During the Republic of China, there were too many such beautiful and individual women. There is a woman, known as the peak and model of celebrity, and Lu Xiaoman are also called "Southern Tang and Northern Land". She is the fashion queen of the Republic of China, and she is a wonder girl Tang Ying.
A good background and education are the necessary conditions for a celebrity.
Although not as prominent as Lu Xiaoman's son's family, Tang Ying grew up with a golden spoon in her mouth. Her father was one of the first western doctors who returned from studying abroad. After returning to China, she first worked as a doctor in beiyang fleet, and later opened a private clinic in Shanghai. Her family also owned a pharmacy and a pharmaceutical factory. Most of the guests coming and going were aristocratic families at that time.
Tang Jia's youngest daughter, Tang Jia's younger sister, recalled in her 80 s that the servants at that time were divided into drivers, aunts who combed their hair, aunts who washed clothes and aunts who cooked. ......
Because of his enlightened family style, when he reached a certain age, his father sent Tang Ying to a Chinese and Western girls' school, which was an aristocratic school where the Soong sisters studied. This school attaches great importance to English, mathematics, physics and chemistry education, and some wealthy disciples are proud of marrying western-style "ladies" who graduated from Chinese and western girls' schools.
In addition to learning dance, English and traditional China drama, girls in the Tang family also have an important course-paying attention to food and clothes.
There are special tailors at home who can customize clothes; You can't talk while eating, and children can't stand up to get food; The importance of guests from home is different in the morning, afternoon and evening; Even carrying bags and picking up things have special postures.
Tang Ying is very fashionable, well-dressed and avant-garde. It has always been a weather vane leading the fashion trend in Shanghai.
Chanel No5 perfume, Ferragamo high heels, CD lipstick, Celine clothing, channel perfume bag, LV handbag ... all French women had them at that time, and so did Tang Ying.
It is said that Tang Ying's room has a wardrobe with a whole wall. When it is opened, it is full of fur coats. Every time I wear new clothes, all the tailors in Shanghai are very busy, because I don't know how many women want to follow suit. This is simply the queen of explosions today.
Moreover, she will design her own clothes and visit all the places that can inspire her clothes. Whenever she meets amazing clothes, she doesn't buy them, but silently writes down the styles and tells her tailor to make them at home.
Because of her outstanding taste and fashion charm, Shang Yun Fashion Company in Zhang Youyi also invited her to be a model. At that time, Linglong magazine even regarded Tang Ying as a model of a famous lady to encourage women in the old days to be well informed.
However, if you are just beautiful, you will never be a role model for women. Tang Ying is also versatile and has a strong personal charm.
Don Wei Hong, her elder sister, recalled that her elder sister knew several languages, was very talented and could perform plays. She and Lu Xiaoman once performed the Kunqu Opera "Picking up Paintings as Paintings" together at the Shanghai Women's Troupe Art Conference. One plays Du Liniang, and the other plays Liu Mengmei. It was so exciting that people couldn't divert their attention and immediately became the front page of the major newspapers at that time.
At that time, a foreign president came to Shanghai, and Tang Ying always attended any important banquet to perform the piano and Kunqu opera, which was very beautiful and was worshipped by many girls.
Such a beautiful woman should be pursued by many people, with perfect love and happy marriage. Tang Ying has a beautiful appearance, lively personality and slim figure. There are many suitors, but her love is not smooth.
During her teenage years, Tang Ying's most noteworthy pursuits were Soong Ching Ling and Song Meiling's younger brother Song Ziwen. She is in charge of financial power, handsome and rich, and is the hottest "bachelor of diamonds" in Shanghai.
However, Tang Ying's father does not advocate that his children associate with politicians. In that stormy era, every courtier was once an emperor and strongly opposed their communication. Later, Tang Ying's brother was mistaken for Song Ziwen's assassination, which cast a shadow over this relationship.
There is no written record to show whether Tang Ying ever cared about Song Ziwen, but it is said that she kept the letters written by Song Ziwen in the drawer of her room and often looked through them.
Following his parents' advice, Tang Ying soon married Li, a wealthy businessman in Shanghai, and Li Zufa, the son of the Li family in Xiaogang Village in Ningbo. In the eyes of outsiders, Jin Yuliang is not happy after marriage.
Li Zufa is introverted and quiet, and doesn't like his wife to show her face all day. Moreover, the education methods of their son Ming Cho Lee are quite different. Ming Cho Lee likes painting since he was a child, so Tang Ying bought his son a brush to encourage him to paint more, but Li Zufa is pragmatic and practical, and thinks that art is unreliable. In the end, the two broke up peacefully because of disagreement.
A really smart woman should probably be like this. She will not blindly deny herself because her husband doesn't like it, nor will she change herself to cater to her husband, and eventually become an dissatisfied woman who loses herself. They understand that marriage is only suitable for themselves, not for themselves.
After the divorce, Tang Ying never recovered. She has her own hobbies and friends, like watching movies, wearing beautiful clothes, eating all kinds of delicious food, and full of enthusiasm for life.
Tang Ying's second husband is Rong Xianlin, the nephew of Hong Rong, the father of overseas students in China. In others' eyes, his face value and family background are not so good, but in Tang Ying's eyes, he is lively, cheerful, humorous and proficient in riding and dancing, and their attitudes towards life are surprisingly consistent. Isn't this the most suitable partner for him?
After marriage, Tang Ying went to Hongkong with her husband and finally settled in the United States.
After Tang Ying's second marriage, many people may not be able to manage it well. The husband is just an ordinary insurance broker. Besides her ex-husband's son, Ming Cho Lee, her husband has four children to take care of.
But she never complains. No matter at home or outside, Tang Ying always dresses up beautifully, wears lipstick and high heels, and always keeps elegant.
On weekends, I always take time out to take my children to the theater, movies, galleries, concerts or picnics. If you don't go to the show, you will also take the children to eat snacks, noodles in soup, stewed noodles, and American chocolates and hamburgers.
When Ang Lee was filming Lust, Caution, she asked her sister Tang about the living conditions and etiquette of that era. Don talks about her sister and says that she always smiles whenever I see her.
This is what I especially admire about Tang Ying-he never complains about his life. Life is bitter and sweet, and how to live it is a lifetime. Why not be happy instead of sad?
The son trained by such a mother is also excellent. My son Ming Cho Lee worked in art design, and later became a famous master of stage design in China and a tenured professor at Yale University in the United States. He was also known as "the master of contemporary stage design in the world" and "the master of stage design in the United States".
This may be inherited from Tang Ying's artistic talent, which is also closely related to Tang Ying's education. Tang Ying paid attention to cultivating children's aesthetic feeling from an early age. Seeing that my son likes painting, I bought him a brush, encouraged him to paint, and often took him in and out of the theater. Li Mingjiao was influenced by good beauty since childhood.
My sister Tang Zeng wrote in the book: "My sister likes to play, dress up, dance, make friends, socialize, and everything that is expensive, beautiful and luxurious. All these hobbies have not changed since I got old. "
In his later years, Tang Ying lived in the unit next to his son and played cards with friends and relatives during the day. He takes his grandchildren to the theatre, movies and snacks when he has nothing to do. His life is stable and happy.
1986, a generation of strange girl Tang Ying died peacefully in her apartment in new york.
I often feel that the women around us who live beautifully and elegantly are like our navigation lights, letting us know that we can look at life in this way and live on.
We ordinary people may not have Tang's good background and beauty, but we can learn from her attitude towards life. "We should not just dress up as a beautiful woman, but live as a beautiful woman." In this way, every ordinary person can also exude unique charm.