2. Pain comes from comparison. When a person lives in a log cabin, the log cabin is enough to shelter him from the wind and rain and provide him with the necessary rest environment. He is very happy. But one day, a big house suddenly appeared next to the cabin, and his smile was no longer as calm and natural as before. Life is a state of mind. We should be positive and contented. The pursuit of life is to live better than before, not to live better than others!
3. There are three things in life: First, know how to choose, find a path that suits you, don't look around, don't be greedy for more, and don't get lost in the flowers; The second is to understand how to stick to it. There are few scenery on the easy road, and there are many hardships on the sparsely populated road. Don't blindly follow it. Only by sticking to this moment can you see the scenery of the next moment. 3. Know how to give up. What belongs to you is limited after all. Only by giving up the stars can you reap the dawn.
4. In life, we have many opportunities to change our minds. Life is doomed to suffer many grievances. Don't let small grievances affect your mood and interfere with your life. Learn to forgive, learn to be sure, and don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes. Blame others, it is your own heart that suffers. Try to love, don't live in the bitter sea of hatred.
5. All the troubles in life are caused by heart disease. What kind of mood, there will be what kind of life. What you see is what you have in mind. If your heart is full of troubles, then what you see is naturally troubles; If your heart is full of happiness, what you see is of course happiness. Open your mind frankly and look at many troubles of life indifferently, and happiness will come uninvited.
6. In life, there is as much pain as there is care; There is as much joy as there is tolerance. Pain and joy are both reflections of the soul, just like what is in the mirror depends on what is in front of it. If you can't put it down in your heart, it will naturally become a burden. The more burdens you have, the less happy your life will be. A caring heart is like a pocket, and a tolerant heart is like a funnel. Complex love care, simple heart is easy to be happy.
7. We can't control our emotions well. First, we don't practice enough. Second, we come into contact with people and things that make us feel negative. When our emotions are affected, we should stay away from the negative environment appropriately and let ourselves calm down. Meditate on some happy people and things or a long trip, open your mind, and then look back at the right and wrong before, and everything will be relieved. Many contradictions are caused by small things, and if you don't know how to retreat, it will get bigger and bigger.
8. All those who should come will come, and all those who should go will go, and their origins will end. Sometimes, they will follow the fate, follow the fate, and don't force it; In any case, face, accept, deal with, let go, and be not demanding. Borrowed a pair of empty skins, arrived and went empty, and lived for decades, but that's all.
9. In life, if you can't finish things, stop and relax; If you don't earn enough money, take a look at things outside your body; Don't like the secular, be quiet and let nature take its course; Endless sulking, talk about it, and have a broad mind; Endless filial piety, take a walk and go home to see; Unfinished human feelings, weigh them and do what you can; Endless journey, slow down and stroll through life.
1. People who annoy you are here to help you; People who make you miserable are here to cross you; The person you hate is the noble person in your life; People you hate help you grow up; They are all different sides of yourself, and they are another you. On the contrary, you like the things you love deeply, which often cause you pain and trouble. They are your shadows and you can't catch them. Therefore, it is the truth to keep a good attitude to face it.
11. There are three kinds of bitterness in life, so you can't get it, so you are miserable; If you get it, but it's just that, you will feel pain; Give up easily, only to find that it is so important in your life, so you feel painful. Since, if you don't get it, you will suffer when you give up. Why not underestimate the gains and losses of life and keep a normal heart, and the pain will be alleviated? Looking at gains and losses with a normal heart, life is not bitter at all.
12. it is not pleasing to the eye to see others, but it is not enough self-cultivation. At the moment when people are angry, their IQ is zero, and it returns to normal after one minute. The key to a person's elegance lies in controlling his emotions, and hurting people with his mouth is the most stupid behavior. We are not free, usually because of bad emotions from our hearts. A person who can control bad emotions is stronger than a person who can win ideal city.
13. We are all sentient beings on our way, with tears and laughter mixed with sadness and joy. No one can be happy for long, and no matter how tight we hold hands, the music will end. Life was originally a crime, and people who suffered were just complacent; Happy people are just taking pains. This life is complete only if you really cry, get tired of despair, feel terrible pain and repent without words. There are thousands of scenery on the roadside, and it is beautiful that the sun is shining and the flowers are blooming, and it is also beautiful that the haze is withered and zeroed.
14. Peace of mind is better than peace of mind; It is better to be broad-minded than broad-minded. Cultivate the body of nature by the way of nature; Cultivate the god of joy with joy. Being afraid is the most basic principle of conscience. The so-called happiness is not more wealth but less desire. Being a man, character first, can be second; In doing things, understanding is the first, and diligence is the second. Life should learn not to complain, not to wait, not to follow blindly, not to make progress.
15. It's better to be angry than to live up to expectations. Stupid people only get angry, but smart people know how to fight for it. In life, there is "Qi" everywhere, and there is "Qi" in everything. Life without Qi is not life, but a utopia in fantasy. Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory. Learning not to be angry is another realm of life. Angry, hurtful and sad, hurtful and hurtful. Learning not to be angry and be less angry is a kind of maturity and wisdom.
16. Any choice means giving up something else. No matter how you choose, you will inevitably have regrets. There is no way for you to completely make up for your regrets and be perfect. Therefore, instead of spending time on regrets and faint sadness, it is better to take the chosen road wholeheartedly and not envy the scenery and prosperity on other roads. Otherwise, you will regret it.
17. To be a simple person, don't indulge in fantasy, don't be at a loss about the future, take today's road and live the present life; Don't admire prosperity, don't carve, be simple to people, and be practical; Don't be too stingy, don't be too persistent, know how to choose, and learn to pay; Do not bear the burden of the soul, do not disguise the spirit, let the footsteps be light, and let happiness always exist; Don't be greedy and aggressive, don't publicize yourself, keep a low profile when you succeed, and be free and easy after you fail. Simplicity and lightness are the background colors of our lives.
18. You can't regret life, but you can turn a corner. Life will inevitably encounter storms and frustrations. Don't be dissatisfied with the many frustrations in life. You don't have to be bitter and depressed. Whether it is a blessing or a curse, you have to face it; Good or bad, it will pass. It is better to let go of your baggage and enjoy life than to bend over and suffer with it. It is better to smile calmly at life than to complain about the unfair fate in vain.