God is fair. Everyone has 24 hours a day. Everyone has the same time resources in their hands, but some people don't cherish them at all, and they run out of them, but they always feel bored. Some people, on the other hand, race against the clock and carefully calculate their time to make the best use of it. It seems that how to plan your time well is also a technical job. After all, killing time wisely is definitely a sure-fire investment!
well, today, time will give you a small inventory. after all, only by learning to spend time skillfully can you make money easily!
"Depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out".
We always say, "It's now or never.". This opportunity is actually "threaded" by contacts.
No matter whether you work in the workplace, do business or work freelance, you can't lack contacts.
how to accumulate contacts by investing time? The three most efficient methods are:
offline party in the same city, which is available on douban. However, girls should pay more attention to safety.
offline training and lectures are highly recommended by time. Although it costs money, it's worth it. On the one hand, you can learn knowledge and skills, on the other hand, you can get to know classmates and teachers who give lectures.
a friend of mine was forced to resign because of a conflict with the leader. He was unemployed and lovelorn during that time. He was a fan of Freud, and at that time there was a Freud book club, and he borrowed money to listen to it. At that exchange meeting, he met a friend, and the two chatted very speculatively. This friend also recommended him to work in a new company, and the treatment was better than before.
You can also expand your contacts by using the Internet. For example, you can join more theme groups. If you like cycling, search your local cycling group, and if you have religious beliefs such as Buddhism, you can search your local Buddhist friends group. Love to write articles can join the thematic groups and so on. "Birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups", and choosing a theme community with positive energy will enable you to meet more friends who share your interests and make you grow faster.
the simplest and most effective way to have high quality and wide types of contacts is to cultivate more hobbies. When you make friends with others, you can't always talk about your interests. Having the same interests and hobbies is a necessary condition for your stable friendship. When you look at people with wide connections, it's not because they have superhuman powers or verbal skills, and their social skills are superb, but because they can "talk to people and talk nonsense". They have a wide range of interests and hobbies, so you can know more people who cross the border from this point of view.
So, don't be blindly obsessed with verbal skills and social skills. The most important thing is to really improve your interest and your knowledge!
Never console yourself by saying, "Inner beauty is more important. I only make friends with people who pay attention to inner beauty."
inner beauty is important, but it doesn't mean that outer beauty is not important. It's not the reason why you are too lazy to take care of your image and live a sloppy life.
I have a student who has been complaining to me all the time recently that her blind date is not going well.
well, I'm almost a friend of women.
she said, I'm not demanding either. I just want to find someone pleasing to the eye. But why does everyone grow so ugly?
but she's not pretty either.
people often have two-way demands, asking others to have a good image, but letting themselves be sloppy. If others despise you, you will find an excuse to say that such people are superficial and only pay attention to appearance. However, ask yourself, isn't it?
if you want to change the outside world, you must change from yourself.
I talked about the role of angel aura before. Without exception, people like beautiful things, and they will be happy because of beautiful things. If you are really a little unsatisfactory in your face value and image, then put the others aside, invest time and money, and improve your face value and image. This is true for both boys and girls.
However, time himself does not support plastic surgery, even if it is micro-plastic surgery or injection. Okay, maybe it's an antique. After all, everyone has a different opinion.
improving your face value and image does not mean making yourself perfect, but making yourself look natural, clean, neat, neat, youthful and energetic. Let others see from your appearance that you are a person who loves yourself.
To meet these requirements, we can start from the following aspects:
These are not difficult, and you can do it by investing some time, money and patience. There are many related videos on the Internet to learn, read more relevant magazines, consult with friends who have done well in this field humbly, ask for their guidance and help, persevere, and you will find your own changes before long.
Your face value and image become better, which can enhance your self-confidence. People, things and things with higher frequencies will be attracted.
people with good temperament often have a strong aura, and they can still stand out in front of everyone even if they look moderate.
when I was in college, I spent a long time studying how to improve my temperament, and I was really experienced in this field.
The conventional methods are as follows:
All three aspects need long-term persistence, not how long you practice every day, but how long you can persist. Even if you only finish half an hour every day, you will gain a lot if you persist for a long time.
time now reads two books a week and practices one word a day. No matter how busy you are, you will finish it. It's been eight years now.
Of course, I'm going to give you an extra lesson here to teach you two super useful methods:
Briefly.
The mirror image exercise is: find a mirror at home that can see you from the waist up, dress up and make yourself look clean, tidy and energetic, then stand in front of the mirror, smile, look into the eyes in the mirror and say "thank you, I love you" repeatedly. Hehe, it may seem silly, but it's not. With the help of mirror practice, you can gradually improve your self-esteem, and you can also input positive energy words such as "thank you, I love you" into the subconscious. Once a day, 15 minutes each time, usually lasting for 2-3 months, the effect will come out.
Eye practice is to practice the concentration and vitality of eyes. Eyes are the windows to the soul, and you can feel the spirit of a person by looking into his eyes.
Some people are dead fish eyes, which is the lack of eye vitality, giving people a sense of lifelessness.
Some people have weak eyes, that is, they lack the determination of eyes, which makes people have no confidence at first glance. This kind of gas field is weak, no matter in the workplace or in social activities, it will fall into a disadvantage.
So, to cultivate temperament, don't forget to practice your eyes.
The way to cultivate eye power: Take out a piece of white paper, draw a black spot on it, concentrate your eyes, imagine that there is light coming out of your eyes, and stare at the black spot on the paper without blinking, as long as you can. At first, my eyes will be sore and shed tears in a few seconds, but it doesn't matter. Start with 1 seconds, take it slowly, get used to it and then lengthen the time. 1-3 times a day, 1 minutes each time. Stick to it for a while, and the concentration of your eyes will improve. For example, you dare to look into other people's eyes, and you are firm and not weak.
Method of cultivating eye vitality: There are many changes in this method, and the principle is to make your eyes move as quickly as possible. I like playing table tennis. When I am tired, I rest and watch others play table tennis, with my eyes fixed on the fast-moving table tennis. I'm very tired at first, and I feel dizzy and want to throw up. If you feel uncomfortable, just close your eyes and have a rest. Better. Keep practicing. Of course, you can also choose a few points at home, mark them with small stickers, and stare at the stickers quickly. The same effect can be achieved.
I found that the right brain development is controversial. Many people think that right-brain development is a scam because many right-brain development costs money. Alas, for those who hold these views, I really want to say, "I am convinced of you!" "
People with rich imagination or calculation ability and excellent memory have a higher degree of right brain development than ordinary people.
People can keep practicing through formal methods to achieve the purpose of developing the right brain.
time recommends some information about right brain development.
time once said: "Improving your knowledge and skills is always the most profitable business!"
some people always complain that their promotion is not smooth, and it is difficult to start a business. In fact, to put it bluntly, it's not that others don't appreciate you, but that you are not good enough and there are vacancies in your knowledge and skills.
In improving knowledge and skills, people often make the mistake of being reluctant to spend money. The funny thing is that we will spend a lot of money on children's basic education, and we are willing to spend money as long as it is related to children's education. This contradictory idea has delayed many people.
many people think their money is important, but time is worthless. So they usually choose to spend more time just to spend less money. But when you think about it, this is a big muddle.
Take learning to spread pancakes. Spreading pancakes is very profitable, but it also needs to be studied, including the production techniques, ingredients, business methods, hidden rules of the industry and so on.
these things don't mean that you can completely understand them by staying at home and watching a few videos and raiders. It took you two months just to not pay or pay less for tuition. It takes a lot of effort to go around, but how much can you learn?
but I don't know, if you spend thousands of dollars on tuition, a master will directly show you the door, tell you the methods, processes and secrets, and practice. Then you can make money directly through this craft. Although you directly invested several thousand yuan at the beginning, you saved precious time, and with this time, you can not only recover your capital but also make a profit!
it is clear at a glance which one is cost-effective.
remember this sentence: "if you can spend money, don't spend time! Your time is much more precious than money. "
in life, you should learn to rest and gather. The mobile phone can't be charged all the time, otherwise it will be too much. So do people.
seven days a week, set aside some time for yourself and do something that you like and are full of positive energy, which will make you relax and gain a good mood.
For example, you can:
I met a friend online before, and he shared a lot of experience about sales online.
at that time, I asked him, "You are very diligent, updating every day."
this is definitely on my mind.
why is sharing happy?
It is because you can gain others' attention, recognition, praise and even follow by sharing your own experiences or works.
and this kind of power will drive you to keep moving forward, keep learning and keep working hard, just to share more and better content.
Therefore, people who love sharing make rapid progress, and this growth is two-way.
You can share your reading notes and reading experience online.
You can share your hobbies and works.
You can share your successful experience or failure lessons in a certain field.
Whether you are a novice or an old hand, you can share it. As long as you have a good positioning, you can gain more and more fans, and you will make progress faster and faster.
Take gourmet cooking as an example.
If you are a novice in cooking, you might as well choose a popular recipe every week, record the process of cooking this dish for the first time with a camera, talk while doing it, and remember to taste it, comment on it and sum up your experience and lessons after you finish.
If you are a good cook, it will be easier. Update a video of your cooking regularly to teach you how to make delicious food.
These two routes are very good, which are very suitable for content entrepreneurship. They can not only gain fans, make friends, but also make money. Why not?
after you learn to kill time, how can you be a slash youth to make money easily?
A few articles written by Time have talked a lot:
"Don't travel, I'll tell you n ways to work part-time for more than 1, yuan!
You can also be a knowledge online celebrity and make money happily!
How to make money happily in my spare time?
well, I talked so much again unconsciously.
I hope that what time shared today can help you.
I'm time, and I've been studying content marketing for ten years. I don't want to have an advantage in the number of articles, but I want the quality of articles to be worthy of my heart. I speak for dry goods!
remember to pay attention to time, like it and reward it!