Knowing this, you won't reject it again.
Now many people are working for "visiting relatives"
This matter is troublesome, if you come to ask me this question.
?
I will tell you: I will not reject it.
Because I think this is a very necessary thing.
First, the source of relatives?
The original origin of visiting relatives can not be traced back, but it can be determined.
At the latest, during the Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms, the custom of visiting relatives has been established.
Qian Liu, King of Wu Yue, said: "The princess will return to Lin 'an every spring, and Wang Yishu will leave her."
Said, "an all-consuming love, you can go home slowly."
That is to say, Princess wuyue will return to her family every Spring Festival and travel outside King Wu Yue.
When I saw the flowers on the road, I wrote to tell the princess that the flowers on the road had blossomed.
You can come back slowly.
Although "slowly" means "urging", we can see from it that ancient times
The supreme ruler also has the custom of visiting relatives.
Second, take the development of relatives?
Visiting relatives has flourished in the Tang Dynasty, and the majority of officials are worshipping.
Before the visit, a name thorn will be handed in to show respect to the host.
At the same time, they will prepare some delicious food and wait for others to visit and visit relatives.
Or go to other people's homes to visit relatives, which is also called "passing seats"
It is called "New Year's Wine" or "Spring Wine" to invite visitors to drink. The poem "Qiang Qiang"
The more people visit, the more they represent this family.
The population is prosperous.
From the Song Dynasty to the Ming Dynasty, scholar-officials used famous cards to congratulate each other.
Instead of New Year's greetings, most of the relatives between them are interaction of interests.
Qing dynasty Geng
Adding the custom of "group worship", that is, everyone gets together to congratulate each other, becomes * * *
Gathered in the host's house to talk, the Republic of China began to have a printed new year card.
With the development of time, it gradually formed what we are familiar with today.
Friends, bless each other and send lucky money.
Third, why do you want to "go relatives"?
1. Continue the traditional customs
In the past, when everything was not developed, the social system was clan society.
In the clan society, in a sense, visiting relatives is the basic skill for survival.
2. For emotional maintenance
365 days a year, we may meet less than 5 days, but some of them are naked.
People who grew up have brought you up to take care of your elders and have feelings in their hearts.
The need to maintain, or gratitude, you go to see the elderly, they will
Very happy, at least they will think that young people have not forgotten them.
3. Minority economic interests
In this small society in rural areas, people will get married for various reasons.
Interest relationship, the process of visiting relatives is to maintain the link of an ethnic group, but
With * * * to resist some risks.
Fourth, the significance of visiting relatives?
1. Learn to be grateful
For example, it is a kind of gratitude to pay New Year greetings to elders when visiting relatives. Respect for the elderly is China.
National tradition, the New Year, carrying a few decent gifts, to visit the self.
One's elders, with their elders Lala home, can enhance family ties.
2. Educational significance
You take your children to pay New Year greetings to their parents and elders, and let them learn to be orderly.
Respect your elders, and your children will honor you in the future.
3. Learn to live in harmony
You take your children to relatives' homes to pay New Year greetings, and several children play together and learn.
How to be friendly to others and how to live in harmony with others.
5. Why don't you like visiting relatives?
1. Direct cause
Most of them are young people who visit their elders. Are there any * * * topics?
There are also some elders who are unreasonable, pick on some parents' shortcomings, and treat their children.
Our life is extremely concerned about all kinds of blind dates, giving birth to children, studying hard and so on.
2. Indirect causes
Our survival has become less and less dependent on the interconnection of a group of people, modern
Economic development makes it more possible for individuals to survive freely, even if you don't
With relatives, you can support yourself in the city, but in the past, it was hard to rely on.
Survive alone. Therefore, there is no direct interest between you and them.
Six, how to do relatives?
Learn * * * love.
1. introspection
Are you really not doing well in some aspects? Find out and correct it.
Can help us to grow better.
2. Compatibility
There will be friction where there are people. Try to understand each other's difficulties and mobilize me.
Our "* * * affection" and "tolerance", after all, home is the place to talk about love.
Step 3 sublimate
People are social animals, living in relationships, and interpersonal relationships are our lifelong lessons.
Title. Having the ability to solve problems actively will help us adapt to the society better.
Seize more opportunities.
7. What do you think about visiting relatives?
Of course, visit relatives. They like you very much.
Everything has advantages and disadvantages. After China's economic progress, human beings tend to be independent.
The weakening of group power is a trend today. In this
Under the trend, what we can do is to polish our eyes and pay more attention to the decision.
Policy maker's action
Try to build a mechanism that can protect the majority of individuals, otherwise,
In the face of power, there is no previous ethnic power, waiting for the individual to be doomed.
Is an irreversible tragedy.
I don't think it's necessary to measure a thing by whether it's profitable or not, if you are profitable.
If you do something, you will become a grumpy person sooner or later.
A stiff person with no feelings to talk about.
So ... It is a very happy thing to visit relatives!