Becoming a stewardess may be the dream of many girls when they are young. And I happen to have such a girl by my side. Her name is Wan'er. On the occasion of her 24th birthday, she ushered in the most shining milestone in her life-Lufthansa flight attendant offer.

Speaking of flight attendants, our impressions of flight attendants are sweet smiles, exquisite makeup and decent uniforms. Travel to different cities and countries for free all year round, taste local food, make friends and appreciate exotic customs. Your mouth is like a National Geographic magazine, full of stories.

What we fantasize about but can't do every day, they do it every day. After working hard for a year, we can only travel once or twice at most, and their job is to travel. Raise your hand if you disagree! I can't see anyway ~!

When I met Wan, she was already a thin and healthy girl and spoke English fluently. I once thought it was reasonable for her to break through the layers of screening.

However, she said that her experience was far from as smooth as I expected.

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Becoming a stewardess was her dream in college. Although her major has nothing to do with flight attendants or even the aviation industry, she has been working hard for this goal for two years since graduation. Friends around her didn't think so, and said encouraging words lightly, but no one thought she could succeed.

In fact, the answer of international airlines is "no" in capital. Many people stand up again after setbacks. But after five or six failures, you may start to doubt yourself and your life.

However, she has a resilience, just like Mia, the heroine of the movie la la land. She failed again and again in the audition, gave up countless times, turned to dry her tears and started over. Life is full of crits, and only dreams can become armor.

How can this middle-aged girl born after 90 be the same age as other Buddhists?

Wan'er said that whenever I come back, I feel like Sisyphus pushing the boulder of my dreams.

In the two years after graduation, she worked very hard, with a decent job and a good salary, but she never stopped pursuing her dreams, trying, failing, recovering and starting over.

When she looked at the admission notice of the Ivy League University in the United States, she studied it carefully for a few minutes. Tears filled her eyes and her face was filled with joy. At that time, she also got Lufthansa's offer. She knows that the hard work of realizing her dreams is effortless to others, and it is the result of her day and night efforts, and this process is not glamorous at all.

On this road, she went into darkness and burned herself into light.

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Some time ago, because I lost ten kilograms, Big S was pushed to the hot search by my husband. Netizens have offered their knees to express their admiration. What impressed me most was what Big S's mother said to Wang Xiaofei: Your wife wants to do something, and no one can stop her.

Not only Wang Xiaofei, but also the people who eat melons can't help but respect her.

Big S is a famous woman. She has been cruel to herself. Even now, her protection of beauty and white is still a bit abnormal and extreme. However, she really showed us the truth of life. No pains, no gains.

Do not rely on the outside world, be your own chip and backer. It is a rare quality to go all the way to black.

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A young man started his own business as soon as he graduated, and recently founded his own brand.

She has been a gourmet since she was a child. Her love for her hometown specialties and admiration for her hometown culture made her embark on a road of no return.

At first, she only had a computer and herself. Do your own website, open your own Taobao shop, micro shop, and do your own sales customer service logistics accounting.

Later, in order to make more reliable and delicious specialties, she learned to cook and make various specialties by hand, so in addition to the above positions, she also added the titles of purchasing, chef and creative design. However, reality still hates bone feeling. For a long time, business only made ends meet, with almost no surplus. Even her parents advised her to give up. After all, it is easy to find a job, but difficult to do business.

She gritted her teeth and begged her parents to give her another six months. In order to be different from others, she consulted her peers, studied and improved recipes, and went to the market to bargain personally in order to control costs. From a girl who didn't touch the spring water, she became a woman who did everything herself. There is no bossy female president, only very sad and depressed.

It has been three years since she started her business, and she has never stopped. Now we not only have our own brand, but also have more helpers and are interviewed by TV stations. It's like walking and hanging up.

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Zhou Chong, a writer, said that a dream without ridicule can hardly be called a dream.

Whose dream has not been hit? Those who say you can't do it and advise you to give up are actually tests arranged by God.

Some people put it down long ago, while others are persistent. Those girls who go all the way to the dark and never give up until they realize their dreams deserve the most respect. They have their own explosive power and are destined to achieve a big explosion for themselves.

You and I may both have some dreams that seem out of reach for a while. How do we achieve them? I once asked my teacher, and she gave me the answer, reverse analysis.

For example, Wan'er can become her dream stewardess, not because of blind efforts. She also found three key points by reverse analysis, and then did it.

Twenty years old is the best age for girls. If you have a dream, you can realize it step by step according to the backward method. Don't worry about success or failure, because you are becoming a better self step by step, so your efforts have not been in vain. Encourage each other ~