After the children go to kindergarten, many parents feel that they can relax with the class teacher. But the truth is another matter. Parents not only have no worries, but also become busier because of their children's kindergarten life, and even have to participate in some activities they don't like.
You have no right to refuse. If you don't follow the crowd, your children may get involved, and even your children will blame you in turn, so it's getting harder and harder for parents now.
Speaking of birthdays in kindergarten, parents will send cakes to their children. Most parents have had this experience. Some parents are used to it and think there is nothing wrong with reciprocity, but some parents are very disgusted with this behavior and think that kindergartens should have less competition.
Not only that, this parent seems to have made a "bad start", and other children began to bring cakes and snacks for their birthdays and then distributed them to other children. Seeing the child's birthday, the treasure mother was very anxious. Should she send cakes to the children?
Analysis:
As far as I am concerned, I don't like this kind of behavior either. Part of the reason is that there is something wrong with this behavior, which may bring some comparisons. Children's birthdays, family members are happy, especially kindergartens, tossing teachers and parents.
Moreover, there are more than 20 children in the class, and there are two games almost every month. Sometimes they really don't want their children to eat cakes and snacks. There used to be someone in my daughter's class who ate someone else's cake, but she coughed for a week and took injections and medicine for three days. Do you think this can be blamed on teachers or parents?
Therefore, many parents hate celebrating birthdays in kindergartens, not only because they are worried about the trend of keeping up with the joneses, but also because they don't want their children to eat indiscriminately in kindergartens. They are picky eaters and don't eat seriously, so eating cakes often is really bad for their health.
Some parents will choose to give their children a big performance when they meet their birthdays, and even invite many people to participate. I don't think this trend is good.
If there are other tasks attached to this birthday, there is nothing to say. However, under normal circumstances, families will get together to celebrate their children's birthdays, buy them a cake, cook a hearty meal, buy them a birthday present and sing a birthday song. This warm and harmonious atmosphere is more meaningful than having an affair in a hotel.
And we can't ignore the influence of this trend on children. We often see some children in grade two or three going to dinner and having a party on their birthdays, and inviting a group of classmates to dinner and sing. Everyone will feel bad after reading it, and the sense of the picture is also very inconsistent. I don't feel this age.
Not all families have good conditions, and not all children have to invite guests to dinner and sing after their birthdays. Moreover, this kind of behavior itself is not worth promoting, and it is not good for the growth of children.
You can pay more attention to the bar mitzvah ceremony and do it yourself on your birthday.
For adults aged 18, parents should invite friends and relatives to dinner, give their children an adult gift and pay attention to some things. But children should also be consulted. Not all children like this kind of limelight.
In normal times, it is best to spend as much time as possible as a family. Even if it is a trip or a birthday, I think it is more meaningful than false excitement, don't you think?