On this basis, learn from each other's strengths, respect each other, tolerate understanding and develop together!
Solve problems when you encounter them, instead of choosing zero tolerance, escape, or breaking up.
In addition to feelings, we should strive to improve the material and cultural living standards, aim at the target and do nothing.
Only in this way can we establish a long-term attraction between the two sexes.
Among them, the most painful thing is to accept the test and assessment of real life.
You say,
We will find that many people around us will be in a state of looking excellent, but just unhappy. Both husband and wife have good financial ability, but why did they finally get divorced?
I said that because they are economically independent, they seem to be independent, but they lack trust and determination to stabilize and unite.
Feelings, unreliable! The road is getting narrower and narrower.
Emotion is the foundation of the two sexes together. Without feelings, the rest are floating clouds, which can't stand any test.
In the face of all kinds of temptations in the future, we can't protect ourselves and save ourselves.
In fact, men and women have different meanings at different stages of life.
We can't always do what we ask, appreciate and visit.
The impulse and passion of youth, the maturity and stability of middle-aged and elderly people, the burden of life is getting heavier and heavier, and between the sexes, it becomes less simple and even complicated!
It takes more than one or two sentences to explain clearly.
Depends on how you define and understand it.
The best sexual relationship,
That is, you have me, and I have you. This is you.
Mutual respect, tolerance and understanding, and joint efforts.
How to establish long-term attraction between the two sexes?
Don't talk about your strengths or my weaknesses.
Use your advantages to make up for my shortcomings, and my advantages make up for yours.
Fair and reasonable!
Only in this way can long-term attraction be established.
So are you,
No longer strange,
A lot less complaining.
If you sell secondhand goods, go to a thrift store. Let me answer your question!
Attraction is illusory, but it is real. First of all, it must be clear that there are two kinds of attraction: long-term attraction and short-term attraction. Visual attraction is the first attraction, just as we don't like ugly women and women don't like sloppy men. Sometimes, in fact, in women, men's money is inversely proportional to their sense of security, and the richer they are, the less secure they are. Many women will think that rich men will go out to flirt, so your personality is equally important. Please keep a proper distance from other women.
In fact, there are many men and women who fall in love at first sight in life. Love at first sight is not when you look at me and I look at you, but when you look at the smell, you are attracted and fascinated by the smell of the other person. The external expression of inner beauty is temperament. Temperament is that special smell, which is the so-called taste. A congenial heart means that everyone thinks each other is good, you like others, and others like you.
Visual appreciation: mainly about a person's appearance, clothes collocation, hairstyle decoration and so on. All these external things form the first impression. If you can like each other and make them like yourself, then two people will especially look forward to getting to know each other better.
The attraction between the two sexes simply comes from the mystery brought by differences and the happiness brought by complementary advantages. The concrete analysis has two levels: one is from sex, which is an animal instinct. Due to the physiological differences between men and women, with the arrival of adolescence, the production and secretion of hormones and sex hormones make the material incentives for mutual attraction between the two sexes breed. The combination of sex can produce great physiological pleasure, and can also continue the reproduction and survival of human beings. These two states, which are both enjoyable and utilitarian, have become an important force for men and women to attract and combine. Second, from love, love is an emotional charm. If sexual attraction is a material and physiological instinctive reaction, then the attraction to the opposite sex caused by factors such as appearance, personality, knowledge, demeanor and temperament is the spiritual attraction. Love beyond material and secular has always been a remarkable symbol of human beings. The combination of the two sexes with love is infinitely happier than only the combination of the body. Because true love must be a blend of soul and flesh.
What attracts us to each other? Although the chemical reaction between people plays a great role in the love relationship, personal personality quality is also the key to bring lovers together. Some people love appearance, some people love social status, and some people love personal character, such as whether he/she is attractive, friendly, gentle and friendly, good at thinking, or even smart enough.
Women's sensibility matches men's rationality, with the most primitive desire as the catalyst, so it is not difficult to understand that men and women are attracted to each other in the process of contact.
The key is your own appreciation. From her (him), we can see the qualities and advantages that we don't have. A person is always unfathomable and will always make you feel fresh. We will always see the good side of each other, regard each other as our true friends, talk about everything, get along sincerely, and the pure friendship will last forever!
The ancients have long concluded that life is nothing more than eating, and that this is the most basic need of human beings, and everything in life revolves around these! I think what the ancients said is true, so I picked up the wisdom of the ancients and put forward the following points:
Life is nothing but sex! Visible, if the temptation of life, we can't escape from these two levels. Eating color means delicious and beautiful, and it is representative of sex! In terms of sensory desire, people are greedy when they see delicious food, and they want to see or take it for themselves when they see beautiful things! Sex? No explanation. -these are human nature, and there is a saying that a leopard cannot change his spots.
So how can we build a long-term attraction between two people? Judging from the color of food, food in the world is all-encompassing, and temptation is everywhere. No matter what you have eaten, why do southerners always love rice in their bones? And northerners always like noodles in their bones? How did this fundamental temptation and long-term attraction come from? It's called eating habits! How do habits come from? It is undoubtedly cultivated. Sex is sex, but don't think it's just sex in a narrow sense, it includes personality and so on. And personality is related to growth experience. Visibility is not only sexual behavior, but also the combination of two people's life attitudes and experiences! Animals can only be called mating. To sum up, if two people want to remain attractive for a long time, they must first cultivate their indispensable living habits together, and more importantly, cultivate an eternal amber-like spiritual and physical fit (which is to be satisfied)! In short, let each other always feel that each other is the best encounter in the world, and each other comes from an irreplaceable unique feeling in the bones.
In order to maintain the long-term attraction between the two sexes, only by increasing understanding and cultivating feelings in life, people are emotional animals, and only by cultivating inseparable love in the storms of years.
Ha ha! It is too difficult to establish a lasting attraction between the two sexes. One party was careless, and all previous efforts were in vain. Forget it, I want it, too! ! !
Husband and wife are the core of maintaining the whole family and the key to family prosperity. How to maintain long-term attraction between the two sexes? It is most important to establish family harmony, live in harmony and maintain vigorous vitality.
Practice shows that whenever there is a lack of long-term attraction between the two sexes, the family will move from harmony to noisy and fighting, from harmony to anxiety and paranoia, and finally go their separate ways, from prosperity to decline, and even the family will be ruined.
So, how can we maintain the long-term attraction between the two sexes? I think we should make efforts in the following aspects:
First, mutual understanding and respect.
Second, pay attention to hygiene habits.
Third, keep good behavior habits.
Fourth, filial piety to parents and other elderly people.
Fifth, live in harmony with brothers, sisters, relatives and friends on both sides.
Sixth, establish common and beneficial sexual interests.
Seven, maintain the harmony of husband and wife life.
Eight, caring, helpful, and brave to contribute to the people.
First of all, everyone should have an outlook on life and aesthetics, and the independence of the inner world brings admiration for each other.
Secondly, we should work hard for the common goal and deepen love in equality and mutual love.
Finally, in the plain, in the contradiction, in line with the principle of care and tolerance to solve the problem, love permeates life.
People belong to advanced animals, and there is good care between men and women.
To stay attractive for a long time, I say the key is to live happily. Without this item, there is definitely no attraction. I believe it anyway.
The fundamental driving force for men and women to attract each other is men's lasting sexual ability and women's willing cooperation. Without this, the attraction will be much less if it is supported by family and friendship alone. Moreover, the power of mutual attraction needs to be supported by something at the moral level; Compared with the intensity of physiological needs, it must be much smaller.