It has been circulating on the Internet for a long time, how lonely it will be if you do anything alone. In fact, most of the time we have to be alone, there is nothing to be lonely about, and most of the time it is very relaxing.

I suddenly discovered that I have actually tried most of them alone, so I am writing this review to tell everyone that it is really not a big deal to be alone, and don’t be carried away by the few words of marketing account makers.

-Eating Ramen

This is not bad, ramen itself is very suitable for one person to eat, and now many Japanese ramen restaurants are decorated with single-person partitions, and some even have small partitions for single people. Sockets, tablets, etc. are provided, which is very convenient.

- Roadside Stall

Grilled cold noodles and grilled gluten skewers are normal to eat by yourself, but you can also buy them back to eat more. There was a time when I was addicted to Uncle's Mala Tang outside the east gate of the school. I ate it by myself every day. A bunch of people were crowded together. Under the dim light, looking at the steaming soup base, I couldn't feel anyone there at all.

- Self-service

I haven’t tried this yet, after all, I am afraid that the plate will be taken away... But the ice cream self-service is OK. You can take it away and eat it, or buy a cup of ice cream for yourself. almost. This should be considered a semi-self-service restaurant, it feels like Subway.

- Hot pot

I have only tried Xiabuxiabu. After all, the portion is small. If I had to eat Haidilao by myself, what I ordered might not be half of the bottom of the pot... Xiabuxia Breastfeeding like this is no different from eating a work meal by yourself. There are many people eating together and I don’t say a few words. Actually, that’s fine.

- Shopping for clothes

Wow, it’s really cool to go shopping alone. I often do this. Make your own plans and leave as soon as you want. It is very efficient to go to whichever store you want to visit. The bad thing is that I don't think there is anyone to help me choose clothes and give me advice. The main thing is to take pictures and eat.

If you often go out alone, you will not have a beautiful full-body photo for a long time. Of course, this can be solved. My college roommate has a series of equipment such as cameras, lenses, tripods, and many of the photos taken by big-name street photographers were completed by herself. It's really inconvenient to eat out alone. You can't order food from a gourmet restaurant, so you can only eat snacks or Xiabu Xiaf... But it doesn't matter if you have a big appetite.

-Watching movies

It doesn’t matter, there is not much difference between being in the cinema and at home. I have watched many movies myself, such as Jurassic World, Pancake Man, and Heart of the Sun. Minions and stuff. Once you enter the plot, it doesn't matter where people are watching it. If you really need to share it immediately, there is nothing you can do. But I have never watched an emotional movie myself. No matter what, there is still thunder. If you're going to cry, don't go by yourself.

-Game arcade

I don’t go to game arcades either, haha. Just skip this one. But when I passed by the big players, I saw many middle school students who came to play on their own.

- Karaoke

To tell the truth, this topic is just for this part. I have long wanted to sing by myself, because I am a bit obsessive-compulsive and very picky about music, and many of the things I want to sing may not be suitable for party occasions. I have gone singing with my roommates many times before. I personally think it is the best. It is very cost-effective for two people to share small packages. You can sing a few songs and I can sing a few without getting tired. But I have high requirements for my companions and I know them well, otherwise I still won’t be able to sing some songs that “reveal their true colors”.

Later, I couldn’t hold it in any longer, so before I graduated, I went to sing 68 and won the prize. From then on, I opened the door to a new world. I clicked bigbang for three hours and had the exclusive feeling of disco. Sing until your voice becomes hoarse. When I first came to Qingdao, I went to KTV three times a week. I had not officially joined the job at that time, and it was super cheap to go on weekdays. And if a person can listen to his own voice well, he is simply fascinated by himself.

I really go to KTV just to sing. I can stay there for a whole day. When I get tired of singing, I can listen to the original songs, and I can also dance by myself. But it is probably more suitable for my type. After all, for many people, KTV is just for fun.

The small private rooms of Yousing are also good, with good sound effects and recording capabilities, but most of them don't have curtains, and even the curtains are not long enough, so the space is small and there is no KTV to enjoy.

- Bar

Mr. *** has never been to a bar a few times. The little sisters had a drink once, and they were killed by a werewolf late at night in Dalian once (the first werewolf killing was so embarrassing that I don’t want to remember it... ). Bars are a lot of things for a little fairy like me. I went to Houhai many times at night and just walked back and forth listening to music without going in. It’s a pity that I didn’t actually order a drink and listen to folk songs all night (when the sisters go together, they mainly eat and eat...)?

By the way, when I went to a nightclub in Seoul, there was a group of young people. When dancing, the clothes are very casual and ordinary, and the fun is very open. Of course there is the pick-up type, but it is much less and more serious than the average impression. The songs played are also very young. Not only are they Korean songs, the most important thing is that they are very cheap. One person has a lot of talent. Ten thousand won.

- Concert

I shouldn’t be alone here, I am with my friends throughout the whole process, but it’s just that everyone was in different areas at the official start. The process of watching is really one people. It was nothing, but no one shouted together, and half of them were Chinese. No one could understand what Long said. It was very embarrassing, and the atmosphere was weak. It was better for me to volunteer.

Actually, it doesn’t matter if you shout by yourself. The videos I took are full of my own various broken sounds. It feels like he held a concert for me alone. However, it is really not recommended to go through the process alone. There are too many people in this kind of situation. Firstly, it is unsafe and secondly, the efficiency is too low. In addition, the concert ended quite late, so a few of us caught the last subway back that day. Especially if you're out of town, it's better to have someone with you, even strangers, after all, they are all fans and comrades.

-Looking at the sea

When I came to Qingdao for an interview, I just watched the sea alone, quietly and unconstrainedly. I was very upset at that time, and I was thinking of taking advantage of the interview to go to the beach to relax. There is no sea in Beijing. It’s dry. It’s really blissful to come and enjoy the sea breeze for two days. It’s like taking a deep breath in clear water if the concentration of cell fluid is too high. Still the same, no one took pictures, which is a pity. Therefore, I had many ideas about traveling alone but did not realize it.

-Amusement Park

It’s sad. I only remember going there twice. When I was a kid, I went to Discovery Kingdom, and I went to the water park with my roommates. The amusement park is actually the same as a concert. Queuing up and eating is very inconvenient and inefficient for one person. Another problem is that some projects cannot be played alone, and you have to compete with strangers. So in fact, people who are alone will not go to amusement parks.

-Visiting a doctor and giving injections

I go to the dentist by myself and have never tried giving injections myself. Many times there is nothing you can do about it. You need to see a doctor and get injections. If you can’t wait, no one will be available, so you have to go by yourself. I used to get injections when I was a kid, but at that time, my aunts and uncles took turns accompanying me, and the clinic was not far from home. At most, I just lay down by myself for a while.

Last winter I had my teeth blocked and I went there twice. In fact, many times I can do it on my own, but when someone is with me, I become weak. When he watched it with me, it actually didn't hurt, but I kept yelling and flailing my hands, asking him to hold me. But when I look at it myself, it’s a hundred times more uncomfortable, but it’s not a big deal. I can just endure it and it will pass.

- Traveling to distant places

I have always wanted to, but I have never gone very far. My real trip was to Shanghai, but I was timid and went back to the hotel after dark. In fact, it was equivalent to missing half a day and I didn’t even see the night view of the Bund.

It feels good, but if I exert too much force, eat too much, too much greasy food, or walk too much, my stomach will get upset the next day. I lose more than 6 pounds in less than a week of traveling. Finally, I went to meet my junior high school classmates. Oh my god, it felt like seeing a relative, because I hadn’t spoken for several days and my body was weak.

However, I also want to take a trip of my own, a real trip.

- Life in a foreign land

Isn’t this normal? Most of us live alone in a foreign land. Even if you have friends in the city, what is the difference between meeting them occasionally and living on your own?

Do you think living in a city is the same as living in a university dormitory? no. After all, it is understandable that the person who writes this kind of thing is trying to stir up excitement and increase popularity.

Just read the jokes written by the big Vs, especially the ones that trigger a lot of tweets, a lot of discussions and reposts that directly poke your heart. You should read them dialectically. Their job is to write words that directly touch your heart and make everyone happy and sad.

After all, you still have to be alone. Everyone else is just a passerby. If you have someone you love with you, cherish it, because you are really lucky.