To take the initiative to chat with girls, you need to deliberately misinterpret, have a thick skin, push and pull words, and have a sense of humor.

1. Deliberate misinterpretation. First, let’s take a look at a set of conversations: Woman: Have you eaten? Man: I originally ate, but seeing your chubby face, I’m hungry again. Woman: Look, my skirt looks good today.

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Man: Oh, if you like me, just tell me. You don’t need to wear a skirt to attract me. This is a typical way of deliberately misinterpreting a girl’s meaning in a chat. It’s the same as ordinary flirting. You can let a girl know in a chat.

Her emotions will have a good ups and downs. When you ignore her hints that she likes you, the girl will subconsciously feel that she is pursuing you, not you pursuing her.

2. Thick-skinned. Since ancient times, beauties love heroes, so when chatting with girls, we can also appropriately play ourselves as a shameless "hero". If we want to pursue the girl we like, we should be bold, careful and cheeky.

Hou, let’s take a look at this conversation: Female: Do you think I’m beautiful?

Man: Beautiful people never say they are beautiful, just like handsome me never say I am handsome.

Woman: Your clothes don’t fit well.

Man: I’m so handsome and my clothes fit me, so I won’t give other boys a way to survive.

Appropriate narcissism can help girls understand you better, and your handsome appearance can instantly attract girls' attention. After all, few boys can praise themselves so shamelessly. Girls will feel that you are special and at the same time, they will feel happy in their hearts.

They will also become curious about you and want to know you better.

3. Push-pull talking skills If you want to enhance your relationship with the girl you like when chatting, you can try push-pull talking skills. For example, don’t blindly please when chatting, but you can belittle the girl appropriately.

For example, "The oil on your face can be used for cooking." At this time, the girl's mood will definitely hit the bottom immediately. When she is about to refute you, you have to pull the girl back in time and give her a playful smile.

Saying "But it still doesn't affect your beauty" will definitely make a girl dumbfounded by you being so naughty, but what is certain is that your weight in her heart must have become much heavier.

4. A soul with a sense of humor is one in a million. The most important thing when chatting with the girl you like is to have a sense of humor. A humorous chat atmosphere can resolve a lot of unnecessary embarrassments and can easily get through the cold scenes.

So when chatting with girls you like, be honest and prepare some funny jokes or emoticons. Use them in time when needed. This will make girls think you are a humorous person. Of course, using these techniques all the time is not the answer.

, only by learning and growing at the same time, letting girls feel your humor all the time, and making her happy, is the long-term solution.

Notes 1. Maintain a sense of mystery. Mystery is a necessary condition for maintaining a relationship. Therefore, if we want to avoid chatting to death when chatting with girls, we should maintain a sense of mystery appropriately when getting along with girls, and don’t let girls be confused from the beginning.

Understand you completely, and don't let girls get too close to you. A distant relationship is the only condition for you to get closer.

2. When a girl starts to like chatting with you, or she becomes more enthusiastic when you chat every day, it means that she has become accustomed to your existence. At this time, if you want to make the girl have a better impression of you,

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Or when testing whether a girl likes you or not, you can appropriately ignore her during a chat and wait three to five minutes before replying to your feelings, or you can occasionally give her a pass and see how anxious she is.

You know how she feels about you.