You can answer that if I teach you to play basketball, you should take the initiative to teach me to make basketball frames.
When the other party says that you teach me to play basketball and I teach you what to do, it shows that you are a very humorous state of mind. At this moment, you should take the initiative to express your true thoughts to the other party. Only by communicating and understanding with each other in life can you take the initiative to think about anything for each other in the future and encourage each other to make progress and develop together. This is the friendship between friends, a sincere concern.