To sum up, I suggest you choose ICBC!

The reason is: ICBC is more developed than transportation, whether it is a provincial capital or other big city, and a more important issue is that my parents are around. I think ICBC has a good future.

As for your girlfriend who is in the provincial capital, this issue must be considered. If the two of you are sincere, you can let her come to your place of work. As the old saying goes, marry the chicken and follow the chicken. If you can't choose between this, it means that your relationship is still the same.

Not stable enough.

Being a parent is not easy. As long as you have this filial piety, you can find another girlfriend.