First, there is indeed such a polarization phenomenon, that is, mom and dad only care about one end. What does it mean to be single-minded? This is what we often see. Some people are not only worried about their careers, they don't care about their family situation at all. Some people just care about their own family affairs, and they are not motivated by their own development scenarios and careers. This is a very common image now. The reason why netizens comment on polarization is probably because of the universality of this phenomenon. It is true that there has been such an atmosphere since a long time ago. Actually this is very wrong. No matter who you are, you should take care of your family and career at the same time, because everyone's development plan is similar, and it is impossible to give up another one for one reason. Therefore, polarization should be criticized and improved.
Secondly, the idea of polarization now affects not only the young but also the old. The reason why netizens comment like this is because in fact, in daily life, some people's ideological education is very good. They think they should take care of their family and career at the same time, but the old people at home don't think so. They think that men should strive for their careers and earn a lot of money to support their families, so that girls don't have to go out to work as coolies. They just do housework at home, cook for their husbands and look after the children. Many people are forced to have bipolar disorder because of the elderly.
Third, the reason why netizens comment like this is to attract everyone's attention and completely correct such thoughts and behaviors through social forces. Because such a phenomenon cannot be changed by the state and cannot be clearly defined. So we can only rely on everyone's strength to change everyone's thinking and correct social phenomena. Only by working together can we put an end to such phenomena and ideas, so we must definitely adopt some star civilians and star performances.