How to deepen self-connection through the "negative" experience of life, expand the internal bandwidth, and enhance the endurance of your life?

Methods: Find a pain that has always existed in your life and find the meaning of this pain in your life.

Yes, the methods are very clear, but how to connect them in detail and find the meaning of this pain in your life?

(2) Teacher Wei Tong's sharing made the students cry.

Teacher Wei Tong shared with the students:

I'm telling you, I'm going through pain these days. My mother was diagnosed with rectal cancer the day before yesterday. She underwent surgery on Monday. She had symptoms before the Spring Festival and waited for the hospital to open during the epidemic. Finally, the pathological results came out. Facing the fact, I have been trying to be with this pain every day these days to find the meaning of this pain. In fact, the greatest significance of illness is to cherish it. Next week, I will go back to Changchun and spend every year in the future. Cherishing every moment with parents has another meaning. Without this pain, I didn't find the impermanence around me, and I didn't find that I loved my mother so much. This kind of pain reminds me how important it is to cherish and accompany, and also reminds me to pay attention to my health. Perhaps because of the arrival of this disease, my elderly parents and I have more wonderful time, instead of running around the Spring Festival every year. When I carry this kind of pain, I find that

Teacher Wei Tong went on to say:

In this training camp, some students communicate with me privately, some students are facing the test of illness and life and death, and some students are facing the test of their parents' illness like me. Just last week, when I was writing the tenth belief-life and death, I had already learned the result of my mother. I just finished talking with a classmate about her process of facing cancer. Suddenly I feel that this training camp has given me a particularly valuable practical opportunity. Thank you.

After listening to the students, the group instantly swiped the screen: 100!

I wish your mother good health and a long life!

Teacher Zhang, your mother's operation will go smoothly. You have so much love and many blessings to give her. We all prayed for her old man.

@ 京京京京? Teacher, please go back to your mother first. Nothing is more important than your mother. We can review the previous content first. You must take care of yourself. Mom will be fine. Have confidence. You taught me.

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Teacher Wei Tong:

My mother is a doctor herself. She saved countless lives. She is 80 years old this year. She is calm and calm in the face of illness, calmer than me.

Thank you all. My mother told me yesterday that I should finish this training camp well and don't have to rush back.

Student:

Teacher Zhang, your great love nourishes us, nourishes our mother every day, every moment and touches every feeling.

@ 京京京京? Sister Wei Tong, I feel heartache and guilt. At this moment, my chest is burning, especially sour, and tears unconsciously flow down. hug

* The old man is sick and still cares about our study. This spirit is really admirable!

* I wish the teacher and mother get better! Good people are rewarded, and the old people and teachers have helped so many people, and God will not ignore them!

@ 京京京京? Teacher Zhang, our course is in no hurry. You can stop for a week, and you must go back to accompany your mother for surgery. She is 80 years old, and her brothers and sisters can't replace you. Go back and face the challenge with her mother! It doesn't matter if our class is closed for a few days! The key node of life, the course can be put down, and everyone will understand @ 中中中中中.

Teacher Wei Tong:

I didn't want to tell you at first, but I was worried that everyone would have a burden. Especially, there are several friends in the group who are excellent at @ Dayanluo @ Zeyang @. I want to express my gratitude to this training camp and my classmates. The course content and your homework are helpful to me.

@ Autumn Moon Spring Breeze Training Camp's 28-day continuous training is very important, which is the key time for nvc muscle training. I can't stop, I'll take care of it, don't worry!

Student:

* The teacher continued the training camp after encountering such a difficult thing to help us grow! Heartache is infinitely grateful! In the face of life and death, nothing else matters! Teacher, whatever decision you make, we will support it!

@ 京京京京? I wish my mother a smooth, safe and auspicious operation, and thank the teacher for her efforts. In the face of life and death, everything else is insignificant. Go spend more time with her mother!

Teacher Zhang, from now on, you can stop reading the group, replying and correcting your homework. After preparing lessons, have a good rest, eat and drink, and clean up your mood. At present, what we value is that you are better, so that we can give it to our mother better.

Teacher Zhang, your great love nourishes us, nourishes our mother every day, every moment and touches every feeling.

Teacher Zhang, from now on, you can stop reading the group, replying and correcting your homework. After preparing lessons, have a good rest, eat and drink, and clean up your mood. At present, what we value is that you are better, so that we can give it to our mother better.

@ 京京京京? Teacher Zhang, our class is nothing compared with your family. We have to go back to the operation with mom. She is 80 years old, and her brothers and sisters can't replace you. Go home!

* Pray for Teacher Zhang's mother! The operation is naturally smooth, safe and auspicious!

? I wish my aunt less pain and be a good doctor for all kinds of diseases!

* Teacher Wei Tong's mother is really brave. She is so calm in the face of illness. Sincerely respect your mother, and seeing the sharing of the teacher touched my heart again.

@ 京京京京? We have gained the vitality and strength of life from you! I hope all our blessings can also be gathered into an energy mixture, which will bring you more strength! Bless aunt peace!

* I couldn't help crying when I saw the chat record, and I was always moved by Teacher Zhang's great love. This training camp has been guiding us to know and care for ourselves. These days, I just want to go home and face my parents. I have been insisting on meditation, linking feelings and tapping deep-seated needs. I actually enjoy my time with them.

203 Qin tea:

What teacher Zhang just said about my mother moved me deeply. The greatest significance of illness is to cherish, reminding us to cherish every moment with people around us. My previous relationship was awkward. Until three years ago, I had breast cancer. After the painful process of surgery and chemotherapy, I began to re-examine my family relationship and found that our relationship was not that bad. We love each other, but everyone wants each other to pay for their own needs. In this process, my husband and I have grown a lot, and my husband has changed a lot. He took good care of me and made our marriage step by step towards happiness and harmony. This is my experience and I will share it with you.

Teacher Wei Tong's voice:

Thank you, thank you! Never mind, I didn't want to tell you at first, but I saw you doing exercises today and I wanted to share it with you. Well, actually, I really want to be with my mother during the operation. You don't have to feel guilty, ever, not just for this training camp. Of course, I really hope that the training camp will be continuous and everyone will have a better experience. Well, I contacted the mayor hotline in Changchun. I contacted the mayor's hotline and they just gave me a reply. Let me tell you about it. Needless to say, everyone came to persuade me, because many students urged me to go back in private letters. Well, even if I go back now, I can't go to the hospital. I can't stay outside the operating room either. Because I asked that clearly, Beijing is an epidemic, and it is called a city in danger. After I go back, I will be isolated at home 14 days, whether by car, plane or any means of transportation. So it means I can't go to the hospital when I go back. They are very strict about it. So since I can't accompany me in the hospital when I go back, I'd better say I'm down to earth in Beijing now, because there are only five classes to attend. There are also five video lessons and two live broadcasts. I want to stay at home, and at the same time I am looking after my mother. No problem. Then we will give you a good and complete experience to end this training camp.

Thank you, thank you. Let's finish this training camp together, and then let's receive training for 28 consecutive days. Whether you punch in or not, because some students told me all kinds of situations privately, there is no way to punch in; There is no way to punch in. He said that he also took classes and practiced by himself, because the whole experience was accompanied by a team leader. I am with you, so we should make full use of the 28-day training camp and set aside 28 days to practice our inner and outer, that is, non-verbal language and self-empowerment ability.

Thank you for your blessing, thank you for your blessing. Actually, I trust my mother, too. Several times, it was a close call. Several times, I believe she is fine. And I showed her pathological results to many experts in Beijing and Shanghai, and they all said it was good. Ok, thank you! Nothing! Let's get into the course. Tonight and tomorrow night's two live broadcasts, I later sent two live broadcasts, and it is normal to show them to my parents.

Besides, what I want to say tonight is live broadcast. As you know, that classmate posted about the children jumping off a building in Xiamen during the epidemic that day. I also learned that during our stay in Beijing, there were two suicides among junior high school students. In fact, this topic was originally intended to be heard. Tonight's live class, I want to talk about the development of the brain first, including why junior high school students are particularly easy? It is particularly easy to cope with the inevitable pain with suicide, or brain development, or emotions. What does it matter? And how to use NVC, that is, how parents can hear the emotional language that children don't say. How to listen to children's voices? So tonight, tomorrow night, Ben will be broadcast live. Is the founder of our PC alliance. President Ma also told me that if we want to stop the live broadcast, we should not send a notice. I said don't stop, don't stop, no problem. Because this live broadcast is also continuous, everyone heard it last Saturday and Sunday, and it will continue this Saturday and Sunday. Then there is another connection. After a long time, he, he. I forgot the first two. It's normal to broadcast live tonight and tomorrow night. I will upload the code. Thank you. No problem.

What teacher Zhang just said about my mother moved me deeply. The greatest significance of illness is to cherish, reminding us to cherish every moment with people around us. My previous relationship was awkward. Until three years ago, I had breast cancer. After the painful process of surgery and chemotherapy, I began to re-examine my family relationship and found that our relationship was not that bad. We love each other, but everyone wants each other to pay for their own needs. In this process, my husband and I have grown a lot, and my husband has changed a lot. He took good care of me and made our marriage step by step towards happiness and harmony. This is my experience and I will share it with you.

203 Qin tea:

What teacher Zhang just said about my mother moved me deeply. The greatest significance of illness is to cherish, reminding us to cherish every moment with people around us. My previous relationship was awkward. Until three years ago, I had breast cancer. After the painful process of surgery and chemotherapy, I began to re-examine my family relationship and found that our relationship was not that bad. We love each other, but everyone wants each other to pay for their own needs. In this process, my husband and I have grown a lot, and my husband has changed a lot. He took good care of me and made our marriage step by step towards happiness and harmony. This is my experience and I will share it with you.

(3) Live broadcast of "Understanding what the child didn't say" from 8: 00 pm to 9: 00 pm.

Enter the live broadcast room at 8: 00 pm on time,1more than 600 parents, teachers and some students watched the live broadcast online. As usual, Mr. Wei Tong listened attentively. Judging from the tragic cases of junior high school students' suicide during the epidemic, parents and teachers must learn to understand what their children have not said. And from the perspective of brain science and psychology, we have insight into cases that need in-depth analysis, so that we can understand the importance of listening. She told everyone that only by listening carefully can we hear the needs behind the content and emotions.

Just after the live broadcast, a good friend sent a message: the live broadcast of Professor Zhang that our family watched together was said to have gained a lot and was very enlightening.

Yes, listening to teacher Wei Tong's lecture is a kind of cure-every sentence enters the heart, the spring breeze melts the rain and soothes the soul. ...