Valentine's Day is very far away from me, and the "delicate, shy, joyful" young girl who receives the flowers is also like smoke floating away. The man and woman who fell in love at the age of fifteen and fifty, after all, will not be the same as the blush of the heart, as the soul, right? Fifteen years old, can be justified to say: as long as I like, what can not! The man who is fifty years old, I am afraid that I can only say: although I like, or look at the chance it!
Put a "lover" in the box
When we were young, we were grateful for Valentine's Day. Don't we? It allows "men old dog" can be a big prick holding a bouquet of flowers all over the street, no one will feel "eyesore", at the moment, even if you hold a tree, "tree on behalf of my heart", there are people who think you really romantic. Even if you are holding a tree, "the tree represents my heart", there are people who think you are really romantic and original. Street full of Miss wife, regardless of the beauty and ugliness, young and old, we are holding flowers with Valentine's Day sweetheart gift, love feels so good, the Western Valentine's Day if compared with our country's Tanabata, to say: Valentine's Day more carnal, and less implicitly some across the river.
Valentine's Day in English is Valentine's
day, naturally, there is a story about the saint Valentino. A hermit friar who lived in the woods, he ended up getting himself killed when he officiated at a private wedding because he disliked the wartime tyrant's practice of forbidding commoners from marrying. Valentine's Day was born in honor of this saint who helped people get married in private. However, I prefer another version, because it is more scientific and more in tune with Western culture: it is said that on February 14th, birds flying in the sky and sheep running on the ground in ancient Greece would go into heat and mate. To commemorate this magical day, each young man drew lots from a box containing slips with the young woman's name written on them. Whoever is drawn becomes the young man's sweetheart. The legend is simple and straightforward, and fits in with the city's logical thinking of "faith is destiny," as well as with Western Valentine's Day, which is a sign of courtship for a collective lust.
Businessmen create romance
A survey in mainland China said 70% of college students agree with Western Valentine's Day. A female college student asked a good rhetorical question: when February 14th lover to send you roses, but you regard roses as dirt, insisting on waiting for Tanabata to see the cowherd and weaver star meeting? You are sick ah?
Some people say: today's holiday is wearing a commercial mask of the gods carnival. In the general concept of Valentine's Day, intuitive reaction, the first to come to the head is not flowers, chocolate, candlelight dinner, perfume, lingerie ...... city people on the holiday love, and not because of the gods into the "entertainment to the death" of the carnival era and some dissolution. Hong Kong people's love of traditional and imported festivals has not been diminished by the age of "entertainment to death". Hong Kong people on the traditional, imported, self-defined festivals can be said to be eclectic, happy, business people are all smiling, applauded to welcome.
Chen Hui said, "February is a month of external relaxation and internal tension", with the catering and retail consumption of various types of Valentine's Day attack, gradually you will realize that February, seemingly immobile, is the most noisy and most melancholy, but the most barbaric and most gorgeous and most sentimental and most expensive; as love. -February, like walking on thin ice. Chen Hui is really like a torch.
Why does romance always come before love on Valentine's Day? Why don't women understand that business can create romance for people, but not love?
Igniting desire with flowers
For men - Valentine's Day often becomes a "sufferer" of the identity of the material offer. Valentine's Day, men and women are rushing out, all because of this day, the outside has become a lifestyle "show" field, Valentine's Day is a fashionable label, the more expensive candlelight dinner to hurry up to book, the more expensive "blue banshee" more to book in advance, just to win the face of a smile, let her heart full of joy! The more expensive the "Blue Siren", the earlier the booking, just to win the red face a smile, so that she is full of joy, there is a romantic feeling inside the total than the long face, beeping little mouth said: you do not love me, how to book in that "bean mud" restaurant? In order not to let my son "no face", I scrimp and save to privately transfer Wu thousand dollars to him for Valentine's Day, alas! I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it!
Nanfang Shuo said that whenever Valentine's Day is over, he likes to look for traces of it in the social news pages. Some people slit their wrists because they didn't get bouquets of flowers; some couples had a verbal argument about whether they were sincere or not because they didn't go to a fancy restaurant to enjoy a Valentine's meal. ......
Valentine's Day has ceased to be a day, and has become a desire.
Valentine's Day is no longer a day, but a desire. The first time I've seen this, I've seen a lot of it. And the desire for Valentine's Day is always so cruel that if you don't receive a bouquet of flowers or arrange a date with your lover on this day, you will feel abandoned by the world.
The loneliness of Valentine's Day is the greatest loneliness of all, and it represents the failure of not being loved. While Valentine's Day creates symbolic romance, it also creates anxiety and sadness on the opposite side of romance. Many people who live happily ever after in ordinary times suddenly become gloomy on this day. ...... Valentine's Day is the fine but evil fangs that grind all day long making people as anxious as if they were being roasted by a slow fire.
Private investigators make a fortune
The real Valentine's Day, but an awkward spring?
It has been said: Valentine's Day off is a review of women's professionalism, there is about the woman means to do women do qualified, get flowers more women means success, if you can not find someone to spend Valentine's Day together, tube you other aspects of how good, people also have to ask: "Why are you as good as a man." The subtext of the meaning is: no matter what, to be a woman you still fail.
When people in the name of "love", provoke hormone index rise, enjoy the "romantic" and consumption of pleasure, Valentine's Day has another meaning.
On Valentine's Day, some people may not be able to do anything. This day, by many people who have doubts in their minds, as the best time to investigate whether the other half of the fidelity. It is reported that last year's February 14th into the Chinese private detective ever - the hottest day of business, marital fidelity investigation charges from the starting price of 15,000 yuan, raised to 20,000 yuan, plus at least a month to wait.
Valentine's Day - please do not send gifts to me, I am not afraid of the Independent Commission Against Corruption, but in this day to receive a gift, even if it is a grain of Jinsha, seems to mean that the chocolate behind the storage of an ambiguous relationship.
Valentine's Day - not a good day for cheating! Baby, is it true that if we don't spend this day together, our love will die? I don't believe it for a second!
Source: Hong Kong Wen Wei Po Wen: Shi Youpeng