Chatting requires skill, and the external conditions are similar. Some boys can attract the attention of their sisters soon, while others chat to death. Not only did he not get the favor of his girlfriend, but he was rejected by his girlfriend and even blacked out.
Chatting is very important. Good chatting can make girls naturally have the motivation to continue chatting with you. Meaningless chatting will be counterproductive. First of all, ask, can you talk, why do you talk to death? Start chatting first, all from topics of interest. For example, when chatting with a girl, you should know her hobbies, what she likes, the characteristics of dressing, the food she likes, and so on.
Only when a girl is interested in you will she be willing to chat. Has the girl had her hair done recently? What's the change in clothing? What are the characteristics? You can talk about your likes and opinions. Girls like small animals. Then you can talk about the characteristics of this animal. The method of raising this animal is that the girl thinks you are an expert and can give her a reference. She thinks you are valuable to her, but she wants to talk to you about some doubts about her views. You two have established initial trust, and she is willing to talk about her interests.
If you have a topic, you can talk about anything, from TV series to which clothes the stars wear. You can talk a little. Make girls feel that you know a lot, are interested in you, and can further deepen the conversation, make the conversation easier, update the topic widely, and make some appropriate humorous jokes? Can be put in conversation, as long as it can make a girl laugh, she is willing to continue talking with you and thinks you are an interesting and mysterious boy.
Don't be too eager for success, play hard to get, and do all kinds of tricks. Your girlfriend will eventually fall in love with you and take the initiative to talk to you. When the time is ripe, you can deepen the topic and deepen the goodwill of both sides. You can date slowly and make your girlfriend fall in love with you through hard work.