if you weren't a coquette before, if you say this sentence at the beginning, maybe the other person will change too quickly to accept it, which will eventually affect the coquetry effect. This is because your long-term role orientation is a man, and anything that breaks the role orientation takes time for both parties to adapt. So what you have to do is slowly break this role orientation and establish a new role orientation. More coquetry, lower the bottom line again and again, lose moral integrity again and again, and let the other party get used to it.