1, there are almost no secrets between two people in the university dormitory. If one person in the dormitory knows your secret, it is not far from the whole dormitory. This rule also applies to the workplace, because no one is obliged to help you abide by it. Keeping it will consume a person's endurance, energy and time. In the end, you will find that many people already know it, and only you are still foolishly keeping it.

2. Learn to enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is a compulsory course in university. Almost everyone in a dormitory comes from all corners of the country. If you want to find a completely like-minded person from the dormitory, it is almost equal to the chance of winning the lottery. Even if you find it, you can't do everything together, so you must learn to be alone and enjoy it, because the time alone is really yours, and you can do what you want and think what you should think most.

Don't call in the dormitory, because if you are not careful, you will expose a lot of your personal privacy. Talking about short things about parents in the dormitory often makes people laugh. Even if people don't judge you face to face, they will definitely study you thoroughly. A person without secrets is very insecure, because you never know when others will make a fuss about you.

Don't answer "whatever" every time your roommate asks you something. If you answer for a long time, others will not ask for your advice, and naturally think you are a very casual person. You can joke at will, prevaricate at will and take your things at will. ...

Never study in the dormitory, because too much interference in the dormitory will interrupt your attention. Even if you sit with a book for an hour, the efficiency is almost negligible. Don't ask me how I know. How many people can learn knowledge while listening to their roommates playing games, chatting, playing drama and washing clothes?

If you want to raise fish, plants and hot pot in the dormitory, you'd better ask your roommate for advice, because you don't know if your roommate is allergic to certain smells or environments. Respect others more, and others will respect and cherish you.

7. Never tell all the good things to others. For example, if you have passed CET-4 and CET-6, obtained a certificate of interpretation, and got the highest score in a certain subject at the end of the term, it is beneficial for you to know these things by yourself. Talking about them everywhere will not make others happy, and some people will be disgusted with you. By the same token, if you earn a lot of money by working part-time, you can treat your roommate to a big meal, but don't show off how much money you have earned, because it will bury your future life and make others think that you are not short of money at all, so it doesn't matter if you owe you some money.

8. Don't always try to pry into your roommate's gossip. If TA is willing to tell you, he will definitely take the initiative to speak. If TA doesn't want to tell you, and you happen to know, it will only make your roommate feel that you are annoying, boring and difficult to communicate.

9. Even roommates who have a good relationship must borrow something from others, even a small object. Because it is not difficult to borrow again, some students rely on their close relationship with their roommates to share everything with them, but they will be fine in a short time. After a long time, your relationship basically came to an end. I believe your roommate won't contact you again after graduation.

10, remember to ask for the key when you go out. No matter how good-tempered your roommate is, he can't help opening the door for you every day, especially in winter morning and late at night. If a roommate is willing to climb out of the warm bed and open the door for you, you can't invite others to eat three meals.

1 1, roommates are just roommates, and not everyone can be friends. You'd better have your own plans and goals, and always follow others, you will lose your direction. After all, you should keep your distance from those who are doing nothing.

12, roommates who like the second crime are generally kind-hearted and have no bad intentions. Such a roommate should maintain a good relationship with TA, because TA will certainly lend a helping hand when you are in trouble, so that you will be grateful. Such roommates will generally become your lifelong friends.

13. The dormitory belongs to everyone, not one person, so you must pay attention to personal hygiene. Don't let your smelly socks and shoes get in the way of communicating with your roommate. When necessary, you must take some measures to avoid the smell in the dormitory. After all, this is a small family where everyone will live together for four years. Creating a good family atmosphere is also conducive to establishing a good dormitory relationship.