Jason said that although her behavior was particularly outrageous to outsiders, she actually thought she was not wrong. My mother-in-law deserves all this, and she has no obligation to support her former mother-in-law. It's been almost ten years since she divorced her husband, and the reason why she is still called her mother-in-law is just because of etiquette.

Sister Zhang said that she was sensible and had no obligation to support her former mother-in-law, because most of her misfortunes in this life were brought to her by her former mother-in-law. Her lack of revenge is the greatest tolerance, let alone support her.

Sister Zhang said that it was love at first sight when she met her husband in college. Her husband's family is from the city, and their family conditions are particularly good. She came from a small mountain village, with a poor family and two younger brothers. It is also for this reason that her mother-in-law has always opposed their marriage, looked down on Jason, and said that Jason was not good enough for her son. She even said that Jason was a "devil-killer" who stared at her family's money and would surely defeat her family in the future.

Although the former mother-in-law has been preventing and opposing, but Jason was pregnant at that time, so the former mother-in-law did not stop the marriage, because the former mother-in-law looked down on her and got in the way, so when Jason got married, there was no bride price, no brick ring, and she could only get married naked.

After marriage, Jason thought that her mother-in-law would never abandon her, because after all, she was a family. But when Jason later gave birth to a daughter, her mother-in-law flew into a rage and seized the opportunity to scold Jason, saying that she was worthless and could not even have a son. She even said that she was losing money. At that time, Zhang Jie was particularly wronged, so she often complained to her husband, but for these things,

Although her mother-in-law asked her to get pregnant and have a son as soon as possible, Jason didn't agree, because she was afraid of having another daughter, because her mother-in-law and husband were particularly patriarchal.

At that time, in order to please her mother-in-law, Jason was very kind to her mother-in-law, obedient and almost closer than her own daughter. Jason thought she could influence her mother-in-law with her heart. But even if Jason paid more, her mother-in-law looked down on her and even threatened her: "If Jason can't have a son next, then divorce immediately."

It was her mother-in-law's words that completely angered Jason, so Jason could not bear to part with her mother-in-law for a few days. The quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at home is very serious. It was also in that gloomy day that her ex-husband had an affair. That woman is the boss of her ex-husband. She is rich and not old enough to have children.

For these reasons, the mother-in-law tried her best to persuade her son to divorce, and even coerced Jason not to drag down her son's life. Finally, Jason broke up peacefully. She took her daughter and got half of the marital property.

Jason still remembers how happy her mother-in-law was on the day when her husband and wife got the divorce certificate, and even ridiculed Jason, saying, "The future is finally quiet, and you finally got rid of the money-losing goods. You can't have a son, others can. "

After the divorce, Zhang Jie did not remarry, because she was afraid of meeting such a mean mother-in-law, so her life with her daughter was particularly hard. At that time, Zhang Jie thought that she would never see her ex-husband again in her life, but she didn't know that in the ninth year of her divorce, her ex-mother-in-law actually came to the door and asked her to support the elderly!

Sister Zhang said that when she met her ex-mother-in-law, her ex-mother-in-law changed a lot, because she couldn't find her previous strength on her face, and her face was more sad for the elderly. Only after asking did I know that my mother-in-law was driven out by her daughter-in-law. Because her daughter-in-law also gave birth to a daughter, she said a few more words, was scolded by her daughter-in-law on the spot, and then was driven out. Her son didn't dare to say anything about it, because her son is a subordinate of her daughter-in-law, so no one cares about her now.

That day, when she was talking, her former mother-in-law cried, complaining to her about how cruel and mean her daughter-in-law is now, complaining about how timid her son is, and then exaggerating her sister's kindness, saying that she was blind at the beginning, so that Jason must forgive her. On that day, Jason thought that her former mother-in-law came to her just to apologize to her and then to complain. Because the former mother-in-law bought a lot of things, as the saying goes, I can't see my fingers, so Jason didn't drive her away from the beginning.

But then her mother-in-law's words made Jason put down all her thoughts directly, took out all the presents, and then drove her mother-in-law out of the house. Because that day, my ex-mother-in-law actually said to Jason, "Daughter-in-law, my mother knows that you are a good person, so please give me a pension! Hearing this sentence from her mother-in-law's mouth, Jason felt particularly ridiculous, so she did not leave any feelings. She said directly to her mother-in-law: "Aunt, please respect yourself. We got divorced. I am not your daughter-in-law and you are not my mother-in-law. Why should I give you a pension? "

Also because of Jason's refusal, the former mother-in-law rolled around her door, insisting that if something happened to her, it was Jason's fault. Finally, Jason hired a security guard and drove away her former mother-in-law. It is precisely because of Jason's actions that her former mother-in-law smeared Jason everywhere, saying that Jason was ungrateful, saying that she took Zhang Jie as her own daughter and gave her much property after the divorce, even giving her a hard time with her son, but Jason was heartless and didn't give her a pension.

It is precisely because of the smear of her former mother-in-law that Jason's reputation has brought a lot of trouble. Many people say that Jason is "ungrateful". Jason is too lazy to take a reason, because facts speak louder than words. Many people know how hard she has worked these years, so she has a clear conscience. Sister Zhang asked me, "Are you doing the right thing? She is afraid that the woman will be unhappy. "

Bian Xiao has something to say:

In my opinion, I think Sister Zhang did the right thing, because she really has no obligation to support her former mother-in-law. As she said, they have nothing to do with each other. Why should they support her?

Besides, Jason doesn't have to bear any burden at all. Even if something happens to her mother-in-law, it doesn't matter to Jason, because they are strangers and no one is qualified to make irresponsible remarks.

Jason's former mother-in-law deserved everything she got. If Jason hadn't been hurt so maliciously, she wouldn't have fallen to the point where she had no pension and no home. Everything she got was culpable of punishment and not worthy of sympathy at all. Jason's former mother-in-law found Jason because Zhang Jie was so kind and soft-hearted that she decided to eat Jason, so she was sloppy.

Maybe someone will even persuade Jason to forgive him after seeing this, saying that things have passed, and the old man knew he was wrong and apologized, if Jason could help or not.

In my opinion, if an apology is useful, what is the need for the law? People who can say these words are easy to talk to. They haven't experienced everything of others, but just join in the fun, so they will say these sarcastic words.

The Analects of Confucius: "Or, how about good for evil"? Confucius said, "How to repay virtue"? "complain straight, repay kindness with kindness."

Someone asked Confucius, "How about I repay my bad with good or good?"? "? Confucius said, "If you do this, what will you use to repay those who are kind to you?"? "? Of course, whoever hits you, you hit him, and whoever is good to you, you are good to him. "

You see, even Confucius can't repay evil with good, so how can we mortals do it? Therefore, "the wicked still want the wicked to grind." Sister Zhang's former mother-in-law is karma.

There is a good saying: "Ten years to see your grandmother, ten years to see your daughter-in-law", so for your mother-in-law, your attitude towards your daughter-in-law today may be the attitude your daughter-in-law will treat you later, so be kind and tolerant to your daughter-in-law, and leave a way out for your future. As the saying goes, to be a man is to stay on the sidelines and want to see it later.