Among so many children in the variety "Where is Dad?", Huang Lei's daughter Huang Duoduo is the most concerned and controversial. Huang Duoduo was a little older than other children when he participated in "Where's Dad?", so he showed higher EQ. In the program, Xiao Duoduo often plays the role of "big sister" and takes care of other children.
Some netizens think that such a young child should not have a perm too early, which is not only bad for hair quality, but also not good-looking. Children should love each other, but it is neither fish nor fowl to mature too early. Some netizens believe that although it is true that parents respect their children's hobbies, they feel that they are a little too open-minded this time, and some things still need the correct guidance of parents.
Another part of netizens think that it is 2022, and it is normal for children to have a perm. There is no need to go online and measure the current educational concept with traditional concepts. Huang Lei believes that all children have a love of beauty, and parents should fully respect their children's needs, such as perming, buying skirts and getting their ears pierced. As long as children can bear it, parents should support it.
Aesthetic needs to be cultivated from an early age. A relaxed counseling environment can cultivate children's aesthetics. Adults need to bear a lot of helpless constraints, children are unrestrained, and parents should not deprive their children of the happiness they are about to lose. There is an equal relationship between parents and children, and they oppose feudal education.
Huang Lei and Sun Li's educational methods are self-contained, which may not be correct or applicable to all families, but they are undoubtedly the most correct for themselves. Earlier, many of their eldest daughters became the focus of controversy among netizens because of their "precocity". As a minor, Huang Duoduo had her ears pierced, permed and dyed many times, which caused controversy because it didn't accord with the public's impression of girls of this age.
In the face of external disputes, Huang Lei and his wife did not choose to ban them, but responded positively. Huang Lei bluntly said that when children were young, they all loved beauty and wanted to get a perm and buy a beautiful dress, including getting their ears pierced. As long as she can bear it, she thinks it's okay, and I think it's okay. Let's take a look at the multi-sister perm video shared by Sun Li. In the picture, Duomei's face after perm is filled with a bright smile, not to mention how happy she is. Obviously, a perm is her own choice.
Just after Sun Li shared the picture of her younger sister's perm, her eldest daughter Duoduo also shared her new look on her personal social platform. Duoduo 16 years old has fresh and lovely short hair, golden hanging ears are more fashionable, and the ears are decorated with flower earrings, which is youthful and beautiful. In fact, long before Huang Lei, Sun Li had publicly responded to her daughter's hair dyeing and ear piercing. Sun Li and her husband Huang Lei hold the same view. She said that she should respect them and stop them now. They may be even more rebellious in the future. Therefore, for Amy's daughter who wants a perm, Sun Li not only didn't stop her, but also personally helped her to choose the color, provided reference, and got along with her daughters as friends.
The family affairs of a star should be regarded by the audience as a story, which can't be substituted into their own situation, but it can't be easily imitated. In fact, it is not only Huang Lei's daughter, but also the daughters of other stars. This is obviously not an individual phenomenon, but a common phenomenon. The second generation of stars are generally precocious, generally love beauty, and generally make public their personalities. This is not only related to parents' family education, but also related to their identity.
Many times, the cultural level of stars is not high. Undergraduate students, master students and doctoral students in art colleges only have gold content in specific circles and do not have traditional general functions. So the descendants of stars will imitate their parents' behavior, and they will never escape the shadow of adults.