Speaking of yin and yang, everyone is certainly familiar with it. We have encountered such people more or less in our lives. Such people can make you unable to avoid them as soon as they open their mouths. However, they do not hurt others with their words, but use their words to hurt others.
The sharpness of words is wrapped in a marshmallow that leaves people defenseless. Here are the methods to deal with the yin and yang: 1. Let go and smash him. If he is yin and yang, be direct.
If the other party is yin and yang, they will directly expose the opponent's plan and make the other party feel ashamed. The essence of yin and yang people is that they often do not speak clearly when speaking, and generally do not dare to be too explicit. They only dare to put others in words, and restrain this.
If you like a person, you must use an upright and clear attitude to let him know yourself, to prevent excessive entanglement and being led around.
2. Use a smile and direct verbal attacks.
Faced with this kind of hermaphrodite, ordinary people's approach is to be merciless and poke at the vital points, but keep a smile on their expression.
But if you are a high-ranking player, you can speak directly.
Of course, it is everyone's choice whether they want to verbally attack or not, and at the same time, keep a weird smile to face him.
3. Tai Chi push hands.
A master of Tai Chi knows how to move a thousand pounds in four ounces.
For example, he said: "Look at how fat you are, you are so stupid."
You can answer calmly: "Yes, you need to be broad-minded to gain weight. You are so thin, so you should worry less."
4. Dismissive.
To be dismissive is to imply that you despise his sarcasm, making him feel dejected and embarrassed.
For example, she said: "Look at how you dress yourself up like a fairy."
You can say without raising your head and expressionlessly: "My husband just feels good, it's not for others to see."
5. There is sound outside the string.
As the saying goes, listen to the voice.
Although a person with a venomous tongue is mean, he is still very smart. If there is sarcasm in your words, he will get away with it.
For example, he said: "Every time you are the last, taking your time like a big girl getting into the sedan chair."
You can say sarcastically: "I don't want to show up in front of the leader, so why do I do so actively?"