Step 1: What is my real goal in life?
Step 2: List 50 occupations, and list the objectives according to the job content of the occupations:
Electrical Engineer: Work.
Psychological counselor: observe psychological activities, get a deeper understanding of human nature, and make people understand relevant knowledge and apply it to life.
Emotional expert: understand the law of emotional development and help people use understanding.
Super parenting teacher: deeply understand the knowledge of developmental psychology and put it into practice.
Dream Interpreter: Understand the implied information and meaning of dreams and apply them to daily life; Help people understand the role of dreams.
Coach NLP: Find out the excellent potential laws and put them into practice to help people grow and realize themselves.
English teacher: teaching English-related knowledge to make people understand the charm of foreign languages; Make money.
Spoken English coach: fluent in spoken English; Cultivate others' oral ability and experience the charm of communicating in foreign languages; Make money.
Introduce more excellent foreign language works to Chinese people and open a new window.
Career planner: People can better develop their potential and plan their lives reasonably.
Headhunting: help people find more suitable jobs and enjoy the happiness brought by discovering talents; Make money.
Financial planner: understand and practice financial related knowledge; Accumulate wealth.
Photographer: Seize the beautiful moment.
Graphic designer: Turn your imagination into reality and create excellent works.
Film critic: comment on movies from a professional perspective; Popularize film knowledge.
Director: present a good story with pictures; Describe the imagination as a picture; make money
Artist agent: making money; Discover stars
Storyteller: Tell folk stories and get creative inspiration.
Writer: Write your own life experience; Write other people's stories; Get inspiration for writing stories and novels; Share knowledge with others
Antique connoisseur: looking for valuable antiques; Popularize cultural relics and historical knowledge.
Book reviewer: Choose good books and publicize them so that more people can get access to them.
Volume: extract knowledge from books and use it flexibly.
Guitar instructor: An instrument can entertain itself and make people feel the charm of music.
Lyrics: record the mood of the story in the form of songs.
Cartoonist: Create a story of your own.
Fitness instructor: develop a perfect body shape; Imparting fitness knowledge; Let more people feel healthy and happy.
Street fitness expert: good figure; There are not many breakthroughs in their physical limits.
Children's football coach: let children like football and enjoy the happiness brought by football.
Belly dancer: The body freely expresses emotions and connects with the body.
Fighting coach: the physical and mental consistency of fighting skills; Teach others relevant knowledge.
Rock climber: Challenge the limit; Conquer suffering.
Master into the wild: enjoy nature; Get rid of material desires; Challenge the limits.
Blockchain programmers: discovering new areas; Create a new world.
Blockchain investors: investing to make money; Discover new areas.
Traveler: Feel the scenery along the way and broaden your horizons.
Male image experts: help men improve their taste; Possibility of realization; Make money.
Restaurant owner: Make money.
Food designer: designing mouth-watering food images.
Chef of private cuisine: collect all kinds of private cuisine practices; Develop new cooking skills.
Special snack collector: collect special snacks; Broaden one's horizons; Promote food.
Taster: find your favorite taste; Promote wine knowledge.
Gardening Craftsman: Sort out the perfect garden in your heart.
Carpenter: looking for traditional carpentry skills; Combine new technology innovation.
Feng Shui Master: Looking for universal laws and looking at life with a holistic view.
Practitioners of ecological planting: living in a large area of green and enjoying the joy of harvest.
Beekeepers: follow the laws of nature and establish contact with bees; Responsibility for another creature.
Shepherd: pursue the laws of nature and establish contact with sheep; Responsibility for another creature.
Pet Appreciator: Discover the potential features and beauty of pets.
Pet trainer: Train pets to get along better with their owners, so that they can establish better contact.
Sleeper: Try all kinds of new possibilities and find the best sleeping environment.
Autopsy teacher: Feel the meaning of death and the meaning of life.
Step 3: There are two directions to start with. First of all, there are many occupations related to "coaches", such as teachers and various coaches, which shows that they are willing to influence others and help them grow. You can focus on "coaching skills"; Second, there are many occupations related to physical skills, such as fitness, football, fighting, rock climbing and dancing, which shows that you are more interested in this skill. You can get in touch with more related skills, broaden your horizons and find the skills that are most interesting. If a certain physical skill reaches a certain height, you can engage in the teaching of related skills.
After completing the above arrangement, I found that I am not only interested in physical skills, but also interested in relaying my knowledge to others (relatives and friends) as long as it involves knowledge, and trying to make them use it, although this method is inefficient and occasionally adopted. For example, after deeply understanding the blockchain, I recommend a friend to invest in digital currency. Although I am interested in a friend, digital currency has gained a lot recently, and my friend is very grateful for my recommendation. After taking the second-level examination for psychological counselors, I instilled developmental psychology in my friends and relatives with children. Afterwards, it seems to be an armchair strategist. Some people say that I speak well and my knowledge is recognized.
So my goal in life may be to spread knowledge effectively and help others solve related problems.
However, the extension of knowledge is too wide, and in order to dig deeper with limited energy, the scope must be limited. As far as their professional quality is concerned, electricity and psychology are relatively systematically trained subjects. The former is a university major, and the latter has been admitted to a psychological counselor. Not interested in the former, the audience is relatively small; He has a strong interest in the latter and has a wide range of applications.
Then the goal is further narrowed: effectively acquire communication psychology knowledge and help people use it to solve related problems.
The extension of psychology is still too broad and needs to be further narrowed. I am very interested in psychoanalysis in psychology, especially Jung's prototype theory (and Joseph Campbell's myth theory), which can be combined with my interest in folk stories. So the combination of psychoanalysis and story is a good choice for me.
Fourth: analyze the objectives and needs.
1. What are the basic requirements behind the goal?
According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs model, I summed up the goal of "combining psychoanalysis with stories to effectively understand communication psychology's knowledge and help people use it to solve related problems". Its basic needs are self-realization inspired by growth. Because psychoanalysis itself is an art that makes people dig the truth of life, it is not only the need of digging, but also the need of bravely facing the truth of life and integrating personality, which is the need of transcending society.
2. Is the goal a real self-realization goal that can run through life?
According to "they love this profession, so the difference between work and entertainment disappears from them, that is, they finally like these values rather than the work itself." According to this standard, my goal is to achieve it by myself all my life, because when I am sorting out stories or remembering and recording all the nodes in my life, I don't feel that I am completing the task, but more like a detective looking for clues to solve the mystery, constantly pursuing the truth and even enjoying the game; And people's psychology will have different conflicts at different stages, which is a proposition that can be explored for life, so it can also run through life.
3. Summarize the basic needs behind the goals one by one?
Sort out the initial goal of joining the club, recent feelings and usual work and life, and sort out daily matters:
work
Making a living: security needs
Colleague friendship: the need for belonging and love
English
Get first-hand information and take the initiative: security requirements
Fluent and excellent spoken English: respect for needs
do gymnastics
Enjoy the pain and excitement after exercise: physiological needs
Healthy body? :? Security requirements
Good figure: respect for needs
blockchain
Pay attention to emerging things: security requirements
Investment profit: security demand
Community learning
Improve ability, efficiency and cognitive level:? Security requirements
Having peer motivation: the need for belonging and love
Exploring the direction of life: the need for self-realization
Organize a ball game
Enjoy exercise itself: physiological drive
Golfers with the same hobbies:? The need for belonging and love
Physiological needs 14% safety needs 43% respect needs 14% belonging and love needs 22% self-realization needs 7%
Of course, the number and duration of doing things every week can be counted more specifically, and the proportion of statistics will be more accurate.