The first priority is always yourself

If you are different, you will be happy. Why not?

I have many friends, but I still feel lonely. What should I do? What should I do if I am quiet by nature and lack the ability to cope with the excitement? In fact, if different will make you happy, why not?

growing up means disenchantment

judging from the heated discussion on the topic of "doing e for I", it is very important to know the uniqueness of your personality. Don't look at others with a filter, but magnify your own shortcomings in high definition, put down blind worship of others and stop meaningless self-attack. Learn to disenchant, no matter who has limitations. Sammi Cheng, whose early figure was rejected, also laughed at herself for being "flat". Later, she realized that this was not a defect or an obstacle. "We should respect and accept our figure and believe in ourselves". There is no need to be cautious and humble to lose your personality in order to cater to it.

Remember, you will always be the first.

Respect and differentiate your life

Yoshii, who likes to be alone, said in Eight Square Meters in Tokyo:

"I can immerse myself in my own world"

nanae Aoyama, the author of Good Weather for One, thinks:

"The highlight of life is when I walk and cook in a daze" < And keep an open attitude, there is no need to force gregarious and obliterate personality in order to integrate into the mainstream, but it is most important not to judge conclusions with limited cognition when you are not experienced, accept yourself, accept the environment and make yourself comfortable.

follow your heart and live freely.