Hello, first of all, I sympathize with you. You are helpful and tolerant. These are good habits. As a class flower, the pressure is really great. You should know yourself correctly first. Are your kindness to others really good in others' eyes? Or man-made? Because ordinary people like to look at others (especially excellent people) with colored glasses. Secondly, don't think too much. If something happens, read more books on psychology. I believe there are many people who want to make friends with you, but you are not easy to approach. Finally, just give up something decisively, just because you are a class flower. I hope these suggestions can help you a little.