In our daily lives, we always meet all kinds of people, from young people with high spirits to old people who have experienced wasted time. Although they have different demeanors, at least they are all normal people. .
We all know that things always have pros and cons, and people are no exception. In this world, there are normal people and there are abnormal people, whether it is psychologically or physically. As long as you are sure that you are not a normal person, you will face more cruelty in life.
However, although some people are teased by fate, they can face everything positively. The dwarf girl Xiaolan below is a more representative person.
Xiaolan was diagnosed with dwarfism as soon as she was born. Everyone knows that people with dwarfism will have their height restricted. Even when they become adults, they are still far behind a normal person, so these Human life is destined to face many ups and downs.
Not only that, due to their special height, they often receive strange looks from people around them. If they lose the courage to face it at this time, they can only immerse themselves in a world of inferiority.
But life still exists and life must go on. Even if life is not kind to you, you must face everything with a smile. Just like Pushkin wrote in his poem: If life deceives you, don't be impatient or sad. With calmness in the melancholy days, I believe that happy days will come too.
When Xiaolan didn’t know her husband, her life was bleak. Because of her short stature, she didn’t dare to interact with normal people. Except for her parents, she rejected everyone. Thousands of miles away, her expression looks like a thorny person on the surface, but if you look closely, you will find that she just wants to hide her fragile heart.
By chance one day, Xiaolan met a young man from Guangxi through the Internet, who was also disabled. Maybe they share the same problem, and it didn't take long for the two of them to become familiar with each other. Fate is something we can't explain or understand. This young man who has never been in love actually has a different feeling for Xiaolan at this moment.
Not only in life, the boy greeted Xiaolan, but he also often created some small surprises. Gradually, everything the boy did moved Xiaolan, and finally she dropped her guard and decided to accept the boy's sexual intercourse.
There was no accident, and the two came together soon. But what was unexpected was that Xiaolan soon found out that she was pregnant. For normal people, the arrival of a new life must be a big deal. It's a happy event, but it's very difficult for Xiaolan and Xiaoqi. Why is this?
It turns out that as a patient with dwarfism, not only does her height not reach the standard of a normal person, but also the various organs in her body do not reach the standard of a normal person. If she chooses to give birth to a child at this time, she will face The risk may be greater than that of older mothers. Even if the child is born, the child will face the possibility of inheriting dwarfism. So after learning the situation, the doctor could only advise them to give up the child.
However, after listening to the doctor's advice, Xiaolan decided to give birth to the child despite the dissuasion of Xiaoqi and her family. She thinks this is hope and an angel given to her by God. Maybe she hopes that she can be like a normal person and have the ability to have children. Faced with such a stubborn Xiaolan, the family had no choice but to accept the fate.
As the fetus slowly grows, especially in the third trimester of pregnancy, Xiaolan often feels out of breath. In the middle of the night, it feels like someone is pinching her neck, and she feels dizzy due to lack of oxygen. At this time, Xiaolan also felt the danger of death. At this time, she could only wake up her husband to help her calm down. Her husband Xiaoqi was also worried that his wife would have an accident if there was no one to take care of her in the middle of the night, so he did not sleep during the entire pregnancy. Have a restful sleep.
The day of delivery was coming soon, and my husband had been looking around for a hospital where he could wait for delivery, but the result was not smooth. After the hospital heard about their situation, they said that the risk was too high and there was nothing they could do. In the end, they could only beg and beg. Finally, there was a hospital willing to help them, but the hospital could not guarantee that the child would be born smoothly, and during the delivery process, Xiaolan's life would be in danger at any time.
At this point, Xiaolan can only fight with her last resort, and her family can only pray for the safety of mother and child. Perhaps the sincerity of the family moved God, and finally their son was born successfully, but unfortunately, the child suffered from brittle bone disease.
Although the result is not so perfect, I hope that the child can grow up healthily and happily under the care of Xiaolan and her family.
Do you think Xiaolan did the right thing?