days to relax their nervous mood. Parents, don't interfere too much in their children's lives these days, but carefully observe their situation. Do you have a regular life schedule? Can you read books consciously? Can you do some housework within your power? Can you handle the time of study and play? Wait a minute. Its purpose is to observe the benefits of what your children do right. What needs to be adjusted?
Holidays need to make a plan. The more children can take care of themselves, the more they can make their own decisions, and the more they feel capable and encouraged when they grow up. Therefore, this holiday plan should be mainly decided by children, not by parents. This plan may include: getting up, washing face and brushing teeth, eating breakfast, doing homework, doing sports, reading stories, watching TV, playing games, practicing calligraphy and so on. According to the age of the child, make appropriate requirements for the length of the details. Then, hang the child's timetable where the child can see it and let the child's timetable have the final say. Parents must stop nagging, just remind, don't do everything. They should learn to ask, "According to your schedule, what should we do next?" When children do it, or do it well, they must be encouraged in time. The purpose is to accumulate positive energy for children, make them feel capable and encourage them to form good habits in a planned and organized way during holidays.
Take the children to nature during the holidays. There is a saying that "a thousand miles is not as good as a thousand miles". Find a suitable time during the rare holiday, and the whole family will travel at least once. The trip can be long or short. Before going out, we should guide our children to do "homework", check information, and learn about local customs, geographical location, history and culture, and places of interest. Encourage older children to be tour guides, tour guides and tour guides. Prepare to harvest on the road with a certain enrichment. Children will be more interested than "writing travel notes" before going out to play.
Take children to do outdoor sports during holidays. At present, children's exercise is generally not enough, and it is easier for children to "stay at home" during holidays. Therefore, parents should consciously accompany their children to carry out appropriate sports activities, which can not only enhance their physical fitness and promote their physical development, but also delight their bodies and minds and increase their affection during sports.
Pay attention to children's diet and nutrition during holidays. The child is in the stage of rapid physical development. The weather is hot in summer vacation, and the child has a lot of activities and sweats. Therefore, parents should not be in such a hurry to go to school during holidays. It is best to enrich the family's daily diet with care, pay attention to rich nutrition, balance and rationality, change patterns, make delicious meals that children's families like, stimulate their appetite and promote their growth and development.
Do some social practice or charity activities during the holidays. Actively participate in public welfare activities organized by the community or some formal departments, expand activities, and cultivate children's awareness of public welfare and charity. Or actively cultivate and display children's personality, participate in various social competitions and trainings, and exercise their skills. You can also delegate power to children and let them "be home one day" every week. From shopping, cooking, taking care of adults' daily life to tidying up housework, children can also exercise their self-care ability.
How to help children arrange their summer vacation reasonably
The summer vacation is coming, and how to arrange children's summer vacation life has become a topic of concern to every parent, and many parents even have a headache. How to help children arrange summer vacation? Love education experts suggest that parents can consider the following aspects.
Children's summer arrangements should be negotiated with him.
Many parents are eager for their children's success, arbitrarily take their children's summer vacation as their own, and arrange various cram schools, intensive classes and extra-long classes. The children had to walk from a "monotonous" campus into the "birdcage" carefully built by their parents. Experts believe that summer vacation arrangements are children's business. We should fully respect children's wishes and give them some free time and space.
On the contrary, some parents have gone to the other extreme: either they are too busy to care about their children's summer vacation, or they think that their children should have fun during the holidays, resulting in their children being completely left unattended. Parents should guide and help their children to make good plans.
Let's take a look at the advice given by experts who love to educate young children on summer vacation arrangements:
1, the cultivation of living habits
Holidays are different from school days, but they can't be arranged at will, especially in living habits. The specific schedule and life content can be adjusted, but there must be certain rules. Today 10 you don't want to sleep, tomorrow 12 you have fun and sleep. If you are not happy to do housework today, you don't have to do it tomorrow ... The time and content settings can be relaxed, but we must adhere to living habits and unified standards, so that children can live in a unified law and avoid "playing crazy" and collecting their hearts after school.
2. Is learning the key?
During holidays, study should also be the focus of consideration, but it is not the only focus. When planning your holiday life, you should plan your study separately. For example, you should have a timetable for your holiday homework and strictly follow it. In fact, on average, every day does not occupy a large proportion of your child's time.
Many parents will go into a misunderstanding. If children's grades are not satisfactory or they face the senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination next year, parents will mercilessly deprive their children of their holidays and let them passively complete some remedial, review and preview studies. In fact, only the children themselves know how effective it is.
3. Decompression and relaxation are also the key points.
After an intense semester of study, children should get a buffer and relaxation, so that their emotions and thoughts can be adjusted and rested. This is a well-known truth. Decompression and relaxation doesn't mean that you don't study at all, nor does it mean that stark raving mad has no plan.
You know, planned play and participation in activities are actually a powerful supplement to learning. After all, this society does not need a person who can only read. Participating in social and group activities will exercise children's broader abilities and help make up for their ability improvement outside school.
Parents are children's best friends during holidays.
During school, there is little communication between parents and children, and the content of communication is generally related to learning. Therefore, holidays are the best opportunity for parents and children to communicate emotionally, and also an important stage for improving parent-child relationship. Parents must spend some time playing with their children. Summer vacation is a colorful season and a good opportunity for children to entertain themselves and show their nature. Parents should be the guides and close partners of their children's summer activities. After work, parents should spare as much time as possible to go swimming, outing, camping, mountain climbing, listening to music, watching movies, making small crafts and other beneficial activities with their children, which can not only enrich their children's experience, increase their knowledge and get happiness, but also communicate their children's hearts and make their family life more harmonious.
5, contact with society, cultivate sentiment
During the summer vacation, young people of school age should be encouraged to participate in some moderate social activities or public welfare work, such as community activities, activities to help the disabled, and non-simple tourism summer camps. Let them exercise their children's social adaptability and emergency handling ability in the process of interacting with others, and cultivate their good character of helping others and being kind to others. For online dating, parents should treat it in two ways, neither completely "blocking" nor "letting themselves go". Children should be encouraged to make friends with the same hobbies and ambitions and make progress in mutual communication. Of course, there are not a few people who use the Internet to engage in illegal activities. Parents and children should have a sense of prevention. When children meet strangers, they must be accompanied by their parents.
In addition, special attention should be paid to safety in summer. Parents are requested to pay attention to their children's summer safety, actively cooperate with the school to do a good job in educating their children about safety knowledge, so that children can consciously avoid swimming in the river, playing in dangerous places, going out with strangers, playing with fire and electricity, and especially don't let children go out alone to avoid accidents. If children are used to swimming, parents are advised to take their children to some safe and hygienic swimming pools, or simply sign up for swimming classes.
6. How to help children choose interest classes and group activities?
Now there are all kinds of training classes, interest classes and group activities. In fact, it is nothing more than a few categories. One is aimed at children's learning, which captures the eagerness of many "anxious" parents to make up their homework during the holidays. You can report it, but accept it, don't be too reluctant, and you can't arrange the whole holiday to make up for your child.
The second is the interest class, which has everything from sound, body and beauty, which makes parents really have a headache, because they choose according to their own wishes, not their children's wishes, and should return this right to their children, otherwise it will be a waste of money and they will not be able to let their children get exercise;
Third, group activities, especially various summer camps. In fact, group activities are exercises for children's morality, intelligence and ability, so parents should consider the content, items and forms of activities when choosing group activities for their children. Nowadays, many summer camps are either pure tourism, disguised learning, or hodgepodge, with no focus. Parents and children should ask more details when choosing, including safety, food, shelter and transportation.
7. How do children watch TV online during holidays?
After the holiday, children will inevitably play computer and watch TV. Parents should allow and understand their needs, because in today's social reality, children can play with too few things. What do you want them to do without surfing the Internet and watching TV?
Many parents may be worried because their parents are at work and their children are at home. How do we control them? Therefore, it is necessary to help children make holiday plans. There are many things to do every day, and the quantity and time are arranged. Even if children play computer and watch TV, they should be controlled within a certain period of time, as long as family agreements are made in advance.
How to plan children's summer vacation?
What do parents think?
Some people say that it would be good for him to learn ballroom dancing, so that he can shape a tall and straight figure. Some people say that learning to swim is also good for children. Besides saving themselves, they can also save others. Others say that it is better for them to learn calligraphy, painting, chess and piano. Children are active and can have better concentration. Then, learn dancing on 135, learn musical instruments on 246, or conversely, make full use of it at night ... It seems that the children's summer vacation has been arranged in a watertight way.
It seems that the children's summer vacation schedule is more full than during school. Tiger father and wolf mother can't wait for a holiday to make their children thoroughly remould themselves, be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and know everything about martial arts, and cultivate their children into dragons and phoenixes and elites.