Regarding the Chinese, food is an origin of life, but we knew, the Chinese eats meal, regardless of the family member reunions invites the visitor, is everybody sits in a circle the same place, all chopsticks extend to the identical TV dinner. No

matter on any vegetable, everybody has the share theoretically at least, obviously, in here, “everybody has more importantly, everybody eats together”. Therefore, regardless of your I whether of the same clan, also, no matter your I whether to be

acquainted with one another, so long as were eating meal together, had the identical life to originate, was also “the nabs”. Even if is not the nabs, should also become the acquaintance, but so-called “the acquaintance” was the

process cooked and attends to has become “the edibility” the human, might also “eat”. If “the stranger”, “does not open mouth”. After eats together many times repeatedly, everybody very “ripe”, then may ask him

to help, the opposite party is not mostly good rejects, if rejects, was equal to that has revived again the boiled thing, this how could it not be “half-cooked”? In China, the personhood most fears “half-cooked”.

Because “lives” is unimportant, “fresh” can always turn “” ripe endlessly. “half-cooked” is not good, boils again, boils not ripe; Does not boil, also does the must not eat, what thing calculate?therefore

, Chinese, once asks others for help the help, must treat mostly eats meal. Certainly, treats eats meal not necessarily needs help from the human, but goal to establish one kind of quite intimate relations. Because treats the significance which eats meal, is

not completely for “eats to the human”, but lies in “eats together”, everybody then had “eats together bowl of foods” the friendship. This kind of friendship enables the Chinese any policy, the rules and regulations, the natural justice even

true feelings, had the possibility for eating does not have, dispelled.