Perhaps many people will think that Sister Rong is also the daughter who grew up in front of Gu. Although Mammy Zhang is his wet nurse, she is a servant after all. How can she marry her beloved daughter to the offspring of a servant? This has to start with the identity of Sister Rong.
First of all, Rong Jieer's birth has been criticized. It is difficult to find a suitable husband's family. Rong Jieer's biological mother is Zhu Manniang, Gu's outer room. Zhu Manniang is a woman with weak appearance and vicious heart. Xiao Qin bought her and tried her best to become Gu's outer room, which not only fascinated Gu, but also made him give birth to a pair of children before marriage.
However, Zhu Manniang is not content to be Gu's favorite woman. She took a fancy to Gu's position as the hostess, so she encouraged Gu to compete for the title and interfered with Gu's proposal to Miss Yu.
However, when Gu made a mistake, she immediately took Gu's money title deed and ran away with her son Long song, leaving Gu with only one daughter, namely Rong Jie.
Although Gu Yeting saw Zhu Manniang's true face, Rong Jieer was his daughter. He didn't ignore this daughter because of Zhu Manniang, but he loved her dearly. The relationship between the father and the daughter is very good, but Rong Jieer doesn't know that Zhu Manniang and her father have torn their faces. She grew up with her father, but she also misses her mother.
Later, Gu Hesheng became a relative, but in Rongjie's mind, her mother has always been Zhu Manniang, so she refused to call her mother, but called her a big lady. Therefore, although Sister Rong grew up under the care of others, she is still an illegitimate daughter in the eyes of outsiders. It's really not easy to find a husband who can be kind to her regardless of her background.
Second, Sister Rong has a good relationship with childhood friends all the year round. Gu has a good relationship with the wet nurse Chang Mammy, so she lets Chang Mammy's grandson grow up with his children all the year round. On the one hand, it is to cultivate feelings with children all the year round, so as to ensure that the descendants of Chang Mammy can also have food and clothing. On the other hand, his son needs a bandu in the future, and the grandson of Chang Mammy, whom he has always trusted, is certainly a very good candidate.
To this end, I grew up with Rong Jie and Tuan Gang (children of Ming Lan) and have deep feelings. It's better to marry a childhood friend than to marry a stranger who has never met outside, right?
Third, the character is good all the year round, and there is no need to say that there is a promising character all the year round. Will the children taught by experts often be poor? I don't think so. In addition, perennial origin is not a problem.
I think there are two situations about perennial students: one is that Chang Mammy is a servant, but Chang family members are not necessarily servants, but at most they are ordinary people all the year round, and the other is that Chang Mammy's family members are servants.
The second one is unlikely, because it is said in the novel, where is Chang Jia? There is only one grandmother and a monk's sister. Is it grandma who has the final say when Miss Gu enters the door? Who will say that the daughter-in-law of an inferior family is grandma's call? Therefore, I think I am white all year round. If Gu Yeting wants him to marry Rong Jieer, he will naturally study hard. In the future, he will be a scholar in high school, and then he will have a family to pave the way. There is no hope in the future.
Therefore, I don't think it's a bad thing for them to get married, because they have a close relationship with Sister Rong all the year round and have a bright future.