Compared with cities, there are many rules in rural areas, and many traditional things are preserved, both good and bad. Interesting comment was born in a rural area in the northeast. When I was a child, my family did have a lot of attention. In the memory of interesting reviews, there are not only three kinds of people, but at least five kinds of people who come to the door and are not willing to be entertained at home. The first kind, the lazy people in the village; Second, there are white things at home that haven't happened yet? Seven seven? People; Third, widows or widowers; Fourth, the daughter who is about to get married; Fifth, women who love gossiping.
first, the lazy people in the village. The rural area where Interesting Review is located is in the mountainous area, and the natural conditions are relatively bad. When I was a child, most families depended on a few acres of land, pear trees and special products in the mountains to survive. Better families will buy some cattle, sheep and pigs to supplement their families. Therefore, frugality was the most advocated virtue in the village at that time. For a few lazy people in the village, everyone doesn't like to be entertained. I am worried that these lazy people will affect my family, but I don't want to be taken advantage of by these people and eat and drink together.
second, there are white things at home, but nothing happens? Seven seven? People. There is a saying in rural areas that weddings and funerals are happy events. Red events are happy events such as getting married and having children, while white events are the death of old people at home. Generally speaking, funerals in rural areas need to last for 7749 days. Many times, the scale of white affairs far exceeds the scale of red affairs. For those? Seven seven? Those who haven't finished eating will be cut out and called on, which will be regarded as unfilial by the villagers. In the former countryside, there was no pension system, and filial piety was regarded as the most important factor to maintain a family's longevity. Therefore, every household is unwilling to entertain these unfilial people.
the third kind, widow or widower. After marriage, a woman whose husband has died is called a widow. A man who has no daughter-in-law is called a bachelor, but he married his daughter-in-law but died. This kind of man is called a widower. Nowadays, there are not many views on widows and widowers. When I was a child, feudal thoughts in the countryside were still very strong, and both widows and widowers were regarded as? An ominous person? None of them likes to entertain them.
the fourth kind, the daughter who is about to get married. This may be a unique tradition in my hometown. One month before my daughter gets married, I have to stay in my home, go out as little as possible, and I can't drop in. I asked my grandfather who is still alive, and his old man's answer is that if a married girl visits, she will take that family's fortune to her husband's house. Therefore, girls who want to get married are not entertained in the village. Of course, this tradition is an old calendar, and now almost no one abides by it.
fifth, gossiping women. The most unpopular women in rural areas are gossiping women, which will become the source of many family conflicts. This is not only in the hometown of interesting reviews, but also in many rural areas. A gossiping woman is bound to be very unpopular. Any man doesn't like his daughter-in-law to get along with a gossiping woman, and will spread all his family's privacy!
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