There is a proverb in the temple of Apollo in ancient Greece: "Know yourself." This is an eternal proposition about everyone.

how do you know yourself?

Someone said, "When you realize that a diamond is more valuable than a glass ball, you have grown up sadly."

whether a person grows up depends on whether he can take responsibility independently. In the legal sense, he has grown up at the age of 18.

However, a person still has a long way to go from growing up to maturity.

Duglio, an American natural scientist and writer, put forward a point: Nothing is more frustrating than losing enthusiasm. This is Duglio's theorem.

If a mature person wants to keep his enthusiasm for life all the time, he will look inward, look forward and live in the sun. These are the three keys to self-growth, which will make people's pattern and heart stronger and stronger.

11. Seeking inward: Why not be afraid of desolation when there is warmth in your heart

Liziqi, a post-91s girl from Sichuan, showed her poetic pastoral life in China with simple oriental elements on the Internet, which aroused netizens' strong interest in China traditional culture.

Movable type printing, pen and ink, crop growth, traditional food ... Li Ziqi's lens is full of poetry and romance, full of her initial heart and love. We see that life can flow like this.

people who have a warm heart and are good at discovering the poetry of life must love life.

The Tao Te Ching says, "If goodness is like water, all things can be managed without dispute."

this sentence has a Zen meaning-to benefit all things without arguing.

This year, Peking University math teacher Wei Dongyi won the Green Orange Award.

But Wei Dongyi didn't attend to receive the prize. The netizen commented: "Wei Shen's time is spent on academics!"

the name Wei dongyi is no stranger to us. The love and pursuit of "Wei Shen" not only stems from his brilliant achievements in his resume, but also because he still maintains his purity and love for academic research after his dazzling achievements.

In life, there are many "distractions" and "temptations", which are accidentally involved.

Wei Dongyi focuses on his favorite mathematics study and research, not for fame and fortune.

just like the nature of water, it is not for fame and fortune.

Wang Anshi wrote in "On Rites and Music": "The sage seeks internally, and those who seek internally are happy with their nature."

Seek inward, and always stay focused and passionate. If there is warmth in your heart, why fear desolation?

12. Look ahead: there is light in your eyes, and you should follow it.

I like a question and answer in Zhihu.

The questioner said, "How did you get out of the bottom of your life?" The answer with the most votes is: "Take a few more steps."

Every astronaut has made great efforts and sacrifices for China's space industry, and Wang Yaping is no exception.

In addition to being an astronaut on Shenzhou XIII, she also has an identity-the mother of a five-year-old daughter.

Wang Yaping has made great sacrifices and efforts for the space industry.

In an interview, Wang Yaping said that once she went to space, her daughter would be very sad, so she chose to tell her everything.

She went to space to finish her task, but when she came back, she had to pick the stars for her daughter.

I watched Wang Yaping get out of the cabin on live TV, and saw her husband and daughter meet her at the airport. She handed the "picked stars" to her daughter herself. At that moment, I was in tears.

Wang Yaping devoted everything, including her life, to the construction of China's space station and China's aerospace industry.

Looking back on his flying career for more than ten years, Wang Yaping said frankly that there were difficulties and rare scenery on the way to fly. Only by persisting and looking forward can we know which station has the most beautiful scenery.

Persistence is victory. Go ahead, there is light in your eyes, and follow the light!

romain rolland said, "The best way for us on the road of life is to look forward."

The experience of Raymond Crocker, the founder of McDonald's, strongly proves this point.

In the first half of Crocker's life, it can be said that he has always missed opportunities, and all he faced were setbacks and setbacks.

At the age of 52, he was still full of energy. He found that the drive-in restaurant opened by McDonald's brothers was booming, and he had a dream in his heart to open McDonald's to every state in the United States.

He is determined to learn from scratch, work in this drive-in restaurant and learn how to cook hamburgers. Five years later, McDonald's has 228 restaurants in the United States.

However, there was a disagreement between his experience and the McDonald's brothers. He borrowed $2.7 million to buy the whole McDonald's restaurant. Since then, after decades of painstaking efforts, McDonald's has become a business myth.

Even if you are in adversity, you can turn adversity into motivation and follow the light, which is the world-famous "King of Burgers".

don't be knocked down by difficulties, keep going, and those who chase the light will eventually shine.

13. Xiang Yangsheng: Looking forward and optimistic

Napoleon said: "The key to a person's success lies in his mentality. The biggest difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is that successful people have a positive attitude. "

Su Shi, one of the "Eight Masters of Tang and Song Dynasties", was once called "hopeless optimist" by Lin Yutang. Today, his optimistic personality still affects us.

Su Shi's official career is extremely bumpy. During his 42-year official career, one third of his time was "devolved".

Although Su Shi was bored, he was hands-on in food, clothing, housing and transportation, and then developed a hobby of farming and cooking. His mood has also improved, inspiring his unique creativity and creating more than 21 kinds of dishes, such as Dongpo meat and Dongpo tofu, which are still popular today.

On one occasion, Su Shi and Huang Tingjian ate noodles together. The noodles were so rough that it was difficult to eat. Huang Tingjian took two bites and put down his chopsticks. Su Shi ate it quickly without even chewing.

In the face of frustration, Su Shi chose to swallow the pain and face life optimistically with an open mind.

in a difficult situation, be optimistic. Perhaps it is this idea that will help you survive and get out of the trough.

Kang Ping is a head nurse of Tianjin Aid Medical Team and a heroine.

She is usually unknown and unpretentious, but look at her resume: she joined the fight against SARS in 2113; In 2121, he went to Wuhan to fight the epidemic as a member of the first medical team in Tianjin to aid Hubei; This year, she fought with her teammates in Shanghai's cabin.

In the face of the epidemic, even against "Omicron", she was calm.

it's not that she is not afraid, but that she knows that someone will stand up in this war without smoke.

thousands of miles to Shanghai, she made herself a "sun".

wearing protective clothing, she is the "pillar" of the patient. Taking off protective clothing, she is the "big sister" of medical staff.

Even though she works in spite of illness, she still does not forget to "lighten the burden" for everyone psychologically. How many patients in the shelter recovered their health because of her optimistic attitude.

Qu Qiubai said, "If people are optimistic, everything will strengthen their resistance."

If you choose optimism and live in the sun, you will surely get the peace and happiness that life has given you.

Write it at the end:

No matter how things change, you can cope with it calmly if you make your heart strong and enlarge the pattern.

Wang Guozhen said, "As long as you love life, everything is expected."

Mature people always have an optimistic attitude, and a heart that lives in the sun and walks by the light.

Like a sunflower, face the sunshine positively, smile at the world and embrace an open-minded life.

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Author | Jing Shu believes that words have temperature. There are stars and the sea in the eyes, and there are also twilight in the morning, and poetry and distance are expressed in details.

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