And once we really love someone, we will fall into an illusion. It makes us beautify everything about each other. Our eyes screen out the real flaws and shortcomings that we don't want to see, and tamper with and beautify everything about lovers.
So everyone who falls in love, they fall in love with each other, not the real one. But a lover I made up, a virtual lover in my mind. They wear glasses to beautify everything and stare at each other lovingly and ridiculously.
At the same time, romantic love is sacred in people's eyes. It seems to have nothing to do with all ordinary things.
The encounter between lovers is not a dull accident, but a necessity of careful arrangement of smallpox time.
And just like a plate just broke in half, only the other side can be perfectly put together. They only belong to each other, they will not fall in love with others, and they can't fall in love with others.
Everything unique and absolute is sacred, but is love really like this?
I don't think God has time to care who you love.
A simple fact can prove this. When you break up with your lover, you will still miss her at first, and the illusion of love will still bless her or him, and even get worse because of sadness.
But once you fall in love with someone else, those fantasies will all disappear. When you look at each other again, those shortcomings of each other begin to appear, and you will feel that they are two completely different people.
At the same time, the person who was originally doomed in the illusion became a new lover, and everything before became a mistake.
So wake up, love is not a sacred thing, it is just an ordinary machine that can create hallucinations.
Therefore, I don't pursue the unique and absolute love, the love that falls in love at first sight and is destined to be loved. That is a fantasy that doesn't exist and an excuse for innovation. I only believe in the depth and intensity of feelings. Love, like food, is the most meaningful when the time comes.
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