Some friends will choose to travel alone when they encounter difficulties, setbacks, frustrated love and bad mood. Even many people who are married and have children will leave their lovers and children behind, invite friends, and even travel alone for a while. I don't think this is appropriate.
Before I got married, I seldom traveled, not because I didn't want to travel, but because I thought I would have a family, a lover and children in the future. I want to travel around Qian Shan with my small family, so I always resisted the idea of going out before I got married and had children.
After the baby was born, I began to turn travel from idea to action. Every year, I drive my wife and children around, experience the life of travel and appreciate life.
In my opinion, I don't travel alone because I have the responsibility of love and want to share it with my favorite and closest people.
In my opinion, traveling alone is just to put aside friends and relatives and experience the little things in the journey alone, but for me, I prefer to take my wife and children, a family of four, sit in a closed carriage, ride freely during the journey, start whenever I want, stop whenever I want, don't care about my friends' thoughts and demands, don't share my feelings with outsiders, and only enjoy the beautiful scenery and experience with the closest people.
From this perspective, a small family is just an enlarged self, and traveling with a small family is also a lonely trip.
In fact, everyone has his own lonely side, and even with the growth of age, he will more or less begin to yearn for loneliness. Take me for example, I especially like the commuting time every day. It's very good to drive on the road alone, with my thoughts flying. When you travel alone, you can travel and experience completely according to your own intentions, regardless of other people's opinions, opinions and ideas. Maybe no one will share your feelings, but you can also appreciate your inner emotions and hear your inner demands more clearly. This experience is very wonderful.
Traveling alone is not only far away from everything you are familiar with, but also everything you have to face and solve alone without your partner's company and support. At this time, you will force yourself to learn to face, think about problems, find solutions, experience the happiness of achievements in the process, and examine your personality and heart. Through this kind of reflection, you can often find a better self.
I like traveling alone very much!
Personally, I think traveling and traveling are two different things.
Travel is a happy process, and the result is also happy, which is a way to relieve stress!
Travel, practice and process may experience some difficulties, and the result is hard work, which is a manifestation of self-cultivation, a feeling of gaining a lot, and a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction!
/kloc-in 0/7, I invited three or four people to ride the Yunnan-Tibet line. When I set out, they all rejected me for various reasons, lamenting that people can't help themselves in the Jianghu! Should I give up? I didn't!
In Dali, I spent 600 yuan to buy a Phoenix bicycle and some equipment, which cost about 1 1,000 yuan. For me who has no riding experience, I only know how to prepare water and compress biscuits. Along National Highway 2 14, Dali-Lijiang-Shangri-La-Deqin-Yanjing-Mangkang. Mangkang is the intersection of National Highway 3 18 and National Highway 2 14. From Mangkang, follow National Highway 3 18 to Lhasa. The whole journey is about 2000 kilometers and lasts 19 days. Enjoy the beautiful scenery of Dali, Lijiang's own Jade Dragon Snow Mountain and the ancient town of Blue Moon Valley, taste the religious atmosphere of Dukezong Ancient City and Songzanlin Temple of Little Potala Palace, see the body of Kavagbo on foot in the rain, and climb over Honglashan's despair. The place where the three rivers run parallel is really torturing yourself. Jinsha River, Lancang River and Nujiang River, of which Hengduan Mountain and Nujiang River have turned 72 bends, which is exciting to think about. The highest Dongda Mountain is 5130m above sea level, which is almost 5013m away from Milla Mountain in Lhasa. When I arrived in Lhasa, I thought I was dreaming. I have experienced all kinds of difficulties and obstacles, and I have gained a great sense of accomplishment for myself. I did it! Knowing many friends and seeing many things is a kind of gain for me!
Since 2008, paid vacations have been implemented throughout the country. At first, it was once a year, but now it has become twice a year after working for a long time. Basically, they are all alone. I also took my family or friends out in the middle, but most of them went out alone. From home to abroad. I am 37 years old and not married. In fact, I started traveling in the hope of meeting my other half in the future and taking her to my former place. Later, I gradually got used to being alone and enjoying freedom. Love always feels like fate. Ok, let's talk about travel. Now I basically travel twice a year, once at home and once abroad. In fact, foreign countries are basically Thailand. I have been to Nepal once, and I was alone. I have a stop-and-go tour, and it is interesting to stay there for two more days. Anyway, I didn't choose a particularly popular tourist attraction in Thailand, so I usually stay on an island for seven or eight days. Then go to Bangkok for three or four days, ten days at a time, and enjoy the holiday slowly. I don't feel particularly lonely.
I can't count how many cities a person has been to. Let me briefly introduce myself:
I am a young woman who drifted to the North after 1990s, and I am a freelancer, suffering from serious travel diseases. Looking back on the first twenty years of my life, the only thing I insisted on was traveling.
I still remember my first trip to Xiamen alone and volunteering at the coffee villa in Gulangyu. That wonderful experience completely fascinated me with travel. The photo below is the coffee villa of that year, but the situation has changed when it was taken.
Subsequently, a person traveled to many cities at home and abroad. When I first traveled abroad, I was alone. I graduated from college that year and have never been abroad. I said I would travel abroad alone for a month and a half and go to three countries: Thailand, Vietnam and Cambodia. The students around me think I'm just talking, and I'm not optimistic that I can really achieve it. As a result, I did it. I made many interesting friends and felt the life on a Thai farm. Later, I basically went abroad at least once a year and began to record my life with photos and words.
Speaking of why I travel alone, I feel a little helpless because I don't have a suitable companion. But with the experience of traveling alone, you will find the charm of traveling alone and like to travel alone.
Traveling alone is actually a conversation between yourself and yourself. You spend a lot of time alone. If you have enough time to think about your confusion, you will know yourself more clearly.
And in a person's journey, slowly become strong. Because of the problem and situation, no one can help except myself. You will think of all possible situations in advance, and think of a good response plan and prepare for the worst.
Traveling alone will make it easier to make new friends, and you will become willing to actively contact and share with people you don't know. For example, youth travel is a good place to meet new partners, and sometimes it only takes a look or a smile to start a conversation.
Of course, there are many situations when traveling alone. For example, when you go to the toilet while eating, you are afraid that the waiter will take away the tableware. For example, when you go to the toilet, you must take your luggage ... in fact, it is not as terrible as you think, and you will feel great when you look back!
I like traveling alone. Traveling alone doesn't mean that I am unsociable and difficult to get along with others. But I think traveling alone is a kind of practice and a realm. A person can adapt to the excitement of a group of people, and at the same time, he should know how to enjoy the time alone.
There was a time when I was particularly depressed, staying at home all day, and my spirit was about to collapse, and I almost got depression. Then I was thinking; I can't be so decadent I should cheer up and find the sunny, confident and energetic me. I want to be strong.
I decided to find myself by traveling, so I plan to travel to Tibet.
I went into battle with a traveling bag on my back and got on the train to Tibet. I bought a hard seat ticket. My seat is near the window, which is my favorite position. I like to sit by the window by car, because I can see the scenery outside the window well, and it is convenient to sleep or put things on my stomach near the small table.
The train started on time. I don't know why. From the moment the train started, my mood seemed to be much better. It seems that the start of the train took away my bad mood.
Sitting in the same seat with me is a middle-aged woman and a teenager about 13 years old. Looks like a mother and son. Sitting opposite are two middle-aged men and a young woman. Two middle-aged men should be workmates. They are chatting. There are two barrels (industrial oil barrels) under their seats, which contain daily necessities, instant noodles and so on. That lady is about 36 years old, dressed appropriately, like a white-collar worker. I didn't see this lady talking to anyone else. I don't think I know each other.
Looking out of the window, there are many tall buildings, trees and trees, darkness (when crossing the tunnel) and water and sky. I took the initiative to talk to the lady opposite: "Where do you get off?" She said, "Get off at the terminal" and I said, "Me too". I went on to say, "Look at your tall figure, you should be from the north?" She said, "Yes! You have a good eye, "I said. "In my impression, northerners are very tall, but I didn't expect to be guessed right."
After arriving in Tibet, I was deeply attracted by the beautiful scenery here. White snowy mountains, white clouds, blue sky, clouds in the mountains and mountains in the clouds make me feel particularly comfortable. ...
A person's trip is not as beautiful as you think.
Many times, the reason why you want to travel alone may be influenced by some books or movies, because their description of "traveling alone" is very cool. It is precisely because of this that many people have the idea of traveling alone.
Anyway, in my opinion, "traveling alone" is really good. If you want to have fun, I suggest you really don't travel alone!
Personally, I had a very painful experience. I remember when I was a freshman, I made a friend and went to her apartment to go out with her on weekends. But she didn't go because of some reasons at home, but now that she is here, I can't help going out to play alone.
Although it is said that a person only needs to take care of himself when playing, eating and living, if he has enough money to eat whatever he wants, he doesn't need to worry about other people's feelings!
However, there are also many shortcomings. I remember I went to Yangshuo at that time. When I walk alone in the street, people are in groups, and a group of people have a reference for what they want to eat and drink. And I can only wander around the joint, eat by myself and order a lot of favorite dishes, but I just don't feel that way alone, so I haven't finished eating yet.
You eat alone and shop alone. The tourists around you look at you in a strange way. In short, traveling alone is really not fun. Don't travel alone because you are being cool or in a bad mood, because traveling alone is really sad.
Anyway, after that experience, I never traveled alone again!
Super, super, super, super, like it.
When traveling alone, you don't have to look around, worry about other people's feelings about eating, drinking, housing and transportation, and argue about where to go and how much it will cost.
Besides, you can go anywhere you want to play and have fun.
In fact, I think I go shopping alone, not because I am unsociable, not good at talking, or introverted, but because I really like being alone. Especially now that I am married, there should be many compatriots who like to be alone like me.
I have been to five provinces in go on road trip myself, and I have been to the farthest Shaanxi Province, and basically I have finished all the provinces. Everywhere I go, I will experience the local food. Otherwise, the special dishes will come for nothing. I prefer to eat spinach noodles from Shaanxi. I think this is the best pasta I have ever eaten in Shaanxi, with a few garlic added. Gee, it is delicious all over the world.
I have been to Hubei myself, but I walked along the northern part of Hubei to Shaanxi, and it was still noodles. I only like Wuhan Regan Noodles. I can eat five bowls. With a bowl of noodle soup to drink, it is also the best in the world.
Anyway, it's good to travel alone, especially I like go on road trip. I don't care whether I sleep in the car or in the hotel. I can sleep whenever I want, and I can leave whenever I want. I don't care what time I sleep. I will sleep at night. When you meet a good scenery, just take a photo with your mobile phone and leave it as a souvenir.
I often travel alone.
I like to wander aimlessly when traveling alone, without asking about famous mountains and rivers and experiencing different customs. Chasing horses on the grassland, watching sunsets and sunrises at the seaside, scouring small things in old streets and looking for authentic food in alleys.
I remember in Jinxi County, Jiangxi Province, my friend took me to eat Hua Shao rice noodles. As soon as I entered the door, I felt so happy in an instant. Hua Shao rice noodles, open every day, eat at least two servings every night, and it's enough not to eat for one day! In Guiyang and Guizhou, I went to Erqi Food Plaza in the evening, and the dazzling array of local snacks was delicious. Unfortunately, I only have one stomach and can only stay for 2 days. I'm not full at all
I love it! But also a little scared.
I remember when I was in my twenties, I went to Jilin by train from Changchun Station alone at night. Some young members of the opposite sex meowed at me in the car. Two good classmates in high school said my eyes were a little wild, but I don't think so. I hope my eyes can kill all evil!
In any case, such a person is insecure when riding a car! My heart beat faster, so I began to wander from car to car, looking for my safe place!
However, at the junction of the two cars, the lights were dim and two policemen were found.