The prejudice lies in that when the subject asks questions, it has been decided that cooking is a girl's business, and boys should not cook, let alone like cooking. This is a phenomenon and an idea held by most people in society. Looking back for decades, this idea is correct. Now, if someone says that "cooking is a woman's business", it will definitely cause great controversy.
It is worth discussing, because this problem involves two aspects. On the one hand, we can discuss the change of women's status, on the other hand, with the development of society, what cooking means.
1 First answer the question that girls don't like cooking.
Girls don't like cooking more and more, but the progress of society gives women more choices. This choice presents a change: in the past, women basically cooked, but now many women don't cook. The fundamental reason for this change is not "like" and "dislike", but whether there is a choice. Even in feudal society, many women didn't like cooking. I just didn't have the right to choose before, but now I have more choices.
Women's three obedience and four virtues, cooking, washing and taking care of children are the requirements of society from ancient times to the present (ignoring the short-term dominant position of women in matriarchal society). But such a requirement has a backward color. After thousands of years of development, women's social status has improved. Although the real equality between men and women has not been achieved, it has made a qualitative leap in many aspects.
With the improvement of social status, many women are reluctant to be traditional "housewives" now, and more want to realize their social values to the greatest extent. So many people want to do more meaningful things instead of wasting time on cooking. And now some boys like cooking, which is also an openness of society, allowing men to choose their own preferences more freely. In ancient times, some people liked it, but didn't dare.
2 What is cooking?
Many people simply classify cooking as "I like" and "I don't like" when they see the problem, but this can't eliminate the problem. If cooking is regarded as a hobby, the problem will be much simpler.
Traditionally, cooking = eating = not hungry, but now cooking has another meaning besides satisfying personal survival needs: enjoyment.
In the past, men didn't go into the kitchen. The so-called "a gentleman talks but doesn't do it" (this sentence is problematic here, please allow me to be willful), but now many boys are willing and even like to go into the kitchen. Why? Because cooking is the same as painting, playing guitar and singing, seeing the success of your own cooking, seeing the thumbs up of the tasters and hearing sincere compliments from everyone (sometimes even insincerity will have the same effect), all these situations will bring a kind of spiritual satisfaction to the people who cook ~ (For their psychological satisfaction, please refer to the recent online activity "What is the experience of having a girlfriend who can cook" (I don't know how to put the link). Imagine if you succeed. )
Why do some people like cooking and others don't?
It doesn't matter whether you like cooking or not. In other words, since ancient times, women have to go to the kitchen if they are not forced by life and status, so I believe many people have long stopped cooking, and those who like them will always insist.
There are many reasons why I don't like it, one is my own internal reasons, and the other is that no one appreciates it. Someone once said that cooking is bragging. The more boastful, the more motivated, the better. I don't know if this is true, but I know that just saying no is not enough! ! ! Derogation and criticism will only make people who cook less and less want to do it.
It will be more convincing to combine your own chestnuts.
I am a girl who doesn't like cooking very much (is this the reason why I can't find a male ticket? If I cross it out, what I say will usually become true, tears streaming down my face. I have been cooking at home for many years, but my cooking has not improved at all! ! ! One summer, I cooked fish-flavored eggplant for a summer vacation, almost two or three times a week, and each time I cooked it differently! ! ! The point is that none of them are delicious (I have forgotten how to make them now) QAQ! ! !
I analyzed that I can't cook well because I really don't like it! ! ! If you don't like cooking, just like you don't like math and physics. You're not interested, okay? ! And every time I am slightly interested in trying new things, I will be criticized if I fail (unhappy, say good encouragement is the main thing). Later, I became less and less interested. You can imagine that you feel like a cooking machine every time you cook (u_u)!
Since cooking is an interest, as long as there is enough audience and perseverance, especially for someone, it is entirely possible to change ~ ~