Maybe he really wants to get in touch with you slowly, instead of being with you directly on impulse? It depends on the person, but I don't think he is casually with you or refuses you directly. It should be that he didn't refuse you from the heart, just didn't want to perfunctory you, so he gave you ambiguous reasons such as friends, brothers and sisters. You can also know each other better in the process of contact.

Use your head first. Think about it. If the other person is just a love rat, will he be ambiguous or will he simply agree? I think it's entirely possible. A love rat, he doesn't need to slowly contact with this girl. He will only cheat girls in the fastest way, and he will agree if he agrees. It is no big deal for them to start a new relationship. What's more, Jiangnan never thought about being serious and responsible.

Take your time. This is not love rat's style. So you should be glad you didn't meet love rat. Of course, if you don't even know enough about the personality and behavior of the person you like, and finally decide that the other person just wants to play with ambiguity because you want to get in touch slowly, I think you may not have any deep feelings.

When a boy comes into contact with you and you, it means that he hasn't rejected you yet. If your personality and behavior attract him enough, I think he will take the initiative to confess to you. You want the other person to be with you after careful consideration and measurement. Still on impulse, soon, make a decision to decide the relationship. Which do you think is more suitable for you?

Maybe it's because we are used to a very fast pace. Transportation needs to be fast, and I don't want to waste my time on the road. The same is true of feelings. The other party can use this picture, a paragraph of text and a paragraph of voice to determine a relationship. But such feelings often come and go quickly. Not long after we were together, we separated again.

This feeling is like eating a fast food box lunch. When you need it, just order it. Don't think slowly. Eat if you want. As for whether you will have diarrhea after eating it, you may not need to consider it at all. Even after a few bites, you may just throw it away.

Therefore, on the contrary, I think that the person who can speak out should try slowly. At least he is not a casual person and will not make a decision easily. But it is often such a person who can better stick to his choice after being identified. Isn't this the kind of person you want