What others have done or are doing, even if you think it's easy for you or you think it's not cost-effective or how, don't bother others happy and satisfied mood, praise a couple of words won't kill you.

2. Don't compare yourself with others and then ask others to do the same.

"Why don't you XXX, my other friends are XXX ......" You have to know that everyone has their own personality and want to do not want to do things, do not go to force.

3. Do not do things for others with fairness as a starting point.

You have to know what you want to do for others is out of your want and need for others, not if I do he will certainly return me, so do not be too strong purpose. When it comes to tearing each other up and saying I did XXX for you you don't know how to return the favor it's hard to see. But sometimes still want to have a return, so if you really encounter that kind of person, early to find, early to stay away from.

4. Go out on a date and wear something formal.

Otherwise, it would be embarrassing for others to take you out.

5. Don't follow a lot of inexplicable theories circulating on the Internet.

"I'm mean to you because we're on good terms, because I know you won't go ～" Sorry classmates let's just cut ties.

Another personal opinion, there should be a lot of spraying about calling in the middle of the night. I think if you can't sleep, why don't you listen to a song and read a book, usually in the middle of the night two or three o'clock in the morning, normal people are sleeping, the heart of this kind of thing is still not as bad as the fire death, and you don't know what the other side did during the day how tired, and also don't know that the next day he may have to get up early or do what is very tiring work, so let the other side go.

6. When someone is talking about something she likes, if you don't like it, just listen.

The understanding is not deep can directly say I don't quite understand eh, interested can add a sentence I can go to see oh. If you really don't like but also understand the more in-depth, either smile, or find an opportunity to digress, but don't directly say that people like the dog is not as good as the thing, okay.

7. If a third party borrows something from your friend through you, ask his opinion. Don't feel like you're a Lei Feng red scarf neighborhood committee old aunt.

Especially contact information such as phone numbers. (How do you know if the person asking you for your friend's contact info is secretly a psychopathic stalker chasing after your friend?)

8.

Particularly others "long story", "nothing" ...... Well, there may be arrogant want you to ask again, then you ask after the second time if it is still This is not a good idea, especially if the other party indicates that "I really do not want to say" attitude. In addition, they said "I do not want to say" and hope that the other party asked you again and again and again ...... others are very busy, not busy will only take you as after dinner talk, so what do you want to do directly, do not chirp.

9. Don't say what you shouldn't say.

Don't tell your friend's embarrassing story when you're on a blind date with someone else, unless he's just pulling you off. A lot of parents are also, don't say in front of other parents their own children this is not good that is not good, your children are not good as if it is not you teach as if.

10. No matter whether the relationship is good or bad, don't feel that you can use any words to make jokes and comments.

Don't talk about a particularly fat friend "are you a pig", don't talk about a black girl with a very low self-esteem "like coal", some people can really afford to joke about it, but after laughing at them the damage is still worth reflecting on. In addition, "rude" "uneducated" this kind of words do not just use to evaluate others, Chinese culture is profound, you with a "I think you just like a little bit wrong" to bring the effect of The fact that you have a good idea of what you want to do with your life is a great help to you," he said.

11. More people around you.

There are times when you really don't like arrogant people, and you need to be encouraged by the people around you. Do not always a monotonous "wow, you are great", your Chinese vocabulary is kindergarten level. Or a face paralyzed heart volcano eruption, wait until others can not stand your indifference when don't cry and say I like you very much this person.