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When children are asleep, they watch the Taiwanese drama "The Formation of Vulgar Girls" intermittently. There are tears in laughter and laughter in tears, which is worth watching.

I want to ask you, if a person is 41 years old, in a big city with first-tier coordinates, unmarried, without a house or children, with a tedious job and an average income, he has no love relationship and can't see the future.

Do you feel confused and anxious?

This is the situation of Carina Chan in The Story of the Cultivation of Vulgar Women.

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First, let's talk about how good the reputation of this drama is. As a self-made drama in Taiwan Province, it has set the best ratings for self-made dramas for more than 11 years, with a douban score of 9.1.

there is no overbearing president, no successful counterattack, only deep love and affection are never absent.

The film depicts the protagonist's struggle and anxiety between meeting other people's expectations and self-needs, and finally finds a breakthrough.

If Please Answer 1988 is the little sun in your heart, then The Story of Vulgar Cultivation can also let you see yourself in details and ordinary life.

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The story is unfolded through two lines. First, Ling Chia, 41, is presented to us.

After studying hard all the way from a small place in Tainan to Taipei for nearly twenty years, she still has no sense of belonging to Taipei.

At the beginning of the picture, she laughed at herself helplessly: "Hello, everyone, I am Chen Jialing who lives in Taipei, but I will never become a Taipei native."

Although working as a secretary to the chairman of a company looks beautiful and timid, I am actually tired of being caught between an unfaithful boss and an extremely controlling boss.

On the one hand, she has to be on call 24 hours a day to be an undercover to monitor her boss's derailment, on the other hand, she has to help her boss arrange her lover's hotel ticket itinerary and lie everywhere, which makes her feel split.

Boyfriends who have been dating for four years seem to have good conditions, but they lack communication with each other, and they don't even want to have intimate behavior anymore, and they are more and more the same as roommates.

When she came back from a class reunion, she proposed to her boyfriend successfully, but she never thought that her prospective mother-in-law was an interventionist, and everything from wedding dresses to decoration needed to be done according to her requirements.

Faced with all this, Ling Chia hesitated. She felt that this was not the life she wanted. In her heart, her familiar hometown has been calling her. She quit her job, ruined her engagement and returned to Tainan.

Chen Jialing's return is not a simple escape, she is looking for her true self.

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You see, this is much like our middle-aged life:

We have achieved nothing, our love has been frustrated, we have struggled for most of our lives, and our life is still a pool of mud.

But Chen Jialing in the play has an inexplicable persistence and hard work.

She quit her job, broke up with her boyfriend and went back to her hometown in the country.

to outsiders, this is undoubtedly the most loser middle-aged template.

But she said, "The second half of my life has just begun."

After returning to her hometown, she obtained an English tour guide certificate and got a job as an English tour guide with her fluent foreign language.

She used all her savings to buy a "haunted house" that she always hid from when she was a child. Even if her family said she was crazy, she didn't care.

From design appearance, spatial layout to furniture selection, we do it ourselves and enthusiastically dress up our own home.

Fortunately, she met a childhood love, and her childhood playmates understood, loved and tolerated her.

at the age of 41, she is still optimistic and enthusiastic after being unemployed and lovelorn.

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There is a sentence in this drama that I particularly like and I want to tell you:

"This life is actually very long, so long that you can fall down and get up again, and wake up in a dream;

This life is actually very short, so short that you have no time to force yourself and hate yourself. "

After reading her story, I realized:

As long as we start, it's too late. I hope we can live our lives in our own way.

diu diu girl, a Chinese teacher in the third grade graduating class, is an amateur code word and loves to cook delicious food. I hope to make the ordinary life lively and interesting. I wish you happiness after reading this article. ?