Linlin looked at the blessing message on WeChat: I wish you happiness for the rest of your life, and you should continue to be happy. Looking at such warm words, Linlin smiled.
In another week, it will be Linlin's wedding. Although this was her second marriage, she didn't keep a low profile, but gave me a huge second wedding. Linlin has always been afraid of feelings because she is divorced. She dares to hate and love. She is a rare woman who can face up to her feelings and turn her ex-husband into a friend after divorce.
That wish was sent by her ex-husband. After fixing the wedding date, Linlin informed everyone who could, including her ex-husband. She is very sure that her ex-husband will not be a stranger to her and will be happy for her. And the result is just as she imagined.
Linlin knows that not every divorced couple can maintain a good relationship with their ex as she did, and Linlin did. Linlin and her ex-husband divorced because of their children. Of course, there is not much love between them, but they have understood each other for so many years. The fly in the ointment is that they have never had children. At first, Linlin wanted to have children later, but when she wanted to have children, she was found unable to have children.
Linlin's ex-husband can meet any request of Linlin, but he can't just give in on the issue of children. Linlin could see the pain in her ex-husband's heart. She believes that it is better to fulfill it than to entangle it. Since she can't give him what he wants, let's leave amicably.
Lingling signed a divorce agreement, and her ex-husband wanted to give her both the house and the car. Lin Lin looked at the man who had been with her for five years, and his sideburns seemed to show hair that should not be there at this age. Let's see, this marriage that can't stay has made him endure. This is a man who still has obligations to his family, and he is impeccable with Ling's family. However, although he has a stable job, it is not easy for him to mortgage another house.
Linlin looked at her ex-husband and said sincerely, "You will get married in the future. As a woman, you can say anything, but a man cannot live without a house. I'll give you the house and leave the car. " Linlin simply picked up his luggage and drove back to the city where I had originally left.
How can an ex-husband not remember Linlin's fulfillment? As said in WeChat, he sincerely wishes her happiness. Linlin's generosity and fulfillment made the relationship between her and her ex-husband change from "no contact with each other" to "turning an enemy into a friend". This is a woman's cleverness in the face of gains and losses, and it is also a manifestation of her character.
Hui Ling divorced because her ex-husband insisted on divorce. Right and wrong in marriage used to be unclear. Hui Ling only knew that she didn't want to leave anyway. She even gave her ex-husband unlimited freedom, but her ex-husband was very determined and Hui Ling couldn't, so she signed a divorce agreement.
As for this marriage, Hui Ling should mention it first, because her ex-husband didn't have a house, a car and savings when he proposed, so Hui Ling only received a bride price of 1 10,000 yuan, and her ex-husband took 2,000 yuan to pay off the debt. Hui Ling didn't expect, but not as those who knew it knew, that the statement that she had been poor together was true, which became a bloody experience in her later life.
Due to financial difficulties, Hui Ling and her ex-husband have been married for 8 years and often have conflicts. Although there is no love between them, Hui Ling thinks that life is not like this. Life is full of chagrin. Some families live a poor life because they have no money, some families make a fuss because of emotional betrayal, and some families are no longer as happy as before because of illness or other bad luck. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. All she has to do is get married.
But Hui Ling's husband doesn't think so. After he met his new lover Xiang Xiang, he thought Xiang Xiang was the one who could bring him rebirth. When she insisted on divorcing Hui Ling, he also wanted to take custody of the children.
Hui Ling knew that he had nothing, and it was more difficult for him to raise a child than to ascend to heaven. As a matter of fact, it is a good thing for Hui Ling to give the children to him. Remarriage is not troublesome, but it is a very painful thing for her ex-husband and children. Her ex-husband is a careless person, so how can she have time and spirit to take care of the children? Hui Ling knew that she could only compromise at the moment, and she had to compromise for the sake of the children.
Hui Ling agreed to all the conditions of her ex-husband. After signing, she told her ex-husband that if his temporary conditions did not allow, she could help him take care of the children. When his conditions are ripe, she can take the child away at any time as long as he wants. Judging from my present situation, my ex-husband really can't take care of the children alone, and the children have never been able to have a new love. Therefore, the final agreement he reached with Hui Ling is that the custody belongs to the man and the child is taken away by Huiling.
This seems to be an absurd agreement in practice, but Hui Ling has only one idea in her mind, and in any case, her purpose is only one, and that is to take care of the children.
Hui Ling tried her best to take care of the children, and her ex-husband saw it in his eyes. He clearly knew that he really owed Hui Ling, but Hui Ling never complained about him, but he faced himself and his children more attentively than before.
My ex-husband thought that they wouldn't have anything to do after the divorce, but now whenever he hears what happened to Hui Ling's family, he is always the first to rush out to help deal with it, and every time he sends her a sincere message saying that she is working hard to take care of the children alone.
As long as Hui Ling knows for herself, she won't ruin the child's life because of a temporary quarrel, and she can bear anything for the child.
I've seen many families making a fuss about divorce. Too few women can fulfill others and make self-sacrifice for the overall situation. Although it is a day for couples to be grateful, there are only a handful of people who can break up properly at present.
However, those women with high IQ never do low-level things. They proved that breaking up is a good thing with facts. Although they lost their marriage without love, they won't resent it, they will bear the ideal of failed marriage, they will tolerate and forbear for the overall situation, and they won't make the relationship stiff. They will only use their intelligence to "turn enemies into friends" with their ex-husbands.