I especially like Li's birthday. A few months ago, I was glad to have the opportunity to interview him. Unfortunately, one step away, out of reach, because of improper time arrangement, I finally failed to see him; But that doesn't stop me from continuing to like him!

Recently, he published a new book, A Guide to Crossing the Universe. During the publicity, the propagandist made the following settings for him:

Screenwriter, talk show actor, host, poet, one of the most popular stars of 20 17.

The background of his new book is:

Master and apprentice returned to the Jianghu, from the temple to the universe, just for the sake of universal beings-this setting continues the absurd and pessimistic story style of his first La Jing, which is full of cleverness;

"People always have to die, which is the only certain thing in the universe"-this setting continues Li's playful and transparent style of trying to see through everything.

But he said, "You don't need to read these propaganda words. Awkward. Just buy them. "

Ha ha ha, that's why I always like him: humorous, transparent and self-deprecating.

Too many people have collapsed during this time:

Couples who were so sweet that they lost their teeth quietly received divorce certificates as early as a few years ago;

Once a melancholy and affectionate musical genius, he didn't only love one person in his life, but hurt two women in five years;

What kind of person doesn't break down? My answer is: it seems to be Li's birthday.

When Li Dan was just a behind-the-scenes director, the host in front of the stage said, "My friend Dandan, what happened recently?" After that, I followed Li Dan's example, squinting and telling jokes that happened to Li Dan.

Later, he became a talk show actor and became "balls with redder hair than people."

Nobody set it up. In a group of people, you will only become a background wall; And if you set yourself up, you can be recognized at a glance even in the vast sea of people.

The reason for Li's birthday now is not only "my friend's balls" and "balls with redder hair than people", but also "humorous, transparent and self-blackened balls", because his personality does not contradict his own.

Rujing once told me that she was especially grateful for what she had given her: cuteness.

At first, Mix thought she was so cute and fleshy, and wanted to pinch her. But she thinks that Mix plays too many plays, always lukewarm, and ignores Mix. Everyone saw this interaction between her and Mix, only to find that the quiet girl was such a lovely girl. Therefore, in the eyes of colleagues and fans in the company, for example, the original design of Jing is cute+baby.

Slowly, in every debate, everyone is waiting for Rujing to talk about eating chicken, or eating vegetables, which is her cutest, cutest and most logical time.

There is a discussion in the first issue of "Qipa Shuo": "Is the partner more experienced or less experienced in finding love?"

She said, "If there are many people eating in a restaurant, will you also line up for dinner?" ? A restaurant that no one has ever eaten, how hungry are you to want to go in and eat that restaurant? Therefore, I think we should find more experience in falling in love. "

Logical, cute, but also cleverly avoided the fact that they have no love experience, but taught people to fall in love.

Like Joker Xue, Jin Dong and Ruby Lin who have collapsed, Li Dan and Rujing have also been established.

But the difference is that even if Li Dan is not like the egg who is often bullied in the design, even if Rujing is not only simple and lovely, she will become more and more "black-bellied" in The Werewolf in the Dinner. But this has not affected their staffing at all.

For example, when guessing the wolf combination, Ru Jing would say, "If the wolf combination is Dawang, Neslon and Jin Jing, it would be a bit funny."

When I learned that Teacher Ma was a hunter, I immediately changed my mind and stopped "hurting each other" with him.

This humanized design will not collapse because Li Dan and Rujing know that it is very important to establish humanized design, but it is more important for humanized design to conform to nature. Their design has never deviated from their nature and initial intention.

Therefore, whether it is a black-bellied wolf or the dirtiest debater, Rujing is still the cutest baby.

Some people, like Li Dan and Rujing, follow nature and constantly find themselves more complicated, interesting and real.

Some people don't understand, so that their true colors are revealed and they fall into a most familiar but unfamiliar image. The face is still that face, but who is this person?

The reason is that the former goes with nature, while the latter goes against nature, and the fake and the true self will eventually tear apart.

Moreover, the consequences of being "familiar and unfamiliar" to yourself will not only happen to stars, but also to us ordinary people.

I remember the social artist Amalia ullman once did an experiment:

For four months, she insisted on drying food, red wine, designer bags, vest lines, parties and holiday photos on ins.

And invented it for himself:

Come to the big city for the dream of modeling.

My dream can't come true, and I live with michel platini, a rich second generation.

Indulge in drugs and alcohol, and lead a drunken life.

Turn over a new leaf, start over, and be reborn.

These experiences have brought her more than 654.38 million fans.

But Amalia ullman herself is just an ordinary college student. The most visited place is the library, and the most visited place is the exhibition halls of various cities.

What shocked me most about this experiment was that what attracted more than 65,438+10,000 people's attention was not the created online celebrity, but a person's behavior of establishing an image on the Internet, which was too similar to me.

Once chatting with my cousin, she said, "Your life is becoming more and more literary."

I blurted out: "I am not a literary youth!"

She said, "Isn't it just a literary youth who lives by writing?"

Locate the scenic spots in the circle of friends, expose the exhibitions you are interested in, and share the ethnic minority songs that touched you. These contents have shaped a person in my circle of friends, that is, literary youth.

Look at my old life again. I don't have any literary temperament. I either struggle to find a topic and repeat the outline repeatedly, or write articles to catch up with the manuscript. This is my daily life.

Just like Amelia ullman's experiment, the man I created in my circle of friends is my biggest misunderstanding.

People who don't follow nature can make you look different, but it also adds a layer of misunderstanding. When this person collapses, you and this person will be broken; Conforming to human nature will only make you more and more unique, more and more real and more comfortable.

I remember when Lu Han announced his love affair with Guan Xiaotong, agent Yang Tianzhen said, "Life is our own business, and we all try to live comfortably."

Lu Han's boyfriend collapsed, but he became more and more comfortable. So, follow nature, follow yourself, and establish a person who will never fall.

Otherwise, you play the role of a man, who will play yourself?

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